Re: is he in relationship with another girl?
It seems with south node at the ASC, this situation will bring some more hurt for you, if you keep pursuing this. The hope of the querent may be dashed here, having South node at the asc is quite negative.
If I look further in the chart, I see Jupiter, his ruler in your 12th - hidden. Obviously you can't see him and you don't know what he is upto being in a different country. But there is more to this, I believe there are things that he has hidden from you. Your are Mercury and its in the worst sign it can be - Pisces, its very debilitated and shows how powerless you feeling. There is no aspect between Mercury and Jupiter and the aspect between Moon and Jupiter (him) is a square.
Now I am trying to find out who the other girl is, which planet to assign to her. She could be the almuten of his 5th ruler, Venus. But Venus is in your 1st house which confuses me - it could show she is trying to influence you to back off. But then Sun, his secondary ruler is exalted in Mars. Mars had a recent trine with Jupiter and will go back to trining it - defininetely shows a past lover going back and forth.
So she could be Mars, Venus could be your secondary ruler. It looks like a perfect triangle, as not so long ago, Mars Venus and Jupiter were all involved in aspects with each other, Mars (the other girl) was retrograding back towards Jupiter (him), but Venus (you) got to Jupiter first. I do believe there was something between them in the past which ended, he then got involved with you. But this other girl (Mars) will trine Jupiter again, she will be back with him.
Sun exalted in Mars, but Jupiter in sign ruled by Venus (you). I think he is torn, he cares about you both. But the aspect shows to me Mars will be with Jupiter while Venus/MercurY has no aspect with Jupiter. Moon square Jupter shows you will try work things out between you both, but with SN and debilitated Mercury it shows a great deal of difficulty here...
I do not think everything is in the open with this man, it does seems he has some pressures on him with Sun opposing Saturn, some stern older influence restricts him. Saturn rules 10th, some sort of authority figure in his life.
Mercury will be out of its debility after 2,5 months or so, after this time you will be able to make some more sense out of this. Is it when you go back to your homecountry?
I hope this has helped you....You can't do much until you get back there. But even then you have many obstacles and the outcome may not be to your satisfaction.
Last edited by rafaella; 04-16-2012 at 01:27 PM.