unhappy marrage life

moon123 · #1 11-30-2006, 06:11 PM

Hi all,
my rising signis libra
jupeter is in 3rd house
rahu is in 4th house
mercury is in 6th house
sun is in 7th house
mars,saturn,venus in 8th house
ketu and moon in 10th house
my moon sign is cancer

Somebody told me before my merrage that I am going to get a unhappy merrage life.
then after my merrage I found out that taht is true.
Please help me.
moon123

lilllybelle · #2 12-01-2006, 12:10 AM

It might help some if you talk about it. Sometimes it is good to just write it all out and share the experience. L.

starlink · #3 12-01-2006, 10:45 AM

Dear Moon, With the ruler of the 7th house in the 8th, especially with Mars as the ruler, there could indeed be crisis in connection with partners (or others), but with the ruler of the 7th in the 8th it can also be a marriage where the partner supports you, but whatever it is, you must look at your whole chart. When you really are unhappy and you cannot talk about it with your husband, then try to find someone to whom you can talk to, like lillybelle suggests. That is very important. Maybe you can then find a solution to the problems you have. Wish you all the best. S.

moon123 · #4 12-01-2006, 05:47 PM

Thanks a lot starlik,
Yes Iam talking with friends,They have same problem,
but I feel mine is worse.
My husband is ok but my in laws doing politics here.
In cancer my moon sign there is ketu sitting ,that might be a problem.
Thank you again
Take care
moon123

starlink · #5 12-02-2006, 03:29 PM

Dear Moon, Could you explain to me what Ketu exactly means? I have never heard of this Star/planetoide? or is it another name for a planet we use?

moon123 · #6 12-02-2006, 09:59 PM

Dear starlink,
Ketu is moons south node.
Moon has its 2 nodes North node and south node.

In vedic astrology they don't consider these 2 node as planets.
Thay are shadow planets.
North node is the head and south node is the tell.
In vedic astrology they imagine it as a snake's head and tall.

I know that much.
take care

moon123

starlink · #7 12-03-2006, 03:30 PM

Hi Moon, Thanks for explaining to me what Ketu means. I do know what the Moon nodes are, just did not know that in Vedic Astrology it is called Ketu for south Node. South Node usually means where you give out, actually where you already know the lessons and has to give them to others. North Node is where it is more difficult because you have to learn those lessons. South Node sometimes means that the person takes "the easy way out" of a situation. Maybe that the problems come through not wanting to confront your problems? I am just guessing here, but as you said yourself, maybe it is Ketu that causes the problems?

waterlilly · #8 12-12-2006, 06:58 PM

I just wanted to offer you my support during this difficult time.

Remember like the wheel of fortune, if your down the only way is up!

What can you do today, this second that will lift your spirits?

Move forward...

SimplyRed · #9 01-29-2007, 04:42 PM

I can relate, Moon

Moon rules my seventh house and in eleventh, and it is square Uranus and Jupiter and my final dispositor which spells unstable partners.

Seclusion, the arts almost seem like heaven compared to have moon rule your seventh house and dealing with it. .

Partners, LOL moody yes, 11th house is Uranus house and freedom, unique, and CRAZY

So, I can relate.

What is bizarre is that appear stable until latter on. Maybe I drive them nuts.

So, moon ruling seventh is NO fun. Noel Tyl said that is one of the worst rulers for seventh house.

freedomlover · #10 01-29-2007, 05:25 PM

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So, moon ruling seventh is NO fun. Noel Tyl said that is one of the worst rulers for seventh house.

AARGH! SimplyRed, don't say that! The Moon rules my 7th, too! (But my moon is in the 1st - although some house systems place it in the 2nd) Does this explain my problem with Jekyl and Hydes?

SimplyRed · #11 01-29-2007, 07:33 PM

Hey Freedom and Moon, Not trying to scare you. I think if you try to work with what you have and not work against your chart, maybe something good.
Marital problems cause so many other problems, it is like it grows and grows, proliferates into weeds.

Well moon is always being bombarded with the outer transit planets with at least one difficult aspect. Take your pick. Uranus, Neptune, Pluto, and even Saturn.

Watch your solar return for the past ten years.

Right now, my moon will receive nasty squares from Uranus for awhile.

What would be a great house for the moon, or Cancer cusp.

Rising Cancer, LOL changable looks, great for singer,model, etc. but moon is more than that. soft and sensitive.
Maybe there is a way to work around it. Must be some way or why do astrology in the first place.

Never live in the same house, or have separate homes. I have seen this one done and it works out great. Not typical marriage, but who cares.
The bond could still be there, but it would require a different style of living.

SimplyRed · #12 01-30-2007, 12:17 AM

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Originally Posted by moon123

Hi all,
my rising signis libra
jupeter is in 3rd house
rahu is in 4th house
mercury is in 6th house
sun is in 7th house
mars,saturn,venus in 8th house
ketu and moon in 10th house
my moon sign is cancer

Somebody told me before my merrage that I am going to get a unhappy merrage life.
then after my merrage I found out that taht is true.
Please help me.
moon123

I am sorry to hear that. I went back and read what you wrote. No astrologer should predict something as deflating as that, without giving you some alternatives. I do not know your situation, but gather many hear would be more that happy to talk with you. There seems to be some awesome people here.
Yes, Noel Tyl states that about cancer cusp seventh house.

However, I do believe in free will, how could Karma change without some amount of free will.
Take Care, be blessed