Chart Comparison. PLEASE HELP!

[alovelytune]

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[Horus]

If you can get his birthtime, and you make a synastry bi-wheel at astro.com that will tell us a bit more.

Sometimes people can get bored if they are too much alike. The purpose of relationships is growth and that requires challenges based on differences whether they be external or between the couple, but there has to be some kind of dynamic tension there. The occasional fight can be healthy and the make-up sex quite hot. Otherwise, the relationship tends to stagnate.

[Mark]

It sounds to me like you're asking questions that astrology wasn't meant to answer. He's a great guy. He treats you well. He hasn't done anything to drive you away. You're drifting away and you don't know why. There may or may not even be a problem here. The issue seems to be that you value continuous novelty and excitement more than a stable, fruitful relationship. You are quite young, after all. "Something" is "missing" not because there is a deficiency, but because you want what you don't already have more than what you have. Let's remember that you aren't supposed to live in the same emotional state indefinitely. You don't feel love for someone 24/7, every moment, year after year, especially if you have other things that demand your attention (like jobs). In my experience, nobody falls out of love. They only fall out of infatuation, dependence, etc. that was confused for love.

There seem to be only two possible conclusions here. Either you decide that serving your own immediate desires is most important or you decide that there must be a reason for staying or leaving (not just a feeling). You can side with rationale or impulse. That is your real decision.

P.S. Also remember that there are MANY women out there who rejected 95%, 87%, and 75% good men while dating and end up married to 42%. You are the only one here who has any idea what kind of man he will eventually make.