I'm looking at my 7th house with trad rulership which is new for me. It makes a lot of sense. My dsc is pisces, trad ruler would be jupiter. My jupiter is in the 10th/11th house conjunct mars (which rules 9th and 4th houses traditionally). So, my ex husband was a foreigner and very martian. In fact, I've always felt that looking at my chart as neptune the ruler of the 7th never made sense...neptune is in my 4th, so you get the idea I would be attracted to Pisces/Cancer, very yeilding types and homebodies. No and nope. The 11th house and mars and jupiter seem to describe my past partners to a T, for better or worse. Also helps me understand why I am quite independent in love, and the overseas connection. My question is, if my ruler of the 7th is conjunct MARS, is that as bad as it seems? I know I have a split personality in the type I go for...it's either very intense, energetic and martian (cocky) or very wise, relaxed, creative men. I already know that the martian ones are bad for me, completely WRONG, nothing to sustain there other than passion, but is there something else (or a whole lot of something else) implied by this conjunction when viewed through a trad lens? Thank you for your help!