An ex got in touch a few years back and we have been emailing since and whenever the mood grabbed him. As he lives overseas the only contact has been phone calls and emails. For a few years he has been saying he's returning to the country to pick up where we left off! (I was crazy about this guy back then but circumstances got in the way - long story). We stopped talking a few months back but he sent a few invitations to join chat sites which i ignored as I thought it was probably a case of - upload your contacts and we'll get in touch with all of them. Anyway he got back in touch on his birthday by another more personal invitation, so i wished him happy birthday and then he called and we started chatting online again. He mentioned marriage! I
was defensive and suspicious but I would probably do anything for him which is dangerous and vulnerable position for me to be in. (he's a my-pluto-square-his-venus ex!
) So my question was am I getting married this year?
I would have been looking for a mercury - jupiter aspect and there is none. Not too keen on the first house Saturn rx or Uranus on the descendant!! I thought the jupiter sextile pluto was his way of trying to manipulate me (do i sound paranoid?
) He kind of had me dangling for a while. As mercury I am angular but the moon is in a critical degree (and it is in my 7th and rules my 11th). Is it possible the moon is classed at 8th house being close to the cusp? As for mercury angular, in saturn's house, own terms, facing Jupiter but in detriment to moon and fall of jupiter. Jupiter, cadent, 0 degrees, but in it's own house nothing going on with Mercury except fall and detriment!! So Mercury and Jupiter are bad for each other?
The moon squared mercury and then trined mars rx, then went on to sextile Neptune and just make an out of sign sextile to Jupiter which is a benefic in the 6th house. The moon recieves Jupiter by triplicity which means what? The moon likes Jupiter or jupiter likes the moon? (I always get mixed up with that, no matter how many times i look it up I never understand it). It looks bad to me, I don't really want to get married and i feel the whole thing has just been a game to him, I do have genuine feelings for him but he'll do something to annoy me and I tell him off then I get the silent treatment. Any suggestions? It may be time to just finally leave it in the past. I can't go on like this.
[moved thread out of Greenhorns to relational horary as you gave some interpretation. Moderator.]