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Old 09-05-2011, 09:46 PM
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Cause for conflict?

If two people both have a mercury in Aquarius and a mars in Leo, would this cause conflicts between them in general? Also, what would result?

And I know a lot of people on here want the full chart, but I'm just asking in general
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Old 09-05-2011, 10:50 PM
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oh well I just realized that my mars is in opposition to his sun, which explains a lot...
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Old 09-06-2011, 06:15 PM
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Mercury square Mars is a natural argumentative aspect,when side by side with another Mercury Mars square I would expect continuous competitiveness arguing and bickering.
Without house's and no natal chart I can only hazard a guess that intellect, humanitarian beliefs,individuality,pride and selfishness would be the major themes that would be argued about.
And of course as you have just noticed you also have t square that involves your sun which only makes it more personal.I suggest you use the occasion as a chance to practice your arguing technique.lol.
But if you want some peace its best you don't spend to much time discussing anything much with this person unless you want to learn how to control your temper?.
I sure hope im not talking about someone important like a husband wife or child?
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If two people both have a mercury in Aquarius and a mars in Leo, would this cause conflicts between them in general? Also, what would result?

And I know a lot of people on here want the full chart, but I'm just asking in general
thank you
mars is action and mercury is speech and in hard aspect causes tension altercations and disagreements...

Although synastry is a valuable tool with astrology it cannot 'make things happen' even if you have the best synastry in the world unfortunately.

In synastry I use tight orbs and view aspects between one person's outer planets to the other person's inner planets as being "karmic connections"......usually with the outer planet person doing the teaching and the inner planet person doing the learning.

If you want to research more into synastry try here
http://cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/interchartaspects.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry_house_overlays.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry-houses.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastryaspects.html
http://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/astrology-marriage.html
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17513
http://www.astrotheme.com/synastry_advice.php
http://www.astrology-x-files.com/synastry/ascendant.html
http://astrologyfiles.com/free-horoscope-matching/
http://www.skyviewzone.com/lovematch/sunsynastryhouse.htm

relationship sticky
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=28945
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showpost.php?p=254409&postcount=9
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Old 09-10-2011, 01:24 AM
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thank you!
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Old 09-10-2011, 07:30 AM
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Re: Cause for conflict?

Ps Urawakai:I assumed that the 2 Mercury Mars squares are very close to each other,within a few degrees,this is the case?
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What I think Saturn-mercury hard aspects may creates conflicts/misunderstanding and Mars-mercury hard aspects may creates aggression, arguments etc.




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Old 09-12-2011, 03:09 AM
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Ps Urawakai:I assumed that the 2 Mercury Mars squares are very close to each other,within a few degrees,this is the case?
well I can't get the exact degrees, though I'm confused because a couple people have mentioned squares even though I'm talking about opposition? or is this just a term for hard aspects in general?
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Re: Cause for conflict?

Sorry Urawakai youve lost me now,Did you originally mean then that one person has mercury in aquarius and the other person has mars in leo and consequentlythere is an opposition between these 2 planets in a comparison chart?
Sorry if i mistook your original question as something completely different.
In which case there is a small amount of argumentative behaviour between the 2 parties but nothing like as serious as what i previously said if both had mercury mars squares.
sorry my mistake.
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well I can't get the exact degrees, though I'm confused because a couple people have mentioned squares even though I'm talking about opposition? or is this just a term for hard aspects in general?
hard aspects do function very similarly, but you should also remember the orbs for synastry are max 3' between one chart and another..
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Old 09-14-2011, 12:28 AM
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Sorry Urawakai youve lost me now,Did you originally mean then that one person has mercury in aquarius and the other person has mars in leo and consequentlythere is an opposition between these 2 planets in a comparison chart?
Sorry if i mistook your original question as something completely different.
In which case there is a small amount of argumentative behaviour between the 2 parties but nothing like as serious as what i previously said if both had mercury mars squares.
sorry my mistake.
Sorry, I probably explained it badly! We both have mars in Leo and mercury in Aquarius (although I learned we were both born with mars retrograde ironically) so there aren't any squares, though I could be wrong
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Old 09-14-2011, 12:30 AM
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oh, and also, I'd like to think myself knowledgeable in astrology (unless it's about myself haha) but...orbs are over my head!
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oh, and also, I'd like to think myself knowledgeable in astrology (unless it's about myself haha) but...orbs are over my head!
you should post both natals and a synastry bi wheel...natally with mercury opp mars retro would be described as argumentativeness but with retro mars this may be more internalised.

If you post the synastry chart and realise it doesn’t show the degrees (which we need to look at) you can find the degrees and other information in a separate PDF on the synastry page of astro.com. Look for the link "View the additional tables (PDF)" and click on it to see the additional information. Reading a synastry chart is mainly about reading the aspects between the planets in the two charts. So once you find the PDF, scroll down to the bottom of the page and look in the synastry grid that is there. Unfortunately, you can only see/read these and not save/upload. That’s why I like to see both natal’s and composite. This grid (in my opinion) has too many minor aspects and the orbs are quite wide. I like to use + - max 3’

When posting a synastry bi wheel from astro.com remember to reduce the *orbs* to 50% and maximum orb should be 3’

When looking at a woman’s chart the type of man she would look for is her sun sign and mars traits, plus 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.
When looking at a mans chart for the type of woman he would look for is his venus and moon sign and then 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.

Although synastry is a valuable tool with astrology it cannot 'make things happen' even if you have the best synastry in the world unfortunately.
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Old 09-15-2011, 03:59 AM
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Re: Cause for conflict?

I am such a novice compared to you! haha seriously, I cannot believe I don't know some of these terms!

and about the synastry....I guess I was wondering in general unless it's possible for aquarius and leo to semisextile? Though I thought they would always be in opposition. One person I'm thinking of was born less than a month before me, so I think they would tighter aspects among the slower transiting planets. right?
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