Please help me: Is he going to marry this other woman??

[NJGirl]

Hi everyone:

I have been madly in love with this guy and we went back and forth for quite a while. In the meantime he got involved with someone else
When I analyzed his natal chart it showed that his marriage partner could be a few years older than him (which fits her description)

Can someone please look at my horary chart and see if he's gonna really marry her??? Thank you sooooo much!!!

http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?c...rbp=&rs=0&ast=

[NJGirl]

Can someone help? Please ;-(

[LillyLane]

Hi,

I think he still has feelings for you as his mars is in your first house of libra. You are venus, and his sun is going into leo- maybe he is really thinking of himself!!

Just a guess but if you guys were off and on for awhile, and he just got out of that with you...and into now this other girl....unless she is pushy about marriage. I don't think or see from this chart Marriage anytime soon. Saturn is also in 1st house which is delays....so maybe don't worry right now.

How does he react to you? Is he respectful of his girlfriend? because many times a women has a "gut" feeling. If you guys do not have any contact. You may just assume to let him lead his life. IMO....

Having anxiety is something I understand, but try to work on what is on hand now. Like having contact with him, communication and a working relationship.

Ps, I should take my own advice cause I also jump the gun too

[NJGirl]

LillyLane;

Thank you soooooo much for your reply. We went back and forth since last summer, and she's been in the picture the entire time unfortunately. According to what he says, he feels responsible to help her and her kids being that she is in a very difficult financial and emotional position. But the woman is a real manipulator and always got in the way when we tried to get our relationship together. We haven't been talking for the past 2 months. We do have feelings for each other and were best friends before we fell in love. So we have a long history.
Someone told me that he could be contacting me soon because of the Mars in my 1. house. Also, they said she is hiding something from him (Moon in the 12th). Do you think so?

Thank you very much again!!

[NJGirl]

LlllyLane
I was thinking about this Sa in the first house. Could it mean that he's lying to me too?
Thanks :-)

[LillyLane]

Well, from my experience with my own charts with saturn in the first, it usually shows for me 1, a delay- so you won't find out for a couple of months and 2. it is not what you thought....

so in my opinion- you can either let it go and see what happens, or exercise free will and just try to do something about it.

It would be nice if another astrologer could give their opinion. I am 3 years studying horary and I just learn by my own charts....so it is hard for me to say, but this is how it works for me and they usually say in the books that it does not work out to your liking when saturn is in the first....which is true...but for me it usually just is like a watered down drink. I get it, but not exactly like I want it.