I have a question regarding house overlays. The person I'm in love with has his natal Pluto and Saturn in his 7th house and in house overlay they fall into my first house. I have my natal Pluto in 1st house which falls into his 7th house.
Some relationship reports I ordered mentioned power struggles and later I read elsewhere on the internet that I should avoid relationships in which a partner's Pluto falls into my 1st house, which could apparently turn into an abusive relationship. Also Saturn in 1st house overlay was not a good indication of a happy relationship, and also an indication of a childless union!!
Are these placement more prominent as they appear natally in his 7th house?
His personal planets fall in my 4th and 5th house with mine in his 4th and 6th house.We also have our composite north node in the 4th house.
Has this relationship got potential of being a long lasting meaningful relationship or should I avoid it altogether?