Trouble with relationships
Please help read my chart.
I bought a report from astrology.com and among other things it said the following:
Asc. Conjunct Venus/Uranus
You are charming and friendly to everyone, but may prefer more superficial and frequently changing contacts with people rather than steady and lasting friendships. Some of your meetings with others could come about suddenly.
Asc. Conjunct Saturn/N. Node
You tend to be somewhat inhibited and don't want to attract attention to yourself. You are likely to think that other people are more important than you are and prefer to live in seclusion.
Mercury Conjunct Venus/Saturn
Your thinking is somewhat sober and you visualize everything with complete reality. You tend to be a late bloomer and could be a bit narrow-minded or selfish in matters of love. You seem to have a certain fear of being left out in some way.
Venus Conjunct Saturn:
Intimacy does not come easily to you and you may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to your emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in your early life, you do not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to take down all of your barriers and defenses. You may feel that you have few friends or people that really care about you. You need to learn to value and love yourself more and to express your appreciation for others more openly.
Saturn Conjunct Sun/Venus
You tend to be shy, sensitive and stiff with your emotions and may have difficulty expressing your true feelings, even though your affection for someone is there. One of your parents may have been too strict and unloving, and so you may fear close relationships.
Saturn Conjunct Moon/Pluto
You are likely to have very intense experiences in your emotional life and should guard against feelings of depression and inhibition. You could be plagued by inner turmoil and obsessive ideas or notions.
Pluto Conjunct Venus/Neptune
You are inclined to wish that others would spoil you or seduce you. Your longing for love is very strong and you tend to imagine yourself in beautiful romantic situations which may never attain fulfillment. Love for you could work out tragic in some way.
I know these are just computer generated descriptions, but they seem so negative. Should I believe them? Is there any thing in my chart to counteract them?
I have the freedom-loving aspects venus square uranus and sun square uranus and do like my freedom. I also have significators of trouble with relationships - venus conjunct saturn, and no positive aspect between mars and venus. Does this mean that I will never have a stable and fulfilling relationship?
I have added a copy of my chart along with current transits for 12th November 2011.
Any help or advice would be gratefully appreciated.
Last edited by junoisuppose; 11-12-2011 at 03:07 PM.
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