Any prospects of romantic relationship?

[whitey]

Hey all,

I am just puzzled by this chart and wondering if someone could lend a hand.

(Background)
There is a guy who I really liked for a while and a month ago, I told him that I liked him although I knew he was not interested in me. As it was expected, he politely told me that he never thought I would ever be interested in him. He did not say explicitly but I understood that there is no chance for me to be his girlfriend. Since then I have not seen his but today, all of sudden, he sent me a mail saying he is on business trip now but be back in town on friday. I am puzzled because clearly he is not mistakening me with anyone else and implying that maybe we could meet then. So I casted a chart if any prospects of romantic relationship between us.

Moon=my significator
Venus= my co-significator
Saturn= him (he is capricorn sun and older male so fits his profile)
Sun=his co-significator

What I am seeing here is that although Saturn is retro, he is in libra and exalted. Kinda mixed state. I am(both moon and venus) in 11th Gemini, venus is in its terms. Moon and Venus are applying to saturn in trine and reception is not bad but moon first applies to venus then to saturn. Is this work as prohibition? Also what I realize is that sun has just separated from mars in trine. Should I read this also?

I appreciate any inputs. Thank you!

whitey

[virgo18]

Your question is about how many prospects you have??? Or about one guy only???

[whitey]

Sorry, my question is specific to this guy.

Thanks,

whitey

[virgo18]

There is a possibility of something serious because moon conjuncts Venus, and Venus will trine Saturn before Moon trine's it.

BTW wait for more answers.

[whitey]

Thank you Virgo18,

So does it work as a translation of light?

whitey

[whitey]

Sorry, something is wrong here. Moon will hit venus then saturn before venus does.

[whitey]

Still wondering. Any inputs??

[rafaella]

I'd be careful with this guy, He is Saturn which has dignity but is Rx, so this strikes me as someone who will not be very action oriented.

Moon does trine Saturn but Moon has no dignity so you have not much power here to act, and with him debilitated, he as well in not someone who can actually take things forward. Now the question is, who or what is Venus. Venus is in the way of Moon and rules your 11th, but also rules his turned 5th. Venus does have dignity, in fact Venus and Saturn have mutual reception. I wouldn't take Venus to be you in this chart, you have Moon as primary ruler, I believe Venus could be someone else. I think he is already involved, unfortunately.

[whitey]

Thanks Rafaella. I think I should stay away then!

whitey

[virgo18]

Originally Posted by rafaella

I'd be careful with this guy, He is Saturn which has dignity but is Rx, so this strikes me as someone who will not be very action oriented.

Moon does trine Saturn but Moon has no dignity so you have not much power here to act, and with him debilitated, he as well in not someone who can actually take things forward. Now the question is, who or what is Venus. Venus is in the way of Moon and rules your 11th, but also rules his turned 5th. Venus does have dignity, in fact Venus and Saturn have mutual reception. I wouldn't take Venus to be you in this chart, you have Moon as primary ruler, I believe Venus could be someone else. I think he is already involved, unfortunately.

Venus is in Gemini and Saturn in libra... have Mutual reception??? that will be Venus in Cap or Aq...
That's triplicity not?

[rafaella]

That's right Virgo, Venus is in triplicity of Saturn, Saturn in the sign of Venus - mutual reception. Its not quite an equal reception, but reception nonetheless.

[whitey]

I think venus is his daughter as I know he is not with anyone else.

Since he contacted me all of sudden after me declaring my love to him went badly and no contact what so ever for one month, I wanted to know what is going on.

Rx makes sense in a way since we parted but he is contacting me again. At the same time, I know things will not gonna happen unless he makes a move because I am not gonna do anything.

I do not think the situation will change but if it does, I will let you know.

whitey

[virgo18]

Originally Posted by whitey

I think venus is his daughter as I know he is not with anyone else.

Since he contacted me all of sudden after me declaring my love to him went badly and no contact what so ever for one month, I wanted to know what is going on.

Rx makes sense in a way since we parted but he is contacting me again. At the same time, I know things will not gonna happen unless he makes a move because I am not gonna do anything.

I do not think the situation will change but if it does, I will let you know.

whitey

I agree with Rafaela, that there is some woman that will be some kind of obstacle.

Probably could be he's daughter. Anyways:
a) she could be an obstacle to commit in a new relationship. "This kind of thing sometimes happens in relationships of divorced parents"
b) Could be that he is having some kind of non-commital relationship with another woman, and despite it is a fling from he's 5th house, he can be living in a "confront zone" (saturn in libra rx), and he doesn't want to move from it so easily.


good luck

[rafaella]

well Venus rules his 5th and your 11th, 5th rules casual dating, but also children, 11th is friends (your friend). Whoever or whatever Venus is, its prohibiting the trine between Moon and Saturn, so that is an issue. Of couse it could be a temporary issue, but its there nonetheless.

Do you have a friend that may be keen on him?

[whitey]

The thing is, no of my female friends knows him.

I still think it is his daughter as I heard from his ex assistant (male) about his daughter but the guy himself never told me personally, which makes me think it is the problem especially he told me lots of intimate things about his life but never about his daughter. (he was with the mother of his daughter but never got married) At the same time, everytime we talked about romance etc, he repeately told me that he is single and I know from the way he is, he is not telling me a lie.

By all means, it has been a problem and the chart confirmed it is, so I am at peace now thanks to you guys.

Thank you!

whitey

[whitey]

p.d.

I was reading virgo18's post on horary technique and thought a bit. Yes, maybe he now has someone else but that is something I will not be able to know unless he tells me. Since I do not see each other often, I have no means to know this. (this itself could be a question for horary!)

As far as I know, he is leaving the country where we are now in August to be stationed in the same city/country as where his daughter lives. I knew where he is going but his ex assistant told me that his daughter is there. Knowing how he is being very responsable, I am convinced that he is heading to be closer to her (again there maybe something going on with the mother of daughter or with someone else there but I dont know)

He also has very sick mother and sister in his native country which has been a major cause of worries for him.

All of this could be a obstacle. But since we do not have any interaction between us lately, even relatively good reception probably would not work out.

Thanks

whitey

[whitey]

Dear guys,

(update)

So I sent him a mail regarding a work and there was no reply. I also sent a text message as I needed an answer for a work related question. (we sometimes work together) Things are very weird because he always responded me. I think this is the official conclusion. There was no contact since then and we probably never see each other again.

Thank you,

whitey

[rafaella]

Thanks for the update! I hope this is just temporary and things work out for you!

Best wishes!