Wanted to open a discussion on this.
Currently crushing on someone who's Vertex conjuncts my Ascendant and is also exactly opposite my Venus. (Not a degree to spare there). Their true node conjuncts my ascendant, and my true node conjuncts to their Neptune and trines their Moon.
In the past, I have fallen for someone who's Sun conjuncts my Vertex.
But...I'm not just asking about me here (Only an Aries like myself could say that with a straight face

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Overall, do you find Nodes and Vertex are huge significant points in Karma and Fate ("soulmate") relationships??
I have seen Vertex discarded as not that important and a "be careful what you wish for" thing in relationships. On the opposite side of the coin, have read that people with strong Vertex ties are the ones who take a long to time to realize there is something there, and it comes on like an epiphany.
So..what do you think?? Are these huge indicators of karma and fate with the people in our lives??