Am I just jealous?
One of my closest friends is in a very serious relationship, She is a libra, and he is a gemini, but the rest of their planets don't really line up well at all (moons-libra and virgo, venus-cancer and gemini, mars-aquarius and taurus amongst a few other pretty bad seeming combinations).
They also live very different lifestyles, he is a unemployed and living with his parents, he also has a long history of drug abuse and depression, along with overall pretty poor lifestyle choices. She on the other hand is a happy go lucky vegan in med school and has a entire life plan.
Although I want to trust her, and that I have no doubts that they love each other, I am just really worried that she is comprising herself too much. She is considering taking a year off from medschool just to be with him and help him kick his unhealthy habits (which would be really risky for her). She is a kind person with a giving soul, but I worry that she is doing too much and will eventually only be let down as its pretty clear to me that he is never going to give up his addictions.
My other friends think im just being jealous when i seek their advice, but i honestly just worried for her. Is there anything I can do to help with out trying to control or come off as mean?
If it helps to understand where I am coming from, I have a sun in aries, moon in pisces and gemini ascendant. All my other planets are heavy in water and fire mainly cancer,scorpio, Sagittarius and more aries with the exception of my venus which is in taurus. I can be more specific if needed.
Am I just jealous or is my intuition leading me the right way?