What do we do in each others' lives? - Davidson vs. Composite

[Milber]

Hi everyone,
since you helped we tremendously with my vocational problem, I was hoping you might also be able to shed some light of this relationship issue of mine. Our Composite and Davidson charts are utterly different and as I know too little about relationship astrology to make anything of them.

The guy and me have known each other for maybe 2.5 years and no matter what I do or who I have affairs with, I can't forget about him. With my sun in his 7th house and his in my 3rd, being with him feels like coming home or being completed. Well, to me at least. I actually have no idea what he sees in me. We got to know each other in a professional context, still meet within in the same but only had a really brief flirt two years ago, nothing serious.

So I'm left wondering why this is never getting anywhere, neither closer nor further away from each other. What is he in my life for and what do I mean to him?

Please find our Composite + Natals and the Davidson chart attached. I'd be grateful for some hints.

[EJ53]

Originally Posted by Milber

...Please find our Composite + Natals and the Davidson chart attached. I'd be grateful for some hints......I'm wondering why this is never getting anywhere, neither closer nor further away from each other. What is he in my life for and what do I mean to him?

The Davison chart reveals the purpose of a relationship......Analyse it in the same way as any natal chart, but adjust your interpretation to reflect the fact that the "native" is a relationship rather than a person.

For example, the overall natal purpose is to "let our sun shine"......So, with Sun in Aquarius/11th in this Davison Chart, friendship is likely to be the purpose of the relationship (rather than romance)......But if you analyse the other factors in this chart (eg. the Chiron/NN opposition), you'll discover exactly what this friendship can teach the two of you about relationships.

[wintersprite1]

Going also with the Davidson, there are a few clues that this is a strong connection, but not nessessarily a permanent one.

Using the 5th house to find how you two were with dating and "hanging out" and we have Cancer on the Cusp. The lord of the cusp is then the Moon found in the 6th house conjunct Pluto and opposed Venus (which will take on more meaning as we go). There is the big attraction, Pluto often causes obsessive feelings when in hard aspect to Venus, and would intensify the Moon. Being in the 6th/12th axis, it would have felt as one had to take care of the other one. Even with disagreements, many feelings were left hidden and unspoken and left to fester. The 7th house, the one used for legal marraige, is in Libra. The Lord of the 7th is Venus in the 12th. Venus is hidden here, either showing little materialized on a physical level, or there would have been uncomfort in showing the world that the two of you shared emotions. Now we see Venus again in interacting with the opposition. I would suspect there was confusion sometimes on what was expected romantically and what was emotionally appropriate. Saturn in the 5th is Rx, although in good aspect with the Venus and Moon/Pluto opposition. Some could argue it gives a steadyness to the relationship.... being rx I would think it is more a limitation... and probably one of the reasons he hasn't drifted away in your memory. I do also believe that having Chiron conjunct the South Node and near the Davidson's Ascendant speaks volumes. The relationship itself brings up inner conflicts in each of you, present before you ever met. And seems to continue to if you still feel tormented by the thoughts that return to you .


TK

[rahu]

one ancedotal observation is that grand trines incomposite charts often show a stasis in relationaships.the grand trine here of moon to sun/mercury to mars/neptune gives a warm,sensitive comfortable feel to the relationship. it is calming and compassionate .the pluto opposition to the moon gives emotional inhibition and a reclusive feel.pluto in the first house cab indicate a selfishness but here as it partakes in the trines and sextiles with the iintial grand trine, hence it gives unconscious emotional support to inherent harmonious quality protrayed.

there quite a strong emotional/mental tension with uranus square the mercury/venus conjunction.this gives a electricity to you interactions and quite a witty vercal rapport,as you have drastically different ideas on some subjects but never argue beyond propriety.

but i also wonder what the hangup is because this uranus/venus square is very enticing and emotionallly/mentaly stimulating.i would expect a intense affair with this configuration but as you noted there was only a brief flirtation.unusual to a degree.
it seems ,with the mercury/sun and venus/sun midoints conjuct saturn,that the relationship is focused as a mature friendship.

the sun square to jupiter could indicate that the work environment could suffer as a result of a negative connection between the two of you.

aslo mars is conjunct neptune which greatly lessens the physical side of this relationship.
wildly speculating, it would not surprise me if the mars/neptune conjunction didn't indicate a bi-sexual or gay orientation for him.

this speculation is arrived at as i am sur[rised that the uranus square to mercury/venus has brought a intense,intimate ,if not continous,emotional/physical connection.

possibly he simply senses that getting involved would have a good longterm affect on you,him or teh employment environment.

rahu