confusing cap behavior????

[pricelessvirgo720]

I am wondering about my relationship with a capricorn man. When he is with me he is so present but he can go days even weeks without seeing or calling or texting. He is so guarded with his emotions i don't know what to think. I am a virgo woman. He is always busy with work. I think im falling in love with him and i don't know whether to continue to fall or walk away before i really get hurt. We have been dating for a year . Thanks

[*emma*]

After a year I would think you know what the score is deep down. Astrology can only help if you post both your charts so the synastry can be looked at.

[pricelessvirgo720]

Ive checked our charts we match well...thank you emma

[Vista]

Originally Posted by pricelessvirgo720

I am wondering about my relationship with a capricorn man. When he is with me he is so present but he can go days even weeks without seeing or calling or texting. He is so guarded with his emotions i don't know what to think. I am a virgo woman. He is always busy with work. I think im falling in love with him and i don't know whether to continue to fall or walk away before i really get hurt. We have been dating for a year . Thanks

You are going to get a variety of non astrological replies without both natal charts with transit and progressions posted. Are you sure he is "guarded" or just not that into you? That's what it sounds like to me and i am speaking from experience as someone who dated a man who random people would say "that guy is really into you" only to find out he was dating someone else too. This was a hardworking, churchgoing family man or so I thought. I never imagined he would cheat on me. How do you know he doesn't have someone else? It sounds suspicious. Before you reply defensively, really think about it. You can have the best synastry in the world(we had it), but it doesn't mean you will be in a relationship or he is the "one." Seems to me after a year of putting up with this cr@p, you have your answer already. It sounds like whenever he is feeling sort of 'randy," he calls you up. Sorry, I am not trying to be rude but take the emotion out of it and be logical.

[pricelessvirgo720]

No defense ok lol...let me give a little more history. We have known each other for 17 years and this is not our first time around but im 30 now and he is 34. He was hurt really bad by his last girlfriend. He is the kind of person who does not like to be labeled. If i had to guess yes i would think that he is seeing other people. But whenever i ask him he denies it and only says that he is sleeping with me. We go out in public together and i have stayed in his home more then once. Yes i am emotionally connected to him but whenever i have tried to leave him he always comes back and o always take him. Im just so confused. He has many female friends he has a high profile job in the hip hop industry. Which he is surrounded by sexy young women all the time.oy! Im so confused

[Vista]

Originally Posted by pricelessvirgo720

No defense ok lol...let me give a little more history. We have known each other for 17 years and this is not our first time around but im 30 now and he is 34. He was hurt really bad by his last girlfriend. He is the kind of person who does not like to be labeled. If i had to guess yes i would think that he is seeing other people. But whenever i ask him he denies it and only says that he is sleeping with me. We go out in public together and i have stayed in his home more then once. Yes i am emotionally connected to him but whenever i have tried to leave him he always comes back and o always take him. Im just so confused. He has many female friends he has a high profile job in the hip hop industry. Which he is surrounded by sexy young women all the time.oy! Im so confused

Hum....maybe he knows when you leave him you won't stay away and so he goes through the motions to get you back. "He doesn't like labels?" Tell him you don't like being a casual hook-up. Maybe you should break up with him and really mean it. He doesn't have to work for you, he has the best of both worlds- you and sex, no "labels' and he can see other woman. What man wouldn't go for that? You should value yourself a little more, a year is enough time to know if you want a monogamous relationship and he is telling you loud and clear you are not the one. I think you can do better.