My First Horary: Should I try to...

StillOne · #1 07-30-2012, 01:00 PM

This is my first horary question that I've posted. The question is: Should I try to restart a romantic relationship with my Ex?

Some background info: We've had an on-again-off-again relationship for a couple of years. She prompted huge realizations and growth in me which, in part, led me to this forum in the first place. I've done considerable introspection and work on myself as a result.

I've thought about this question for over a month now and I've restrained from initiating contact. So, I suppose it's safe to say that I miss her and wonder if I try and contact her, if it's the right move for me. In the past I've had such mixed emotions but always felt that we could be happy together given that we work out some things initially.

In the chart that was generated June 25th, I suppose that I would be Saturn. This is a 7th house question so I gather she would be represented by the Moon. So Saturn is conjunct the MC in Libra which I feel would hold some significance. The Moon is conjunct Mars in Virgo which I'm not sure how I feel about... Other than that, the Moon is largely unaspected.

Any insight would certainly be appreciated! Thank you for your time. I can include other charts on request.

Best,
S1

anny · #2 07-30-2012, 09:14 PM

You are represented by Saturn and Pluto, plus Moon. Your planets don`t apply contacts with his planets

He is represented by Moon, Sun and Mercury. His planets are applying contact with your planets. Sun will make an opposition with your Pluto - nothing good, maybe manipulating with you and then square with your Saturn - nothing good, maybe making you feel insecure or undervalued.

Eventually his Mercury will make a sextile with your Saturn, but this seems more like a common business or everyday contact rather than something romantic.

StillOne · #3 07-30-2012, 09:29 PM

Thank you Anny for your response.

It's interesting that Pluto plays a role here as it did in our synastry too. Manipulation and control was indeed a theme and was the cause for separation in the first place!

StillOne · #4 08-30-2012, 01:49 AM

Well when we did meet last weekend it was incredibly intense... I think that can be explained by the Pluto conjunct the Ascendant opposing the Sun in this Horary...

I mean, this relationship is so Plutonian it's crazy! I have recent posts asking about her Pluto Square my Asc in Synastry. In our composite, Pluto opposes the Moon. It is incredibly intense and transformative! I don't know whether to laugh or cry...

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daco · #5 08-30-2012, 05:49 AM

I think you are represented by Saturn
while she is signified by Moon (ruler of the VII) and Sun (planet on the cusp of the VII).

Moon and Sun don't have aspects to Saturn, so I find hard to believe you are going back togheter. The reason is that the Moon is really next to Mars: she probably already has someone else or -since the aspect is applying- she probably will meet someone before you can get back togheter.

Let me know!
Ciao
D.

rafaella · #6 08-30-2012, 03:10 PM

I agree with Daco...Your ruler is Saturn, very well dignified and on the MC. While she is Moon, about to conjucnt Mars, her 5th ruler. It could be that she has someone else as well. Moon does not aspect with Saturn, your ruler.

In general Moon/Mars combination will just give you frustration and anger, emotional outbursts, nothing romantic or sweet. So if you attempt to get involved with her, it will just end in frustration and unhappiness.

Pluto aspects in synastry may imply power and control issues...not really what you want in a longterm happy relationship. But of course if you can get past the issues, your growth will be tremendous...

Your chart is now 2 months old, you may ask again after sometime to see if there is a future for you together.

Best wishes!

StillOne · #7 08-30-2012, 03:44 PM

Thanks for the comments!

Very interesting about there potentially being another man... I did speak to her on her birthday (aug 17th) and she mentioned that she had wished I was there as the wrong man was walking her home...

The emotions have been crazy crazy! Lots of outbursts, anger, frustration... manipulation is heavy heavy. It has turned me completely off... beyond the point of return.

I can only suspect another highly karmic lesson here... nothing romantic will follow between us at this point.

Very nice predictions by everyone. Thanks for the help!