Will we be back again?

KathrineB · #1 05-15-2012, 08:27 AM

Hi everyone,

I asked this question once before on this forum, but the circumstances have changed since, so I am asking it again...

Me and the guy (my ex) were not talking to each other for about 3 months and then we started talking (exchanging mails from time to time) again, as friends...

Thing is, I still have feelings for him and I would still like to know whether there is any possibility of us getting back together.

Any comments and opinions would be highly appreciated!
Thank you all so much in advance!

dr. farr · #2 05-15-2012, 08:58 AM

(Following is not in accordance with standard horary practice and uses whole sign house format)

Answer: good chance of this happening, but might take a rather long time

-querent = 1st house = Leo = Sun
-boyfriend = 7th house = Aquarius = Saturn
-querent 5th house of romance = Sagittarius = Jupiter
-boyfriend 5th house of romance = Gemini = Mercury
-Sun flows toward Saturn and Saturn retrogrades (returns to) Sun = + testimony
-boyfriends Mercury (5th house) flows toward querent's Jupiter (querent's 5th house significator) = + testimony
-querent's co-significator Moon flows toward boyfriends Mercury (5th house significator) = + testimony
-boyfriends Mercury flows toward querent primary significator the Sun = + testimony
-Moon is weak here (void of course), and none of the significators are in applying aspect = indications (to me) of delay and/or obstacles to be anticipated in this matter.

So, I believe a renewed relationship will occur, after some time and after correcting certain problems connected with the relationship.

KathrineB · #3 05-15-2012, 09:08 AM

Oh Dr. Farr,
thank you for your reply! To be honest I did not even hope to hear anything positive at this point! I so hope you're right!

I will come back with the feedback once I have any news!

scorpittarian · #4 05-15-2012, 09:35 AM

Your significators - Sun/Moon. His significator - Saturn.
Moon in the 8th & void of course.
No aspect between Sun/Saturn or Moon/Saturn.
The answer is No.

Saturn in Libra in mutual reception with Venus in Gemini.
Venus & Saturn are mutually applying to a trine.
Venus is the lord of his 5th sitting in his 5H.
I wonder if he has someone by his side.

Moon, your significator, is undergoing a transition, moving out of Aquarius(Saturn's domicile) into Pisces(Saturn's face). You'll lose whatever deep feelings you have for him very soon.

KathrineB · #5 05-15-2012, 09:42 AM

Thank you for your comment scorpittarian! Really appreciate it!

so you think he has someone else by now, huh? And since there is mutual reception and there will be a trine, I assume it is something more significant than just a casual fling, right?

okay well...

scorpittarian · #6 05-15-2012, 09:53 AM

Saturn wants to get to Venus but Venus turns retrograde so the trine doesn't perfect. I don't think they'll start a relationship or anything new.
It's not a fling as far as he's concerned.

KathrineB · #7 05-15-2012, 10:38 AM

so you mean he is really really into someone but she is not really interested and so nothing happens...It is interesting because when I asked my question (the same one) four months ago, one of the astrologers said the exact same thing: that astrologer said that 1) either someone is trying to get into our relationship and break us apart, but this person won'T be able to build a proper relationship with my ex. or 2) that there is this other person my ex is interested in but this person is not interested, so, again, nothing will come out of it...

and now that you basically repeat the same thing, it makes me think...

well..if I put together what you say and what dr. farr said...I guess it might be that he tries something with someone else, it won't work out and then he might come back to me...which makes me think: do I want a guy who returns to me, just because he did not get what he wanted with someone else?!? I do not like having leftovers!....

God, how I hope you're right and i will get over him soon!!!

(sorry about this, just thinking out loud)

scorpittarian · #8 05-15-2012, 03:12 PM

His interest in her surpasses her interest in him.
Venus is in Gemini, in Saturn's triplicity.
Triplicity = mild affection, friendship, care.
Saturn is in Libra in Venus' domicile.
He's in a place where she's most prized. Some equate domicile with love.

I'm not sure if this person was trying to break you apart. However, It's obvious from the chart that your ex wants to get romantically involved with her. She backs out of the commitment by turning retrograde. It's called refranation.
I doubt him coming back to you & even if he does, he won't stay long. Saturn will get back to it's old self once it turns direct.