Hi there, I'm new here, I've been looking into this synastry, between me and my ex. It has a strong saturn aspects, mostly his to my personal planets. Saturn conj my sun & mercury, square my mars and trine my moon. There's also a Saturn conj neptune. The only lovey-dovey aspect I'd say is Sun sextile venus double whammy. We're glued to each other from the beginning, we'd even hold hands when sleeping!!
But two years into the relationship I'm feeling suffocated. I have Venus in Aquarius in the 11th house. It feels like whatever I do he'll want to criticize and he calls himself my mentor. We broke up last year November but still calling up each other. He says he will pursue me again, but the conventional way. He's got Venus in Capricorn, also 11th house. I tried calling him and he got mad, I think I overstep the 'woman should wait for the call' rule. I just don't get dating rules!!!!
We have Venus square Pluto in both our own natal charts, and it appears in our composite chart too. I feel he's employing tactics but I don't want to.
By the way, he's seeing someone else. Then denies that anything happened between them. One minute he wants to reconcile, the other he just acts all cold and distant. (actually same in my case)
I wonder.. does this mean.. the lesson's learned and time for us to let go and meet other people? I definitely feel that. Previously when we were discussing about the probability of reconciling, he was excited because I told him I can change (I got venus square mars natally, emotional outbursts, very violent). Then all of a sudden, he's telling me life is unpredictable and that we may face rejection at any moment.
I'd want him back. I feel we can grow together. But at the same time, I'm making plans that if he doesn't come back, I can just walk away. Does he feel this way too? Or is he keen to hold on?
Please help me.. is this a karmic relationship?