Hi all. So, let me just say I'm vary wary of saturn. I've had bad saturn synastry with a few people and OH MY GOSH it's bad for me. Probably because I don't have any natal saturn aspects so I can't handle the responsiblity. Recently I was doing synastry between me and another person

and something alarming happened...I found venus conjunct saturn!!!! OH NO!! What I'm thinking though, is that saturn isn't all bad, actually it seems like sometimes saturn can be pretty fateful in a relationship. I do definatley think this planet gets a bad rap.
I KNOW that venus square saturn and opposition are really not good in synastry, but with venus conjunct saturn it seems like it might actually bond two people together....what do you think? any experiences?