Predicting love

[MantisReligiosa]

Here's an article I found on predicting the time you'll find a "special someone":

http://www.cafeastrology.com/astrolo...tionships.html

According to this, the Sun/Moon midpoint is possibly the most important factor, and should be "activated" by transits from Saturn and/or Jupiter.

Also, the rulers of the 5th and 7th houses...

Anyway, here are a few of my personal dilemmas.
First of all, how large should the orb be for an aspect to a midpoint? I think the norm is 2 degrees, max, in natal chart calculations.
Maybe in transits, more is allowed?

Anyway, I met someone I just liked on the spot on feb 28th, but cannot say it was love at first sight...At the time, I had a lot on my mind and really couldn't think of anything lovey-dovey, or anything..but I just remember thinking "what an interesting man"-which, believe me, is a big deal for a raging femi-nazi such as myself. Anyway, I did think he was cute, but left it at that..the thought slipped to the back of my mind. But I saw him a few times since(actually, just 2 more times..and the last one was intentionally provoked by me) , and now, cannot stop thinking about him..anyway, my Sun/Moon midpoint is 26 Libra, and at the time I met him, Saturn was at 29 Libra, so it is close to a conjunction, maybe not the tightest, but it is.

Also, Saturn happens to be the ruler of my 5th house, and conjunct Neptune, ruler of my 7th house.

Which brings me to my second question...if Pisces is on your 5th or 7th, is Neptune to be considered the house ruler, or is it Jupiter, or should I look at both?

Anyway, it's weird, because I barely know anything about this man, and on top of everything, I found out last week that he has a girlfriend. I have no idea how long they've been together or anything.
But by the way he looks/talks to me, I can tell I'm not indifferent to him, either.

I guess I'm wondering if anything will come out of this, or if I'm just delusional.
I hate the idea of pursuing a "taken" man, but, then, I don't wanna be a coward who lets love pass her by.
I should probably mention that I'm not the type that develops infatuations on a regular basis.
In fact, I cannot remember the last time I've looked at a man and thought I'd like to get to know him better.

I'm curious about your relationships..any Saturn transits to the Sun/Moon midpoint? lol

[astro11]

I would check outer planet transits (Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune and Pluto) to the rulers of your 5th and 7th houses, plus any planets in those houses and Venus and Mars at the time you first met this guy. If the majority are hard aspects, it will be a challenging relationship that probably will not last long term. If the majority are easy, it could turn out to be a happy, longlasting relationship. This is one general rule to be taken into consideration with numerous other factors. However, the astrology of whether a relationship will be compatible and longlasting is much too complicated for one post.

[virgo18]

This year 2011-2012 I tried to find when I will meet a special someone with the transits aspecting my 5th and 7th house rulers. It is supposed that the "meeting will happen" when such rulers are aspected by transits at 2nd or 3rd time. Mostly the 1st aspect won't bring anything. Also it is said that the meeting also occur when the transit is separating, short time after the transit was made.
Supposedly I had to met someone in April, then in June: I didn't met anyone attractive to me.
I am almost in the ending of my actual SR, in the 52 days before the next one, so this year wasn't lucky in that love matters for me.

I look out for my Solar Return 2011-12, and I realized that the rulers of the 7th and 1st weren't conjoined by an aspect. Will that be the reason why I didn't met anybody?
Despite the SR Vertex was conjuncted with my Natal Vertex, The SR moon fell on my natal 7th, SR Sun and Mars conjuncted natal Mercury: Nothing!

Oh yeah! This year was a hell with my ex worst-is-nothing. We cut off a couple of days ago, and we dumped each other several times in this year. I think this is really over. WHY? T-Pluto and T-Uranus were squaring and Opposing my natal mercury in libra (ruler of my 7th house), plus T-Uranus also transiting my 5th house. Uranus hited my Mercury in 2011 by first time and I dumped him, then we returned and Pluto squared my Mercury in January again and I dumped him, and now Pluto is going RX exactly squaring my mercury again so I dumped him again and as this is the 3rd time the ruler of my 7th is badly aspected.. I swear this is over forever and for good.

I looked for the relationship with my first boyfriend (not the dude which I dumped days ago, this is other one) which was in 2006, it was a very special person for me and we were very committed, but it was my 1st dude and I didn't planned to get married with him.
Well I look for my 2006-2007 SR and the rulers of 7th and 1st were united by a conjunction.

Fortunately my next SR 2012-13 looks better, and Jupiter will be transiting my natal 7th house for 1 and a half year:
The ascendant of my next SR is in Cancer, and the desc in Capricorn: Moon conjuncts Saturn in Libra in the 4th house. Hope this brings a mature, stable, and charming gentleman.

[rahul_rastogy]

Originally Posted by virgo18

This year 2011-2012 I tried to find when I will meet a special someone with the transits aspecting my 5th and 7th house rulers. It is supposed that the "meeting will happen" when such rulers are aspected by transits at 2nd or 3rd time. Mostly the 1st aspect won't bring anything. Also it is said that the meeting also occur when the transit is separating, short time after the transit was made.
Supposedly I had to met someone in April, then in June: I didn't met anyone attractive to me.
I am almost in the ending of my actual SR, in the 52 days before the next one, so this year wasn't lucky in that love matters for me.

I look out for my Solar Return 2011-12, and I realized that the rulers of the 7th and 1st weren't conjoined by an aspect. Will that be the reason why I didn't met anybody?
Despite the SR Vertex was conjuncted with my Natal Vertex, The SR moon fell on my natal 7th, SR Sun and Mars conjuncted natal Mercury: Nothing!

Oh yeah! This year was a hell with my ex worst-is-nothing. We cut off a couple of days ago, and we dumped each other several times in this year. I think this is really over. WHY? T-Pluto and T-Uranus were squaring and Opposing my natal mercury in libra (ruler of my 7th house), plus T-Uranus also transiting my 5th house. Uranus hited my Mercury in 2011 by first time and I dumped him, then we returned and Pluto squared my Mercury in January again and I dumped him, and now Pluto is going RX exactly squaring my mercury again so I dumped him again and as this is the 3rd time the ruler of my 7th is badly aspected.. I swear this is over forever and for good.

I looked for the relationship with my first boyfriend (not the dude which I dumped days ago, this is other one) which was in 2006, it was a very special person for me and we were very committed, but it was my 1st dude and I didn't planned to get married with him.
Well I look for my 2006-2007 SR and the rulers of 7th and 1st were united by a conjunction.

Fortunately my next SR 2012-13 looks better, and Jupiter will be transiting my natal 7th house for 1 and a half year:
The ascendant of my next SR is in Cancer, and the desc in Capricorn: Moon conjuncts Saturn in Libra in the 4th house. Hope this brings a mature, stable, and charming gentleman.

If you feel that you should at this moment of time you should have a soul mate and you don;t have it yet, you should get your birth chart read by an experienced astrologer and try getting solutions to it or what actually the time will be when you can get your soul mate.