Why did he book his wedding??

[cancergirl77]

Ive posted here before about a man that i keep having weird coincedences with. I use the term lighly ... We have the same address i received junk mail for him at my house and a 100 othet things.in the past we have been together etc i told him i wld be with him but he got engaged and that was that. My pluto touches all every part of his chart... Seriously every planet and mc asc so it has bern all around a dark odd connection. Anyway the question:

He booked the hotel rooms for his wedding at my hotel! i work in nyc and his wedding is 40 miles away! Why?? Thanks

[Neptune Rising]

Hi, can you please upload the chart for the moment you thought of the question. There are guidelines here on how to create a horary chart.

This is how to upload the chart from astro.com.

Thanks

[cancergirl77]

this is the chart from the moment i found out he booked his rooms, this has all been so painful any insight will be great

[Anachiel]

Some connections we have in life may be fated but, it does not mean we share any destiny with that person.

The chart itself is showing that you may be making this "connection" bigger than it really is.

For one, the Moon is void, in Gemini. This shows there really is nothing to the matter.

The Ascendant is late, showing the matter is past or passing away.

Also, the Sun, his significator is in his own house (the 7th) and with Venus.
You, signified by Saturn, have no relationship to this person and are strong where you are.

The Moon's last aspect was to Mercury, lord of the 4th. So, it appears there is some sort of past connection with this person or connection with this person from an earlier time in your present life. Other than that, there is little connection to you two in this chart.

Odd things just happen. It's a big Universe. We're bound to cross paths with many types of people. But, the chart is indicating this particular person is not a sustainable future contact for you.

As to specifically why he booked his weeding there; what I see is that you both simply share a similar path through the physical world and this is the reason for the "coincidences". Just like you might see your neighbor each day because they live next to you. In this case you just happen to share other similar physical spaces and see each other (or remnants, like mail) once in a while.

Move along now, nothing to see here

Blessings,

Anachiel

[cancergirl77]

Thank you! Very much i hope i never see him again and to confirm your presictions i new him in childhood xoxo

[Aquarius358]

Originally Posted by cancergirl77

Ive posted here before about a man that i keep having weird coincedences with. I use the term lighly ... We have the same address i received junk mail for him at my house and a 100 othet things.in the past we have been together etc i told him i wld be with him but he got engaged and that was that. My pluto touches all every part of his chart... Seriously every planet and mc asc so it has bern all around a dark odd connection. Anyway the question:

He booked the hotel rooms for his wedding at my hotel! i work in nyc and his wedding is 40 miles away! Why?? Thanks

Why did he book his wedding rooms at my hotel?
7:30 pm, NY, NY, 23 Aug 2011 ASC 27Aq17; MC 11Sag55
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Hi,
I just came across your unusual question. I agree with what Anachiel has said and would add the following.

Because of the long history of ‘contacts’ between you and this guy and because you once had a close relationship with him (yes?), I would take this question to be not so much in relation to the wedding rooms being booked at your hotel (presumably where you work, yes?) - but rather ‘Will I have any further contact with him?’

If you agree that’s a reasonable way to frame the question - if that’s your main worry - your chart showed there was a possibility of further contact with him in the future BUT - and this is a big and important ‘but’ - this contact would not actually occur because Mercury was Rx applying to Jupiter - & Mercury would go direct again before the contact was able to be made between the two planets.

I’m using Mercury to signify this ‘other’ person because of the late degrees on the Asc and the Desc. The Signs of Aquarius and Leo are not ruling the 1st and 7th Houses any more because of the late degrees, rather, Pisces and Virgo. You, Jupiter. Him, Mercury.

One thing that’s interesting to note is that Mercury and Jupiter do have mutual reception by Term. This kind of reception between you means there was a connection - underlined in this chart of yours - and it was mutual - ie both of you thinking the same of each other - holding each other in a kind of vaguely-friendly regard. That’s all. Nothing sinister about it. It’s not a “detrimental” reception.

I think it’s okay for you to have been a bit unsettled or intrigued by the continued, accidental contacts with this one person, especially since you had a relationship with him in the past. But, in the future, the contact is not going to occur.

The Moon was not going anywhere in this chart, but she did contact the Ascendant by trine - a helpful aspect and a good sign that the outcome would be positive & good for you. I hope that’s how it’s playing out.___

[cancergirl77]

Thank u or your response as i swear to you i just bumped into him and his wife. After the whole wedding fiasco.. I told him i wld never speak to him. So i pretended like i didnt know him. Im so sad. I dont know why i keep seeing him if it all amounted to nothing. i appreciate your feedback