Unfortunately I am no astrologist myself, that is why I seek the advice of you, the more illuminated ones
Briefly, at this point, HE is the in love with her, following a short but intense amorous adventure that quickly turned into love on his part and HER initially looking out for fun before she departed to a far foreign country to join her family (only contact left is via internet) and having second thoughts about marriage, now not sure what to do with her life: stay in a marriage gone stale (while trying to work on it) or tear up the family (1 young child) and return home to give it a try with HIM.
Here are the details I could find. Plus I am attaching the birthcharts of HIM and HER:
HIM: 16/12/1980 13:05 Julian day 2444590.00
Adjust -1.00 ST 19.13 Lat 47.58 Long -21.47
HER: 11/11/1978 01:25 Julian day 2443823.52
Adjust -1.00 ST 4.57 Lat 48.02 Long -18.08
(HUSBAND, in case anyone was wondering: 20/11/1979 08:30 - Julian day 2444197.81 Adjust -1.00 ST 12.34 Lat 48.10 Long -17.10)
Inter-planetary aspects (HIM and HER)
140 tt Sextile ii Sun - Mars
Positive aspect: Pure sexual attraction will unite the couple. They will have an ideal partner. They will be energetic, full of life and can undertake things together on the professional level or travel together on adventurous, unpredictable journeys.
126 tt Conjunction ii Mercury - Neptune
Positive aspect: Good spiritual understanding.
-90 tt Square ii Mars - Pluto
Negative aspect: Sexual passion leading to destruction. It will be very difficult to pick oneself up after such a relationship. To be avoided at all costs, nothing agreeable can come of this union.
72 tt Sextile ii Jupiter - Saturn
Positive aspect: A favorable union, a joyful family life, thanks to Saturn, this couple will never go lightly into any adventure but will work out and think through everything.
65 tt Sextile ii Mercury - Saturn
Positive aspect: If Mercury is looking for a mother or father in the spouse, then this aspect is very favorable. Saturn will give a lot on the intellectual level and in life in general.
53 tt Sextile ii Mars - Jupiter
Positive aspect: The couple will be in harmony, even if they are different they complement each other perfectly and understand each other very well. They go well together.
48 tt Sextile ii Mercury - Pluto
Positive aspect: Favorable union.
38 tt Sextile ii Mars - Uranus
Positive aspect: Favorable for union, linking originality to initiative and decision-making.