Am attaching with this post, my girl's horoscope. Since when she was born, she has been suffering ill health. And the problems she has, doctors say, would take a long time to recover.
I would therefore like for someone to read my chart here and tell me when her health is going to improve. Also, does she have balarishta? If yes, for how long is that period going to last and are there any remedies?
Herewith I am attaching my birth chart as well.
From my post in the "read my chart" section, I am copy pasting my content here as well.
"My daughter has multiple issues. Her primary problem though is that she is hypotonic (low muscle tone). She is in her 11th month now and has not yet gained neck control. She doesnt roll and but obviously, doesnt sit, crawl etc. She also has something called laryngotracheomalacia (Laryngotracheomalacia is a congenital anomaly of the upper respiratory tract, specifically, the larynx and trachea. There is collapse of the larynx and trachea during breathing, resulting in some airway obstruction, producing the coarse noise or 'stridor' that you hear). She also has a high arched palate and suffers from GERD (gastroesophageal reflux disease), which has now improved considerably (touchwood!)
She just lies the entire day. She never used to move her hands and legs like healthy babies do. She has started sucking her hands (abt a month back) and now her leg movements have just slightly improved. Her eye contact is not great, but again that too is much better. Meaning, when we talk she is now able to keep her attention focused on whoever is talking. She does not as yet have a social smile ie., she doesnt smile at us automatically....just once in a while.
She is definitely improving, even if it is little by little. She now resists when we give her physical therapy, which is a very good sign. Earlier she would just lie still and let us do whatever we want to with her hands and legs. Now she pulls her hands back.....I dont know if u can understand what I mean when I say she resists, but it is these small things that give us pleasure...really!
Am really concerned about her health. If it is gonna take a while for her to be fully ok so be it, but if we continue to see some progress, it wud keep us motivated as well.
Her not having neck control is what we think is the primary problem. Once that happens, we think the rest of her milestones will follow suit.
If any of you could provide a detailed response as to what timeframes we can expect what and also if she is really gonna be ok without any physical/mental impairments in the long run, it wud be much appreciated.
"
she will take lot of time than normal to improve.
when she is in between 3-4 years, she'll start improving faster.
throughout her growth, she'll face some or the other health issue but will overcome them.
her life will be at its best after she completes 22 yrs.
after that she can handle herself independently.
but initial 3 yrs are important for you to take care of her
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Can you please elaborate as to how u arrived at this conclusion? Not that I know much abt astrology, but a cpl of ppl who I contacted with regards to my child's health seemed to indicate that she will start getting better when she is around 18 months and will fully recover by 3-4 yrs. Unfortunately in India, a child's horoscope is not interpreted until he/she turns 12 yrs old, so I have not been able to get much detail from anyone.
It is a pretty scary thought to acknowledge that my child is not gonna be ok for quite some time.
Can u please relook once again?
Apologies if I sound disrespectful of your reading, but pls understand that I am really really concerned abt my child here.
she will take lot of time than normal to improve.
when she is in between 3-4 years, she'll start improving faster.
throughout her growth, she'll face some or the other health issue but will overcome them.
her life will be at its best after she completes 22 yrs.
after that she can handle herself independently.
but initial 3 yrs are important for you to take care of her
Guidance from astrologer should be taken in proper spirit.
i can only say that 'i can understand your worry regarding your child's health' but in reality, i can't experience your pain nor see your worry.
only you know what is going on.
astrologer / doctor / friend /relative can never take your place for your kid.
if you want to compare astrologers and their methods, then just wait for 6 more months too see if situation improves as they said
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From my post in the "read my chart" section, I am copy pasting my content here as well.
"My daughter has multiple issues. Her primary problem though is that she is hypotonic (low muscle tone). She is in her 11th month now and has not yet gained neck control. She doesnt roll and but obviously, doesnt sit, crawl etc. She also has something called laryngotracheomalacia (Laryngotracheomalacia is a congenital anomaly of the upper respiratory tract, specifically, the larynx and trachea. There is collapse of the larynx and trachea during breathing, resulting in some airway obstruction, producing the coarse noise or 'stridor' that you hear). She also has a high arched palate and suffers from GERD (gastroesophageal reflux disease), which has now improved considerably (touchwood!)
She just lies the entire day. She never used to move her hands and legs like healthy babies do. She has started sucking her hands (abt a month back) and now her leg movements have just slightly improved. Her eye contact is not great, but again that too is much better. Meaning, when we talk she is now able to keep her attention focused on whoever is talking. She does not as yet have a social smile ie., she doesnt smile at us automatically....just once in a while.
She is definitely improving, even if it is little by little. She now resists when we give her physical therapy, which is a very good sign. Earlier she would just lie still and let us do whatever we want to with her hands and legs. Now she pulls her hands back.....I dont know if u can understand what I mean when I say she resists, but it is these small things that give us pleasure...really!
Am really concerned about her health. If it is gonna take a while for her to be fully ok so be it, but if we continue to see some progress, it wud keep us motivated as well.
Her not having neck control is what we think is the primary problem. Once that happens, we think the rest of her milestones will follow suit.
If any of you could provide a detailed response as to what timeframes we can expect what and also if she is really gonna be ok without any physical/mental impairments in the long run, it wud be much appreciated.
"
You have not attached your birth chart, though indicated above.
If you feel, you may attach the chart; the analysis of which may give some additional input about what steps should be taken to improve your child's health.
Thanks to the both of you, Virinchi as well as Rajarshi.
Sometimes, you only want to hear what you wanna and not the truth.
But obviously, it is pretty disheartening to even imagine that my child will go through this tough phase for such a long time.
All that I can do now is ensure she gets all medical help that she needs and pray to God.
Thank you once again and I will keep you posted on her progress.
Mother's ascendant is Aries & Moon sign is Leo. Analysis of mother's chart shows that first child is represented by Sun which is strong, second child is represented by Venus which has interchanged constellation with Moon. Moon is debilitated in navamsa. Venus is in own house in natal chart with Mars. [ Moon has interchanged house with Sun and created a favourable yoga].
Venus will be exalted from 18.03.2013 for about 25 days , during which period the progress of the child should be noted for further discussion.
You are absolutely right. My daughter is my second child. My first born is a boy.
Also, am not wearing any gems whatsoever.
We have a few doctor appointments this week as well as next. I do not see any miracles happening during these two appointments as they are only consultations, but am hopeful that the doctors/therapists would provide us ways and means to help my daughter meet her milestones.
I was looking at the charts that you attached (both mine as well as my daughter's). Both of them have something called "Bal. Dasa" with an associated timeframe. Has this got something to do with Balarishta?
I was looking at the charts that you attached (both mine as well as my daughter's). Both of them have something called "Bal. Dasa" with an associated timeframe. Has this got something to do with Balarishta?
"Bal. Dasa" means "Balance Dasa" and nothing to do with Balarishta.
Thank you for clarifying that.
As I mentioned in one of my earlier posts, we had our first therapist appointment today. After evaluating our child, the therapist said that my daughter is going to take a lot of time to do even the basic stuff as her muscle tone is pretty low. But she asked us to get an opinion and more details as to how my daughter will progress and what to expect at what timeframes from the other doctor who we would be meeting next week.
Her tone did paint a grim picture to us as parents, because to a doctor or a therapist, it might just be a job where they have to help kids reach their goals, but to parents, it very disheartening.
I am losing my sanity....I really dont know how to remain strong...I shd say, I'm literally choking as I write this up. I know there is nothing that anyone on this forum can do, with respect to medical intervention or otherwise, am just venting out..am sorry! My heart feels so heavy....I never expected something of this sort ever!
Personally I think the fundamental (astrological) problem might be the conjunction of Mercury (nervous system) with Uranus (unusual and hard to diagnose conditions of health), occuring in Aries (relationship to the head), conjunct the high point of the chart (Uranus conjunct the MC), which gives an added emphasis to this situation (ie to the Mercury/Uranus configuration)
What can be done? In my opinion (since I am an cam practitioner) I suggest that you seek out REPUTABLE (and professional-level) alternative health advice and direction, such as ayurvedic, homeopathic or classical Chinese health practitioners.
Best wishes to you and your daughter!
OMG! You just read my mind....I was exactly thinking of the same thing...that is, try out various other alternatives to work towards making my daughter healthy. I have already reached out to a ayurvedic doctor....have an appointment on monday for the same. At the same time, I am going to find out if there are certain types of food or particular exercises or massages which will help her.
We are now enrolled with the state level early intervention program and are in touch with the physical and the developmental therapists. We will be meeting a developmental pediatrician next week (am dreading that meeting). Feeding and speech therapy will also follow at a later stage.
Also, all the explanation that you provided w.r.t the positioning and the configurations of the planets, when are they gonna get atleast slightly better, if at all anytime soon?
I think I am a nervous wreck now....and very soon, might need therapy myself. I used to be a strong woman, but feel helpless right now....I shd say, just for the past 1 week - 10 days or so......some kind of negative thoughts have set into my mind which never existed. Until 10 days back, I was sure that my daughter wud be fine, sooner or later....but now am scared...I wonder if she will ever have kids (considering her muscle tone is low) and how she will manage for the rest of her life.
I only have to go to the trauma care to see other kids to realize how lucky I am that my child is doing better than lot of other kids out there, but I wud still not wish any ill upon any child ever......I hope and pray that God never makes any parent see their child suffer like this, because it is the worst feeling ever!
Dr Farr, since you mentioned that you are a CAM Practitioner yourself, I wanted to check with you if hypotonia is one of the conditions that chiropractitioners can treat. We do have a good chiropractic office where I live and was wondering if I should meet up with the pediatric chiropractors here. Will it interfere with what the physical and the developmental therapists do? (Have never in my life been to a chiro before, so I really dont know much about what they can do and how they do it). Also, considering that my child has multiple health conditions (hypotonia, high arched palate, GERD, Laryngotracheomalacia), should I check with my daughter's primary physician before I meet up with a chiropractor or is it something that is considered as alternative therapy which does not interfere with the other medical therapies that she is receiving?
1) in my opinion, chiropractic might be of benefit (cranial osteopathy perhaps even more so)
2) most conventional MD's will tend to discredit chiropractic (and, indeed, all other forms of CAM healing); however, the MD should be kept informed of what you are doing (although whether or not you accept the MD's opinion regarding alternative healing is up to you)
1. Gemini ascendant and lord Mercury is in in debilitated sign., afflicted by Anterdasha lord of Mars. Mars represents sixth house (house of illness), as well in this horoscope lord gains etc, and exchanged its position with Sun.
2. Mahadasha lord Jupiter is placed with Sun, but is not combust.
3. At the time of Birth Dasha sequence was Jupiter/Moon/Sun
Moon being anterdasha lord was just entered in Pisces sign, so strength wise not so good.
Apart from medical treatment, perform some Pooja for Lord Shiva, and Hanuman
After 5-4-2013, Jupiter/Rahu
So, either Bhairav Pooja or Bhairav chalisa, along with Vishnusahsranam
+ Medical treatment.
It may take some time.
Jupiter, being lord of house of gains will help you to recovery
Dr Farr, why do you mention cranial osteopathy? I mean, which problem in particular would that address and how would it help her? I know it helps with colic, helps babies sleep well, reflux problem...wud it help her hypotonia as well?
Thank you Mr.Anoop. What's worse is mine was an elective c-section (scheduled) and we were asked to choose the date of the surgery...and I chose 18th April 2012 (my mom checked with a few astrologers back in Hyd, India and they gave us a cpl of dates). Anyways, what was destined to happen, happened.
5-4-2013 would mean 5th April or 4th May?
Also, u mentioned "It may take some time". Wont her chart indicate how much time in particular?