Virgo male: from calm and introvert to crazy chatter.
A few months ago I became interested in astrology and I've tried to develop my knowledges of this for some time. Especially into the male Virgo, since I fell into liking with one.
I'm a Libra myself and I would say that he became interested in my oddball-type of character. We dated and had some interesting chats. There was definitely a mutual interest and liking to one and another.
It was a "slow walk", so to say, and I decided to go with his pace. Nothing really happened between us. And when/if it did, it just fell out in the sand. After a few months I had enough with trying, I didn't want to smother him and I had a feeling he wanted to meet other people. So I let him.
Now, it has been cool for a while. Small talks every now and then, nothing special. Worth mentioning, we're co-workers and it's been pretty calm there as well (it has always been anyhow, he's not the guy that shows emotion in public).
But now, all of sudden, it's like he's had something fall out of his head. He's become very sociable, wants me to be near him, tells funny jokes and shows stuff. It's only been going on for 3 days straight, but it's CONSTANTLY. And it's so not like him. He's so...open.
I don't really know how to explain his change of behaviour. But it's like he went from this calm, introverted, logical Virgo to a spontaneous, out-blurting Aries type of guy.
I could fill in if anyone needs to know more. But what I'm wondering is: how should I tackle this? How should I approach his behaviour and WHY is he doing this all of a sudden? He IS a Virgo after all and I'm afraid that I would scare him off if I start to ask question. You know, if there's anything that is bothering him or if he has something on his heart that he wants to let out.
I really like this new character of his, but I know how he is and I don't think we would make a well fit (Virgo/Libra). But I DO want to be good friends with him and want to approach him that way. I do miss him so and I do want to hug him when he asks me. But how, what, why...help?