Rising signs/eyebrows & eye shapes?

[Southpaw]

Originally Posted by theV

What leo decan am i ?

1st Decan or the Leo Decan if we go by that chart

[may28gemini]

Originally Posted by summer92

Do you have any planets in Sagittarius? or Aquarius?

i have sagittarius in neptune and nothing in aquarius. why do you ask about those particular signs?

[may28gemini]

Originally Posted by sequestra

My mum's personality seems to largely vacillate between that scorpionic intensity and geminian sense of humor/fun/mischief. She's 60 now but still runs around all day, everyday, doing a bunch of activities (yoga, horseriding, pilates, book club, women's association, meditation, etc) and can't bear to spend too much time at home. Variety is key for her. She's one of those people who is great in small doses, and who only really likes to see others in small doses too. If she spends too much time with anyone, they start to make her irascible. She is also divisive, which is the largely the scorp/martian side, though I've also read that gemini suns often need to meet their "dark twin" in others, too. People love her or hate her, scarcely anything in between.

i never met your mom, but i really like her already LOL she sounds like the me!!!! actually, i get along with other gemini suns quite well...regardless of their other planets. my best friend is a gemini and for several years, we saw each other everyday and were inseparable. i don't think we really got on each others' nerves because we spent that much time together, but i think it was because our maturity levels back then were unequal. we've been through separation for quite a long time and came back together. she's really the only person i can say that i'll always be glad to see whether i'm mad at her or not. anyone else that i'm feeling slightly irked will be on my sh*t list and pretty much stay there (taurus mars...so stubborn). i don't use that list to go attacking anyone, it's just a precautionary thing so i know who to avoid if possible.

as for your mom either being the bee's knees or persona non grata, it's the same way with me. people either are fascinated with me and want to keep in touch with me or they'd like to see my head on a platter. i'm not someone who invokes lukewarm responses and i can definitely tell that your mom isn't either from what you've said about her!!

you're quite right about geminis meeting their shadows in others. gemini is the only air sign that's in good relation with the sun (libra fallen, aquarius opposition). so by that note, geminis are quite content with themselves. it's not to say we think the world of ourselves or anything, but we do accept our faults and roll with it. because of that "comfortable" position we have with our ego, we're not going to plunge into "darkness," unless we encounter others whom we actually view as "dark" and we mimic them in a sort of ummm... schismatic way to bring things out in the open. gemini is not a dark energy... it's often considered "neutral" but i would say it falls under the "light" energy because geminis do have the ability to bring out the truth but not because we wish to anger anyone, it's not out of malice. as a matter of fact, we don't really care about others' feelings to be exact- not because we're insensitive, it's because we think that no one is special or extraordinary. we just do it because it has to be done no matter how difficult it is for others to take. most would rather shoot the messenger than be angry at the source that caused the bad news. well, that's gemini's karma. we get blamed for saying and doing crazy things but we're not any more guilty of it than others. we're just happen to be out in the open and admit to it. i think that sort of openness is quite scary for most to accept because it's a direct affront to the status quo.

i really hate to admit it but it's really true about what others say about geminis having short attention spans. it's not that i get "bored" of others, it's just that my attention span isn't fixated on anything or anyone in particular by default! i understand that to be a gemini trait but i think a lot of other signs mistaken our sincere spaciness for being flaky. i like going around doing different things, seeing different people, talking to different people; nothing is really a big deal.

[sequestra]

Originally Posted by may28gemini

you're quite right about geminis meeting their shadows in others. gemini is the only air sign that's in good relation with the sun (libra fallen, aquarius opposition). so by that note, geminis are quite content with themselves. it's not to say we think the world of ourselves or anything, but we do accept our faults and roll with it. because of that "comfortable" position we have with our ego, we're not going to plunge into "darkness," unless we encounter others whom we actually view as "dark" and we mimic them in a sort of ummm... schismatic way to bring things out in the open. gemini is not a dark energy... it's often considered "neutral" but i would say it falls under the "light" energy because geminis do have the ability to bring out the truth but not because we wish to anger anyone, it's not out of malice. as a matter of fact, we don't really care about others' feelings to be exact- not because we're insensitive, it's because we think that no one is special or extraordinary. we just do it because it has to be done no matter how difficult it is for others to take. most would rather shoot the messenger than be angry at the source that caused the bad news. well, that's gemini's karma. we get blamed for saying and doing crazy things but we're not any more guilty of it than others. we're just happen to be out in the open and admit to it. i think that sort of openness is quite scary for most to accept because it's a direct affront to the status quo.

Mhmmm I love geminis (moon there conjunct my descendant) and I can't recall meeting one with whom I didn't gel, though of course my mum irritates the **** out of me at times (and I her). She and another gemini I know totally exhibit what you describe here with regard to the "calling out of BS" in others, as well as being candidly honest/open about everything they're about, including their foibles, and I haven't actually met one that displays the "negative potentiality in some for lying". But then maybe they're just so adept at it that I haven't caught on!

I think my mother can tap into the darkness a bit (scorp rising conjunct mars and her gemini stellium in the 8th), but the geminian ability to let go overrides it. She moves on, doesn't dwell.

Originally Posted by may28gemini

i really hate to admit it but it's really true about what others say about geminis having short attention spans. it's not that i get "bored" of others, it's just that my attention span isn't fixated on anything or anyone in particular by default! i understand that to be a gemini trait but i think a lot of other signs mistaken our sincere spaciness for being flaky. i like going around doing different things, seeing different people, talking to different people; nothing is really a big deal.

Yes! Mum is totally this way and so am I tbh. I'm heavily mutable though (sun pisces, sag rising conj jup/uranus, gemini moon, pisces venus/mars). I can be all over the shop and like to relate to a variety of people in a variety of contexts but I don't think I'm flaky at all - at the end of the day I'm very loyal to that special someone and to my family, even when they all $*%! me the hell off.

[may28gemini]

Originally Posted by sequestra

Mhmmm I love geminis (moon there conjunct my descendant) and I can't recall meeting one with whom I didn't gel, though of course my mum irritates the **** out of me at times (and I her). She and another gemini I know totally exhibit what you describe here with regard to the "calling out of BS" in others, as well as being candidly honest/open about everything they're about, including their foibles, and I haven't actually met one that displays the "negative potentiality in some for lying". But then maybe they're just so adept at it that I haven't caught on!

I think my mother can tap into the darkness a bit (scorp rising conjunct mars and her gemini stellium in the 8th), but the geminian ability to let go overrides it. She moves on, doesn't dwell.

Yes! Mum is totally this way and so am I tbh. I'm heavily mutable though (sun pisces, sag rising conj jup/uranus, gemini moon, pisces venus/mars). I can be all over the shop and like to relate to a variety of people in a variety of contexts but I don't think I'm flaky at all - at the end of the day I'm very loyal to that special someone and to my family, even when they all $*%! me the hell off.

wow, if your moon conj desc you must meet a lot geminis! lol you must have had an interesting and crazy childhood with your mom! i haven't met anyone who hasn't said that about their mom if she's a gemini. what is your dad's combo? i'm very curious.

i have pisces moon and i do like pisces people. i think often times, they get bullied and misunderstood. i don't mind the pisces dreaminess and i can understand the need to escape this harsh world. i think maybe that's why i get bullied- because pisces moon often gets victimized. as strange as it goes, when someone bullies me, a person who's jupiterian in nature comes to my rescue. maybe that's because i have 0 libra jupiter in the 1st (whole signs chart) so by virtue, my jupiter is really on the 1st-12th cusps. and because it's libra, it must be balanced: if i get bullied by someone, i get saved by another. if i bully someone, someone else comes along and bullies me. or so i think!

all geminis are capable of double speak. they may say something like calling things on the surface but they might actually be expressing something else in their heads that mimics what was just said. often times that's when a gemini gets confused if you ask them to recall something and they think of something else. it could be lying... i'm not saying that geminis aren't capable of that. but often times, it's accidental. it goes back to the sincere spaciness again

i often think that mutables are most capable of accidentally lying because we're so flexible and open. i'm "heavily" mutable too and all the mutable planets are in cadent houses so they're all "home."- 3 gemini in 9th, 1 sagittarius 3rd, 1 pisces 6th. if i had anything in virgo, i would have had a mutable grand cross...but thankfully, i don't :woot:

[sequestra]

Originally Posted by may28gemini

wow, if your moon conj desc you must meet a lot geminis! lol you must have had an interesting and crazy childhood with your mom! i haven't met anyone who hasn't said that about their mom if she's a gemini. what is your dad's combo? i'm very curious.

Yes! Always had a lot to do with geminis, and they run rampant on my mother's side of the family (which incidentally is afflicted with a lot of mental illness ); life's never boring with a bunch of geminis though, even with one you're getting multiple personas.

Despite the fact that my mum and dad have a ton of synastrical oppositions, they have been married for almost 40 years and truly do balance one another out. My dad is sag sun, sag moon, sag rising, sag mercury, venus scorp, mars cappie. His mars is in the 1st conjunct jupiter, both of which trine saturn in the 10th and though retired now, his career was of extreme importance to him. He has an awesome mars and the cappie influence really does rein him in. While certainly sanguine and sagacious, he is also highly responsible and very loyal. I could go on and on though and it would get very annoying because I think very highly of my father. I love my mum too of course but I guess it's the father/daughter dynamic with him - he's just a really good bloke and everyone likes him.

Originally Posted by may28gemini

i have pisces moon and i do like pisces people. i think often times, they get bullied and misunderstood. i don't mind the pisces dreaminess and i can understand the need to escape this harsh world. i think maybe that's why i get bullied- because pisces moon often gets victimized. as strange as it goes, when someone bullies me, a person who's jupiterian in nature comes to my rescue. maybe that's because i have 0 libra jupiter in the 1st (whole signs chart) so by virtue, my jupiter is really on the 1st-12th cusps. and because it's libra, it must be balanced: if i get bullied by someone, i get saved by another. if i bully someone, someone else comes along and bullies me. or so i think!

That is really interesting concerning the jupiter savior! Insightful way of perceiving it indeed. I'm glad you do have someone who comes to your rescue to correct the balance Do you think that pisces moon is more victimized than pisces sun? I'm not sure about this topic because I don't think I've ever really been victimized. Maybe a little bit when I was young and very shy/malleable, but I toughened up and it certainly never happened after then. I think my mum feels as though she's being attacked a lot, but she has mars on the ascendant and seems to need that sort of action in her life. And come to think of it, I did know another pisces moon who was always feeling very victimized. Hmm, interesting, and I mean it does make sense.

Originally Posted by may28gemini

i often think that mutables are most capable of accidentally lying because we're so flexible and open. i'm "heavily" mutable too and all the mutable planets are in cadent houses so they're all "home."- 3 gemini in 9th, 1 sagittarius 3rd, 1 pisces 6th. if i had anything in virgo, i would have had a mutable grand cross...but thankfully, i don't :woot:

Yeah, I think mutables can often perceive so many sides, flow into so many different containers, and change their minds more readily. I have a fixed mercury, but it gets reception from a trine to my gemini moon, and I'm certainly not the most stable of people.

[geminicancercuspie]

I am a libra rising right on the cusp with first decan and my moon is in Virgo with some harsh aspects, my ascendant is opposing Saturn in the 7th......and my sun is on the cusp of Gemini and cancer. My eye brows are naturally bushy but I plucked them to their minimum so a picture is useless. LOL and my eyes are almond shaped with a hazel green blue color; mostly hazel though. they are hooded, and small.I also have a lot of Gemini in my chart...

[vlsmercury7]

Originally Posted by may28gemini

all geminis are capable of double speak. they may say something like calling things on the surface but they might actually be expressing something else in their heads that mimics what was just said. often times that's when a gemini gets confused if you ask them to recall something and they think of something else. it could be lying... i'm not saying that geminis aren't capable of that. but often times, it's accidental. it goes back to the sincere spaciness again

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Sounds like my husband, who is a Gemini Sun! I have Gemini on my Midheaven, so I meet quite a lot of Gemini Sun people, and in general, get on very well with them. There's so much going on in their heads that they genuinely can't recall much from their short term memory. But ask them about something that happened in the past, and they can name dates, places, times, faces, etc with pinpoint accuracy.

[may28gemini]

Originally Posted by sequestra

Yes! Always had a lot to do with geminis, and they run rampant on my mother's side of the family (which incidentally is afflicted with a lot of mental illness ); life's never boring with a bunch of geminis though, even with one you're getting multiple personas.

Despite the fact that my mum and dad have a ton of synastrical oppositions, they have been married for almost 40 years and truly do balance one another out. My dad is sag sun, sag moon, sag rising, sag mercury, venus scorp, mars cappie. His mars is in the 1st conjunct jupiter, both of which trine saturn in the 10th and though retired now, his career was of extreme importance to him. He has an awesome mars and the cappie influence really does rein him in. While certainly sanguine and sagacious, he is also highly responsible and very loyal. I could go on and on though and it would get very annoying because I think very highly of my father. I love my mum too of course but I guess it's the father/daughter dynamic with him - he's just a really good bloke and everyone likes him.



That is really interesting concerning the jupiter savior! Insightful way of perceiving it indeed. I'm glad you do have someone who comes to your rescue to correct the balance Do you think that pisces moon is more victimized than pisces sun? I'm not sure about this topic because I don't think I've ever really been victimized. Maybe a little bit when I was young and very shy/malleable, but I toughened up and it certainly never happened after then. I think my mum feels as though she's being attacked a lot, but she has mars on the ascendant and seems to need that sort of action in her life. And come to think of it, I did know another pisces moon who was always feeling very victimized. Hmm, interesting, and I mean it does make sense.



Yeah, I think mutables can often perceive so many sides, flow into so many different containers, and change their minds more readily. I have a fixed mercury, but it gets reception from a trine to my gemini moon, and I'm certainly not the most stable of people.

sorry it took me a bit longer to respond. i've been a bit swamped lately.

LOL your parents are gemini and sag OMG that cracks me up. i read that in synastry, it's the oppositions that keep people together, not so much the trines (the well accepted aspect for longer lasting relationships) and forget about the conjuncts cuz that's just a ton of explosions waiting to happen! i think the reasoning about the oppositions being the force that keeps people together is because it's open disagreements which means there's the ability to openly work out problems and issues and that helps people move on together. i'm assuming that since both your parents are quite different people, they know how to work well together and allow space for the other to do their thing. besides, being married for 40 years, you would be like "yeah, whatever. i'll see you later" kind of attitude instead of being possessive and jealous. gemini-sagittarius axis is probably the least jealous and possessive, so i can understand why they've been together for so long. i'm also assuming that since both gemini and sagittarius are very fun oriented, it helps move their relationship along where possibly the fun times overshadows the bad times. both gemini and sagittarius are very forgiving people and we can overlook a lot of bs that a lot of other signs will hold onto. but that's just what i think. correct me if my assessment is off base.

oh, i think your father is really loyal bc of the cap mars. he must be quite handsome because sag rising men (unless there's other factors the lessen it) tend to be quite masculine and handsome. brad pitt is a sagi sun with sagi rising. angelina is a gemini. geez... they've built a family and have been together for a long time. they're bound to stay together for a longer time, despite everyone thinking they're going to explode and break up LOL

as to the question of whether i think it's pisces sun vs pisces moon that gets victimized more? i would say pisces moon gets "victimized" no matter what the sun is. i've met plenty of pisces sun and they have fire moons and they do the bullying LOL! i've seen aries sun with pisces get bullied and break down and cry! when does an aries ever admit defeat?! when they have pisces moon softening their emotional realm. pisces in the moon position is very open and forgiving of a lot of messed up things that most would NOT put up with. i grew up getting pushed around, blamed for many things i wasn't even guilty of, called all sorts of names, and for awhile i was very, very sad and just took it. that's where it goes wrong with pisces moon, we take in everything and feel like we're drowning because we have difficulty finding an outlet to get away from people's negative energies. look at kanye west, he's a gemini with pisces moon. his outlet is to appear to be a cocky b@astard and say a bunch of crazy sh*t but, i've met him when he was in chicago during his days before he really got huge and he was really cool and easy going person. the media portray him as being a cocky fool but how many hip hop artists out there are guilty of that?! he happens to be more famous and get more grief. pisces moon makes the person a bit of a martyr because as soon as the pisces moon stands up for themselves, people think we're being demanding LOL
such bs but oh well. i'm so use to it that it can't phase me anymore. however, i still laugh about this all the time because it is funny how things go!

[sequestra]

Originally Posted by may28gemini

sorry it took me a bit longer to respond. i've been a bit swamped lately.

No worries!

Originally Posted by may28gemini

i think the reasoning about the oppositions being the force that keeps people together is because it's open disagreements which means there's the ability to openly work out problems and issues and that helps people move on together. i'm assuming that since both your parents are quite different people, they know how to work well together and allow space for the other to do their thing. besides, being married for 40 years, you would be like "yeah, whatever. i'll see you later" kind of attitude instead of being possessive and jealous. gemini-sagittarius axis is probably the least jealous and possessive, so i can understand why they've been together for so long. i'm also assuming that since both gemini and sagittarius are very fun oriented, it helps move their relationship along where possibly the fun times overshadows the bad times. both gemini and sagittarius are very forgiving people and we can overlook a lot of bs that a lot of other signs will hold onto. but that's just what i think. correct me if my assessment is off base.

No you are spot on with everything, not a bit wrong in fact. Both of them like their independence and yet are simultaneously loyal where it counts, which I suppose is why it has been able to work so well for so long, despite personalities which are rather different in many other respects. My mother is probably more inclined to jealousy than my father but she has always been the dominant one and if she feels jealous she is paradoxically more likely to push people away rather than cling to them (something I seem to have inherited). My dad is just not a jealous type at all, which I think is a very sag thing... To give an example, a drunk male friend of theirs recently started sucking my mum's thumb at some party and my dad just thought it was hilarious and that he's a "great guy". Similarly, years ago some other male friend of theirs hit on my mum in private and said something to the effect of "I think it's okay for couples to have a bit on the side. What people don't know can't hurt them"... When my dad heard about this he just sort of shrugged and said "ah, he's a funny one". Either this is intense denial on his part or he just feels very assured that my mum wouldn't do such a thing - maybe a bit of both.

Originally Posted by may28gemini

oh, i think your father is really loyal bc of the cap mars. he must be quite handsome because sag rising men (unless there's other factors the lessen it) tend to be quite masculine and handsome. brad pitt is a sagi sun with sagi rising. angelina is a gemini. geez... they've built a family and have been together for a long time. they're bound to stay together for a longer time, despite everyone thinking they're going to explode and break up LOL

Yeah I think dad's loyalty is from the cappie mars, and maybe that scorp venus too (which is conjunct my mum's mars and rising). Funny you mention Brad Pitt - my dad's sun and rising are conjunct Brad's (my ascendant is also *exactly* conjunct Brad's asc), and my dad has often commented on what a ruggedly handsome man Brad is My dad was pretty good looking when he was young, yeah, though apparently largely unaware of it.

Originally Posted by may28gemini

as to the question of whether i think it's pisces sun vs pisces moon that gets victimized more? i would say pisces moon gets "victimized" no matter what the sun is. i've met plenty of pisces sun and they have fire moons and they do the bullying LOL! i've seen aries sun with pisces get bullied and break down and cry! when does an aries ever admit defeat?! when they have pisces moon softening their emotional realm. pisces in the moon position is very open and forgiving of a lot of messed up things that most would NOT put up with. i grew up getting pushed around, blamed for many things i wasn't even guilty of, called all sorts of names, and for awhile i was very, very sad and just took it. that's where it goes wrong with pisces moon, we take in everything and feel like we're drowning because we have difficulty finding an outlet to get away from people's negative energies

Yeah I agree with this. I mean my mother the gemini with pisces moon has a lot of toughness thanks to that scorp rising with mars on the AC, but in many ways I find her way more sentimental and even tender at times than I am myself. I have always been "overly" sensitive, but I never tended to attract hostility from others (in an open sense) that was akin to victimization. My mother meanwhile always copped it in spades (the polarizing effect from scorpio combined with the pisces moon penchant for attracting trouble). You also reminded me that my first serious relationship was with an aries who had a pisces moon and I found him to be a total pushover. I was very immature at the time and wasn't as good to him as I should have been, but I was one of many whom he felt gave him a "raw deal". His demeanor truly invited it... And trust me I know not all pisces moons behave pathetically but **** he did. His was conjunct venus and trine his mars in cancer. I actually used to blame everything on that mars...

[Love2Know]

My eyes are brown and round/almond. Woot My eyebrows are well kept. Leo rising/moon 1st I was once told I have the quintessential brown of brown eyes. Perfectly brown, just brown. BROWN no other hint of any colour nothing just brown. BLam

[Bradders]

I have dark forest green eyes, like a bright sunlight shining through onto a patch of grass. Sometimes I look innocently very child-like and sometimes angry, stern and angry. I'm a Leo Rising with Aquarius Moon.

My eyebrows depend, I think it is when I am in a mood, you can see it in my face. Instantly recognizable. You can tell exactly what I feel from my face. My eyes can be arching inwards, straight, But I reckon the eyebrows are straight whilst sloping a bit at the ends downwards. It all depends really. They show many moods.

[carrotcake]

my eyes are dark blue at the rim and light blue in the middle, oval-ish i think, lashes quite long but annoyingly light in colour. eyebrows slim line and weirdly lighter than my hair colour. I have sagittarius ascendant, virgo moon and pisces sun. I think I look much more piscean/virgoan than sagittarian. Tend to think people look like their sun signs. Leos are the easiest to spot i would say, with distinctive hair and (not always) a sort of over confident exterior inclined to pose. I'd say this is followed by taurus men who more than often look strong and thick-set. Virgos almost always look attractive in a polished yet natural way. Pisceans it's the kind eyes. Cancers look cute and domestic or homely somehow. Libras tend to age very slowly from what i've observed(cliff richard, simon cowel!)

[carrotcake]

not oval-ish, almond-ish *

[nyxisyourfix]

ASC Virgo
Moon Scorpio conj. jupiter
Sun, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Uranus, Neptune stellium in capricorn.
I am 18 but everyone guesses me at 24 or 25 when talking to me. I think my eyes are pretty scorpionic and I have a strong pluto (on IC conjunct NN in scorpio sq. saturn in aquarius.) the one with the dog I was 12.

[sequestra]

Originally Posted by carrotcake

my eyes are dark blue at the rim and light blue in the middle, oval-ish i think, lashes quite long but annoyingly light in colour. eyebrows slim line and weirdly lighter than my hair colour. I have sagittarius ascendant, virgo moon and pisces sun. I think I look much more piscean/virgoan than sagittarian. Tend to think people look like their sun signs. Leos are the easiest to spot i would say, with distinctive hair and (not always) a sort of over confident exterior inclined to pose. I'd say this is followed by taurus men who more than often look strong and thick-set. Virgos almost always look attractive in a polished yet natural way. Pisceans it's the kind eyes. Cancers look cute and domestic or homely somehow. Libras tend to age very slowly from what i've observed(cliff richard, simon cowel!)

Yes!! I am pisces with sag rising too, and I think there are similarities between our eyes. There's a shot of my eyes on my profile thing. You look like the girl who played Sabrina the teenage witch, I forget her name but remember that she is an aries Your eyes are very kind indeed!

ETA pic of my eyes. It's weird cuz I have the almond eye thing too! It must be a pisces thing girl.

[may28gemini]

Originally Posted by vlsmercury7

Sounds like my husband, who is a Gemini Sun! I have Gemini on my Midheaven, so I meet quite a lot of Gemini Sun people, and in general, get on very well with them. There's so much going on in their heads that they genuinely can't recall much from their short term memory. But ask them about something that happened in the past, and they can name dates, places, times, faces, etc with pinpoint accuracy.

LOL you're married to a gemini! well, when my ex and i were married, people laughed at him too

you want to know why we're so awful with short term memory and yet photographic with long term? simple: we've let it all sink in. with short term memory, it's floating around all over the place.

very interesting point about your gemini MC attracting a lot of gemini sun people. i have cancer MC and i don't attract cancer sun people at all. as a matter of fact, i rarely, if ever run into them. hmm...

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Originally Posted by may28gemini

very interesting point about your gemini MC attracting a lot of gemini sun people. i have cancer MC and i don't attract cancer sun people at all. as a matter of fact, i rarely, if ever run into them. hmm...

To keep going on this tangent and changing topic yet again, I never attract cancer people either. What's up with that? It's on my 8th house cusp so I thought I was supposed to. I have MC Leo and my love is a leo but prior to him I'm not sure I attracted them... Did have a few good leo friends in my life though.

[Skywomb]

Originally Posted by nyxisyourfix

ASC Virgo
Moon Scorpio conj. jupiter
Sun, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Uranus, Neptune stellium in capricorn.
I am 18 but everyone guesses me at 24 or 25 when talking to me. I think my eyes are pretty scorpionic and I have a strong pluto (on IC conjunct NN in scorpio sq. saturn in aquarius.) the one with the dog I was 12.

Yes you have.
How tall are/where you anyway, and did it happen before? Since that happens to me all the time (and it has but back then it was more due to my height, magical number of 6'6'' now).
Well anyway I agree with your username, if only I could find an easy fix of that where I live. and use it properly. (then I would for this threads then upcoming hilarity, shave my eyebrows etc )



I think I have quite Cancerian and/or Scoprionic eyes...well water-type ones. Eyebrows...well wait and see.
As for my Capricorn Ascendants role, "hmmmmmmm". Cancer Moon, and all this fun stuff.....

[may28gemini]

Originally Posted by sequestra

No you are spot on with everything, not a bit wrong in fact. Both of them like their independence and yet are simultaneously loyal where it counts, which I suppose is why it has been able to work so well for so long, despite personalities which are rather different in many other respects. My mother is probably more inclined to jealousy than my father but she has always been the dominant one and if she feels jealous she is paradoxically more likely to push people away rather than cling to them (something I seem to have inherited). My dad is just not a jealous type at all, which I think is a very sag thing... To give an example, a drunk male friend of theirs recently started sucking my mum's thumb at some party and my dad just thought it was hilarious and that he's a "great guy". Similarly, years ago some other male friend of theirs hit on my mum in private and said something to the effect of "I think it's okay for couples to have a bit on the side. What people don't know can't hurt them"... When my dad heard about this he just sort of shrugged and said "ah, he's a funny one". Either this is intense denial on his part or he just feels very assured that my mum wouldn't do such a thing - maybe a bit of both.

Yeah I think dad's loyalty is from the cappie mars, and maybe that scorp venus too (which is conjunct my mum's mars and rising). Funny you mention Brad Pitt - my dad's sun and rising are conjunct Brad's (my ascendant is also *exactly* conjunct Brad's asc), and my dad has often commented on what a ruggedly handsome man Brad is My dad was pretty good looking when he was young, yeah, though apparently largely unaware of it.

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL OMG your mom is like the extreme version of me! i'm not a jealous person, but when i sense that there's the possibility of rejection, i will be the first one to oppose vocally. i will push, kick, shove others away first because it would really pi$$ me off to allow myself to be rejected. i don't know if your mom feels that way, but it's quite possible being that she has scorpio rising and i have pluto in the 1st.

now, as for your parents' fidelity, i won't comment on it because i don't know them. however, i will draw up a similar glimpse from my own relationship files. the first person i was with after my divorce was with a sagittarius capricorn sagittarius and it was really fun... for the most part. the other part that was not-so-fun was because of the cap moon being cold and then my pisces moon gets fed up and left him for good. the thing was, we were really wrapped up in each other. like your father, ted (his name) had an earth mars, virgo... in the 10th house! he had no troubles being the best at everything he did, no issues racking up $$$ (a lot of it was investments). he was tall (6'2"), thin and toned, manly, handsome (neptune on asc), and did everything i wanted. it sorta bothered me a bit, but he was willing to do everything that i tell him to do. he took care of me, didn't care if i worked or didn't work. he allowed me to do everything i wanted and i allowed him a lot of freedom as well. he always paid for everything, never thought about not having money, we just kept spending money like there's no tomorrow. we were quite inseparable and cried when we had to part (as odd as you may think with opposite signs). he had carried a torch for me for years and even though at the time i was with my leo, he tried to barge in numerous times and steal me LOL much to the leo's anger and jealousy! ted's venus is in late capricorn which forms a close trine to my late taurus mars. the men that i've been involved with that go nuts for me have cap venus trine my taurus mars (seems to be the right formula for me). anyway, much to say the least, we had a very explosive romance and we kinda moved in together very fast because he was talking marriage and kids and was really excited about us. he had never been excited about anyone but me, i was the light at the end of his tunnel, i was his ideal of the woman for him.

well i brought all that up because in many ways, i can understand your dad's apparent lack of "awareness." i don't think he's really unaware, i think that he really is super close to your mom and although they've had 40 years together, it may not feel that long to him and he doesn't want to think about troubles that could endanger that feeling of "forever" with the woman that really rocked his world (his scorpio venus conj your mom's scorpio mars). i remember ted told me, "please, don't ever leave me. if i'm stupid, just beat me up, but don't ever leave me." instead of beating him up, i chose to leave him (unlike your mom, i have libra rising which HATES confrontations). looking back on things, i knew i missed out on a life with ted that sounds so very similar to your parents'.

[brooke24]

This is a Pisces ascendant eyes

[sequestra]

Originally Posted by may28gemini

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL OMG your mom is like the extreme version of me! i'm not a jealous person, but when i sense that there's the possibility of rejection, i will be the first one to oppose vocally. i will push, kick, shove others away first because it would really pi$$ me off to allow myself to be rejected. i don't know if your mom feels that way, but it's quite possible being that she has scorpio rising and i have pluto in the 1st.

Yeah she's exactly like that. She has a ton of pride and is very self protective (catch phrase for scorpio, really). Also prefers to take calculated risks when it comes to attacking others, but at times mars on the ascendant throws that off and in spite of the sign in which they're placed she just goes at it in a gung-ho martian manner anyway. She's very adept at the "sting" in a way that is both geminian and scorpionic - concise verbal lashings which really put people in their place. I'm making her sound horrible here lol, but she really isn't - she's a complex personality with a ton of awesome sides to her. "Duality" all the way.

Originally Posted by may28gemini

i knew i missed out on a life with ted that sounds so very similar to your parents'.

Oh my gosh you tell such sad stories!! Thank you for sharing it but ****, so sad!! WHY did you break up with Ted? He really did sound so **** nice, and SO INTO YOU, why?! I mean yes the cappie moon is not a fave of mine either tbh yet you know his feelings for you were so sincere. You were his ideal!! You independent girl, you. Is he still single? Has that ship definitely sailed? Trust me, my parents have a great life together, maybe you should reconsider... I mean it sounds like you actually were in love with him. You complicated creature. I understand it and have made similar calls in the past myself but ****, you told the story too well and I want a happier ending

[may28gemini]

Originally Posted by sequestra

Yeah she's exactly like that. She has a ton of pride and is very self protective (catch phrase for scorpio, really). Also prefers to take calculated risks when it comes to attacking others, but at times mars on the ascendant throws that off and in spite of the sign in which they're placed she just goes at it in a gung-ho martian manner anyway. She's very adept at the "sting" in a way that is both geminian and scorpionic - concise verbal lashings which really put people in their place. I'm making her sound horrible here lol, but she really isn't - she's a complex personality with a ton of awesome sides to her. "Duality" all the way.

Oh my gosh you tell such sad stories!! Thank you for sharing it but ****, so sad!! WHY did you break up with Ted? He really did sound so **** nice, and SO INTO YOU, why?! I mean yes the cappie moon is not a fave of mine either tbh yet you know his feelings for you were so sincere. You were his ideal!! You independent girl, you. Is he still single? Has that ship definitely sailed? Trust me, my parents have a great life together, maybe you should reconsider... I mean it sounds like you actually were in love with him. You complicated creature. I understand it and have made similar calls in the past myself but ****, you told the story too well and I want a happier ending

LOLOLOLOLOL the way your describe your mom is really hilarious. i want to watch her in action and destroy people.

as for me and ted, i felt like it wasn't right. i didn't see nor feel like i wanted to spend a lot of time with him nor want to put up with the cap moon that loves being cold towards others. it seemed like i was "in love" with him but i didn't actually love him, not truly. i tried to and i fooled myself into thinking i did but didn't really feel it. when i faced reality, i owned up to it and gently told him we had to part ways permanently. i am not an emotionally needy person and to me, capricorn moon people are very emotionally needy but can't own up to it. i know that if i was with him longer, i'd end up cheating and i'm not a cheater, not even thought of it with anyone i was with. but with ted, i knew it would be imminent that his ways would drive me to cheating. i have a first house saturn that conjuncts my asc. i have to keep myself disciplined and morally upright all the time and probably at all costs. losing ted wasn't that big of a deal to me. i just wanted him to find someone who'll love him back with as much as fire as he gave. that person wasn't me and it never was me, so i wanted to be honest to him. unfortunately, he took it really badly.

[sequestra]

Originally Posted by may28gemini

as for me and ted, i felt like it wasn't right. i didn't see nor feel like i wanted to spend a lot of time with him nor want to put up with the cap moon that loves being cold towards others. it seemed like i was "in love" with him but i didn't actually love him, not truly. i tried to and i fooled myself into thinking i did but didn't really feel it. when i faced reality, i owned up to it and gently told him we had to part ways permanently. i am not an emotionally needy person and to me, capricorn moon people are very emotionally needy but can't own up to it. i know that if i was with him longer, i'd end up cheating and i'm not a cheater, not even thought of it with anyone i was with. but with ted, i knew it would be imminent that his ways would drive me to cheating. i have a first house saturn that conjuncts my asc. i have to keep myself disciplined and morally upright all the time and probably at all costs. losing ted wasn't that big of a deal to me. i just wanted him to find someone who'll love him back with as much as fire as he gave. that person wasn't me and it never was me, so i wanted to be honest to him. unfortunately, he took it really badly.

You did the right thing, the fair and mature thing, but yeah I can imagine that he took it badly nonetheless. My ego/pride would have taken that really badly too. That kind of honesty can hurt like hell, but it's certainly better in the long run. I hope that you both find partners who are just as passionate about you as you are about them

[persephone5]

Hmmm, not sure on my eye shape. In-between round and almond I think. My eyebrows are very prominent.

Leo rising with saturn and pluto square asc, moon opp. First decant of Leo for those interested.



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