My best friend is curious as to when will she lose her virginity?

[Katyusha]

Hey, she's 18, she asked me for help but I have no idea how to read a question like this. she has had a bf once before but they didn't do it, so now she is single for some time and is wondering when wil IT finally happen. She's a really nice girl, but sometimes has too high standarts for guys, she wants the Prince Charming, but there aren't so many, so she usually misses out on this relationship thingy She definitely isn't reckless with this kind of thing, knows that everythong depends on her, when and how she likes too do it, she just wants to know when could it happen.

added her natal chart and horary of the question :]

thank you! :]

[katem]

How strange a question is this?? If she is being picky, then she clearly values it and that is good. Forget astrology, just continue showing maturity and insight...it's not something she should rush, one prick and its gone and she would be very unusual if she did not meet someone further down the line she wished she had saved it for.

Live for the moment.

[lilithofeden]

I agree with katem

[waybread]

Your friend doesn't need to consult an astrologer--she needs to consult her personal values and her common sense.

Unless (God forbid) she is raped, your friend gets to choose the circumstances and timing.

I mean, suppose I said it would happen on a given date, and she was not in a committed relationship-- would she go out to a singles bar and look for a one-night stand? If I said it would happen on a given date and she was in a committed relationship-- then this should be a private matter between her and Mr. Right. She doesn't need an astrologer metaphorically in her bedroom.

There is no such thing as being "too picky." If the man and the situation do not feel right to your friend, then they are not right for her.

[tranceplay]

Originally Posted by Katyusha

Hey, she's 18, ... She's a really nice girl, but sometimes has too high standarts for guys, she wants the Prince Charming, but there aren't so many, so she usually misses out on this relationship thingy ...blah, blah, blah.]

First: If she is 18 and looking for Mr. Right instead of Mr. He'll Do, she probably isn't really asking about losing her virginity but really trying to ask when she will fall in love with someone. The problem with horary is always getting to what the REAL question is and not what the querent hopes they can ask without telling you the whole truth.

Second: She is in complete control of her deflowering as a virgin. To give any indication otherwise is to say that she has no choice or control over that and that no matter how she feels, it must occur at the appointed time with the person of circumstance and not the person of her choosing.

Unless she really gets off on the idea of being raped by someone she doesn't even like, let's not even entertain this idea as something to consider. It is both frightening, disempowering and pointless.

Before asking horary, please remember that the best and most clear answers come from questions that are asked with sincerity and total honesty (both with yourself and the astrologer). This is an oracle that is to be respected - especially considering the amount of time it takes to master it - not a magic 8-ball that you shake to get a quick answer out of.

Tell your friend to worry about finding the boy first. The virgiinity will take care of itself.