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Old 07-23-2010, 07:20 PM
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Weird or dreamy? Do you view the relationship through rose-colored glasses?
One relationship I had with a with Composite Neptune on the Comp. Asc was both weird and dreamy. I met the love-of-my-life-#1 at the tender age of 7. We kissed a few times, at the time when I did not know how to kiss. Then she left the country at the age of 12 and I saw her only 3-4 times since then. We never had sex, as it tends to happen in such relationships because sex does not matter here much. Once we shared a real kiss, and that was the best kiss that I've ever had. I still love her, but I get nothing but heartache from that relationship. She is now married (second time) and has two kids, twins. I thought I almost got over her, but I saw her in a dream again two weeks ago. Thinking about her and feeling her by my side, even in a dream, makes me feel unstoppable, intoxicated high and on cloud nine - all at the same time.

Last week I met another Aquarius Ascendant girl. We had a strong connection, and I can sweep her off her feet if I want to, but again... I want to know if we would enjoy having sex. My Mars in Aries is inconjunct her Mars in Scorpio. We make each other horny with words (lots of Mercury-Mars-Venus connections), but that Mars-Mars inconjunct makes me worry. I do not want any more sexless relationships. ... Funny enough, I didn't think it was necessary to talk to her after our first and only date. It seems to me I already know everything I need to know about her, and the rest would just take very little time if we indeed start a relationship. This is the dreamy and weird Neptune influence.

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Old 10-12-2010, 11:01 PM
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Re: 7th house/Descendant synastry

i think what we have is what your looking for.. My boyfriend is a rising Aquarius conjunct my mars , 7th and 8th house. Im a rising leo conjunct his 7th house. Also my rising is his descendant and vise versa
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Old 10-13-2010, 01:28 AM
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Re: 7th house/Descendant synastry

No planets involved but my ascendant is conjunct my husband descendant and obviously vice-versa
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Old 10-13-2010, 02:00 AM
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Re: 7th house/Descendant synastry

I have my moon at one grade to conjunct my boyfriends 7th house...
thats pretty well, but Im not sure if a planet conjunct partners 7th house that can make him marrying you or vice versa.
I know that the sun, moon, venus, jupiter conjunct 7th house are very well.
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Old 10-13-2010, 09:53 AM
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Re: 7th house/Descendant synastry

my saturn(ruler of my asc) is in my ex's 7H.
it should hv ended being a long term relationship but it lasted only 4 two months. he has a t-square involving moon,venus & uranus/neptune.....this is the same guy who i talk about in horaries,d one who cheated on me with other 2 girls.

i met him 2 years bk & we ended up together 4 about 2 months.
i ws recovering 4m anorexia den so feelings of infatuation,et seemed new + i ws immature...1 day,all of a sudden, i realised i never loved him...i left for another country without informing him..he called up my friend & understood it ws over. he did try getting bk after i returned but i wsnt really interested. he ws a player(n still is)but i hd little knowledge of this so its probable tht he ws cheating on me bk den as well.

after exact 2 yrs of negligible contact, we gt bk ds june bt ds time he thought of me differently(scorpionic suspicion)...ds ws my 1st serious relationship n taught me A LOT!...for him,it ws another game.

my 1st love (i think i lovd him) :
his desc conj my asc.
my ura/nept in his 7H.
his venus in my 7H

this was a long distance thing & could never settle down in2 a relationship. this guys no where near my dream guy but the emotional rapport we share cnt be ignored! we've lots of neptune in our synastry which definitely led 2 idealisation....
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Re: 7th house/Descendant synastry

My forbidden relationship (co-worker) has his Venus in Cancer and my Descendant is in Cancer. Not sure what this means.
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Re: 7th house/Descendant synastry

how does everyone feel about someone's sun in the sign of the other's descendant but in the 6th house? does the power of the sun mean they recognise them as hard work or an ideal partner?
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how does everyone feel about someone's sun in the sign of the other's descendant but in the 6th house? does the power of the sun mean they recognise them as hard work or an ideal partner?
It could be that the Sun person is viewed as very useful to the House person, or it could be that the Sun person brings about for the House person a new focus on 6th house issues (become more attentive to health, little chores, etc.).

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In my relationship, my Saturn/Neptune/Uranus conjunction in Capricorn falls in my boyfriend's 6th house, but his Descendant is late Capricorn. His Jupiter is exactly conjunct my Descendant in Aries.
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Re: 7th house/Descendant synastry

synastry planets conjunction Descendant? Imagine this
My Venus is exactly on his Descendant
and his Leo Mars perfectly on my Descendant,
his Mars, his Jupiter, and his Moon Node,
all three forming a tight passionate conjunction ...
OH MYYYYYYYYYYYYYY ....
let's just say... NOTHING WILL EVER BE THE SAME AGAIN!((
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Old 02-02-2012, 08:14 AM
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My boyfriend and I both have Gemini rising. His mercury conjuncts my AC, and his uranus conjuncts my DC. My chiron conjuncts his AC and my uranus conjuncts his DC. So Uranus-DC connections both ways! So it probably means a weeeeeeird relationship for us, and yes its longdistance... We both have sagittarius in the 7th, so both looking for foreigners it seems

Other than that connected to the 7th house is my AC ruler (mercury) conjunct his DC ruler (Jupiter) in Scorpio.

His AC ruler (mercury) in Gemini is conjunct my AC, and it trines my DC ruler (jupiter) in aquarius, this is also conjunct his MC, and together with his mars in libra creates a complete "grand trine". The aquarius bit is lacking in his chart to create a grand trine himself.

I see it as significant

We have been together for 8 months now, longdistance relationship. But see each other like every 2-3 weeks when in normal university and working mode. We are planning to move together after I finnish my studies.
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Old 02-02-2012, 04:39 PM
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Re: 7th house/Descendant synastry

i think an easy way to investigate the feel of how the descendant works (for you) is to think of people whose suns signs fall conjunct your descendant.
....
..figure the day of the year that the sun is at that(same as descendant) degree...
and come up with people who have that birthday.
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DEFINITELY a certain feel to the relationship

the feeling is completely dependant on a number of factors, of course... mainly... how your descendant interacts with the rest of your chart...
...
but theres still a feeling.

i, myself, would describe it as truly and simply.... a feeling of being able to really partner up with someone... easily. whether to complete a task, have a relationship (of any sort) or whatever else, in teamwork.

however, i really dont have reason to believe contact with the descendant(s) in synastry can hold up on its own. there always has to be some sort of glue. ... in long term relationships (which it sounds like youre trying to investigate)

my experience:
with one past love interest,
his mercury was conjunct my descendant
and
my venus was conjunct his descendant

...yes, the way he talked and generally went about everything he did... just felt reaaaaalllllllllly kinship-y. i got him completely... and it really seemed to fit into how i handle partnerships.

...and both my work and my beauty and the way i generally harmonize with people really affected him... by definitely seeing me as the ideal partner. also those things about me really influenced his work. he became very "addicted" in a way to feeding off of me to feed his own creative work.

but that didnt make a partnership become reality. and we had many more "positive" aspects to our synastry to help us out further, even.

ive always tried to give neptune the benefit of the doubt in synastry,
but i am learning (on my particular path)
that especially for me (being very familar/seasoned with neptune energy)
.... that neptune can definitely stand in the way of solidifying a tangible relationship experience.

perhaps some people need to learn how to incorporate a little more feeling and faith(neptune) into their relationships.
but others can float off into that 'far away' world easily... and are really figuring out how to create tangible/solid/REAL(!in person!) relationships ...
.... and this latter crew,
i am coming to discern,
really have to watch neptune in synastry.

... which gets to the first reason i wanted to share a response:

with 2 very solid love-type experience under my belt with 2 different men...i do NOT suggest an endeavor of neptune conjunct descendant in synastry.
we are all different,
but this can be a mindf*** that is far from worth my (particular) time or energy.

lastly...
capricorn is my descendant sign...
and i do feel that a true partnership for me involves...
perhaps someone older or seemingly older. and i definitely need to be able to foresee reaching common goals with the individual. and most likely even working with them... partners in business.

so i definitely have reason to believe that the sign of our descendants is telling to how we truly view/navigate partnerships.
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Old 04-09-2012, 12:03 PM
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Re: 7th house/Descendant synastry

My youngest son's sun is exactly conjunct my descendant in Taurus. I have such an easy bond with him. Our relationship feels very comfortable. I find it very easy to relate to him and we are very affectionate towards each other. He is a Taurus sun and ascendant. I'm a Gemini sun. My Juno is exactly conjunct his ascendant. I think we might have been married in a previous life, lol. It is difficult though for me with my other son. I relate so easily to my youngest and my eldest is much more challenging. I have to really work hard to make sure that my eldest (and others) do not feel excluded from the way me and the youngest relate to one another. I know that this thread is about romantic relationships but I wanted to share this parent/child synastry aspect to show how powerful an aspect sun conjunct descendant can be.
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Old 04-10-2012, 04:25 PM
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Re: 7th house/Descendant synastry

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Anybody have planets conjunct their partner's descendant? If so, what are they (include sign)?

If you have any planets in the same sign as your partner's descendant, that works too. Let us know!

Who's more involved, and if it's equal, how does it play out? Are you married, dating, have kids?

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No conjunctions but our Plutos fall into each others 7th house...we're both 7th house Pluto people anyway, so it's like we found someone who -gets- it. Most people don't understand the tragedy of this position, so we can be tragic together! We're not married, but kind of unofficially engaged. We WERE engaged, broke it off, got back together. We do that a lot.....I'd say he's more involved than I am, kinda maybe probably because I don't try as I feel he's too good for me. I've tried moving on...with another Pisces( or Aries? I don't remember lol) strangely, but it just wasn't the same. No one else gets it. This affliction I have, he has it too! hehe kind of like we're freaks on the inside, but no one sees it but us. So it's nice to share that. My Saturn slips into his 7th which is nice for me.

All this in Libra. If he didn't have Pluto in his 7th, this all would mean nothing to me ha. Most people born in the mid/early 70s will have their Pluto conjunct my Descendant (opp my Venus), but it's meaningless. At least from my end.
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Old 04-16-2012, 11:02 PM
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Re: 7th house/Descendant synastry

With my last boyfriend my Venus conjunct his DSC. My Saturn also conjunct his DSC by 3 degrees (although in the 12th). His DSC is exactly conjunct my Venus/Saturn midpoint.

My progressed Uranus exactly conjunct his progressed ASC. Although I have to say...I was not the "erratic" one in the relationship.

This was not a stable relationship. Although, I will say my Neptune is opposite his Venus and my Venus is conjunct his Neptune. I felt there were a lot of secrets on his part and constantly thought he was cheating on me...which turned out to be true
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Old 04-17-2012, 01:13 PM
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Re: 7th house/Descendant synastry

My love interest has ASC in Aquarius and I have Mars in leo on the 7th house. I also have my moon trine her sun... and mars trine mars.
is this any sign ?
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Old 04-18-2012, 07:25 AM
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Anybody have planets conjunct their partner's descendant? If so, what are they (include sign)?

If you have any planets in the same sign as your partner's descendant, that works too. Let us know!

Who's more involved, and if it's equal, how does it play out? Are you married, dating, have kids?

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Hi,Catatonia

I think we could not said who has more influence in relationship by just look at the Desc. we Definitly have to look the other parts also.

Imho, I think when the planet conjunct your Desc. You can find it like , you are drawn to that one , whether positively or negatively depend on the planet.
But I think the planet conj. your Desc. can not compare with the planet conj. your Ascendant. This could really turn your head to him even you couldn't resist its power...lol

For me, I have his Jupitor fall in my 6th house , near my Desc. 2 degree in Pisces.

I have a long relationship with him 5 years till now , we stay together , we consider eachother as a marriage couple, we are not engaged/marry. But this doesn'nt have to do with the Jupitor make tight orb with my desc.

Another part from synastry chart is... kind of more heavy Karmic part.

Such as..
- in his 8th house already have pluto, urenus : but my sun, mercury, pluto also there! and my Saturn sitting on his 8th house Cusp.
so, I think I make a deep impact in his deep sense of the8th issues ,also this is karmic tie involved saturn.
- we have a strong saturn , pluto , sun , mercury contact also. So our relationship is not easy at all . It fulls with intense, hard time, inco-orperate moment , but bind 2 people deeply together which no one can't escape from this easily. Luckily there are no physical/verbal abuse at all.
- Both of our 7th houses have Jupitor and Venus falling. (DW)
- his Saturn is In my 10th and conjunct my moon , and square my sun. this mean his saturn is at the top of my chart and controll almost everything, I read some paper they said when another Saturn in your 10th , they tend to rule you as they used to in past life...

Anyway , I just give my info to you ,if you have the other strong karmics contact as mine ,so your planet contact with DC can't compare with what I described.

Hope this helps,
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Old 04-20-2012, 07:35 AM
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Re: 7th house/Descendant synastry

My ASC excatly conjuncts his DC and vice versa obviously (Pisces/Virgo).

I have Pluto in the 7th in exact conjunction to his Moon in his 1st and in exact square to his Sun in my 4th while his Pluto is in my 7th. My Mars is also in his 7th. I am completely obsessed with him

We also activate each other's 4th house big time.

I don't know how to describe this... A friendship that naturally became a relationship. Feels very karmic, psychic but also very heavy at time, suffocating - I don't think I have ever been that affected by someone.

There's a strong Neptune connection, maybe I should post on those Neptune Synastry threads...
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Interesting, this got me looking at things I hadn't noticed yet. So here goes my contribution:

My DC is on Capricorn. It's a kind of energy I don't get along with very well... go figure!

Person 1 - Venus in Cap, in my H6. (don't know his birth time, so I don't know what's in his H7)
It wasn't really a relationship. I mean, it was, but officially, it never happened.
I was in love with him for almost 8 years. We used to be really close. We're still friends, but don't talk very often.
Also, my Sun conjuncts his Moon, and his Sun is the same sing as my Moon.

Person 2 - Sun in Cap, in my H7, conjunct my DC.
The only actual boyfriend I've ever had.
Lasted about a year. Didn't end so well. Never heard from him again.

Person 3 - again, Venus in Cap, in my H7 this time. Also, my Moon conjunct his DC (and his Sun is very close too).
It wasn't a relationship... it was just something that happened.
We're still friends, close friends. Like family. He'll always be in my life, cause he's the father of my son.

Person 4 - My Sun is his H6, but it's the H7 sign.
Again, not really a relationship. It's been going on for years. We spent some time apart, but kept talking and always being friends.
It feels like it could go on forever... and I like that.
Our Moons are conjunct.


So, my conclusions, based on my personal experience: 7th house brings an attraction, but Sun/Moon aspects bring a connection. And it's the connection that makes it last.
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His Descendant is in Scorpio, My ascendant is in Scorpio. My descendant is in Taurus, and his Ascendant is PROBABLY taurus but might be aries (timing is so hard to figure out with him...)

I'm not sure what it means, but if anyone has any ideas for this whole opposite thing....
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Anybody have planets conjunct their partner's descendant? If so, what are they (include sign)?

If you have any planets in the same sign as your partner's descendant, that works too. Let us know!

Who's more involved, and if it's equal, how does it play out? Are you married, dating, have kids?

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all my planets sits on my partner's decendent
and my partner's 7th house over my decendent

one more thing to note;all his planets falls in my 12th (my 2nd marraige) house & all my planets falls in his 7th house (1st marraige)
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Angels---
I also see that his Mars conjunct your 4th ---he may be attracted to your family/maternal traits, and he may activate early-family issues for you. Your moon conjunct/in your 8th house would indicate a passionate connection to you that he is often unable to put into words---it is a strong, unspoken emotional feeling.
What does it mean that you both seem to have Pluto in the 10th--how does this play out? ALso, many of your planets being in his 7th house---can you describe how this affects your relationship? I would think that would mean it is a strong romantic partnership?

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Angels---
I also see that his Mars conjunct your 4th ---he may be attracted to your family/maternal traits, and he may activate early-family issues for you. Your moon conjunct/in your 8th house would indicate a passionate connection to you that he is often unable to put into words---it is a strong, unspoken emotional feeling.
What does it mean that you both seem to have Pluto in the 10th--how does this play out? ALso, many of your planets being in his 7th house---can you describe how this affects your relationship? I would think that would mean it is a strong romantic partnership?

Melisa

we both love our company and his presence makes me tow at the same time he is practical where I am emotional u could see that through our sun sign it self.

only problem is his mars square my mercury where he loose his temper but me give up nd keep quite I never risk aruging rather I keep calm that way he get back normal and he compliments me....he likes it when I am clam when he loose his temper tat way he loves me more.
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Did u notice both our venus sextile umm..the Pluto guy means something fated attraction? Karmic?


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I would think that would mean it is a strong romantic partnership?

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May be...
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Do you have any say on our vertex/moon/8th house?

also have you noticed his DC 9 degree is where my sun is 9 degree
and his sun is where my jupiter is in the ASC

Do you have any idea about the conjuction of whole signs and houses? both our charts houses and signs and asc/asc dc/dc conjucts

have you got any idea about this pattern?
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