Lillith, Chiron and the Nodes

dmzlh^2 · #1 09-28-2009, 04:10 AM

Hi, I am new to this, and trying to learn. There is a reoccuring man in my life. Married him once. I was curious about Lilith, Chiron, and the nodes. Would these affect our paths crossing so many times in our lives. Please advise and thank-you for being patient with the newbie.

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astrologer50 · #2 09-30-2009, 09:53 PM

~Welcome to AW,

Please take a minute and introduce yourself in correct forum, from main index.

The nodes are very important in synastry as is Vertex.

Your Ascendants Gemini and Pisces are both very restless procrastinating and restless. Sun sign taurus and Saggitarius are quincunxed signs --- not good idea as you may never really understand each other.

the moon of one is conj uranus (the divorce planet)-- not good. Your venus are in 90' square signs and aspects - not great. Venus in Cappi is square Saturn conj Neptune. This venus may end up feeling unloved uncherished and romantically disillusioned. My thoughts-- narrow escape

When looking at a woman’s chart the type of man she would look for is her sun sign and mars traits, plus 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.
When looking at a mans chart for the type of woman he would look for is his venus and moon sign and then 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.

Although synastry is a valuable tool with astrology it cannot 'make things happen' even if you have the best synastry in the world unfortunately..

If you want to research more into synastry try here
http://cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/interchartaspects.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry_house_overlays.html

We also have a 'Relational Forum' besides lots of others and these are very common questions so perhaps researching a while around there could pay dividends....Here is one of my post's with lots of info http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum...ad.php?t=13745

Synastry & divorce--- really great article, well worth reading-----
http://books.google.co.uk/books?id=0OJgX88KKMsC&pg=PA46&lpg=PA46&dq=astrolog y+2nd+marriage&source=bl&ots=DoV__K_IQS&sig=dI1UAX 5oprrQLtfzYUrJ4_XzuKU&hl=en&ei=zBV0SsfnHYqhjAf5rN2 nBg&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=6#v=onepa ge&q=&f=false

dmzlh^2 · #3 10-01-2009, 09:45 PM

I most certainly do appreciate you looking at my chart. Several friends and myself have looked at my chart, and honestly, you are the first to say the divorce planet. It struck a nerve, I have been divorced 3 times, I need/want to break that pattern so I have already visited the link you recommended. I know astrolgy does not set in stone all outcomes, I intend to use this knowledge as a way of facing and dealing with what I have been dealt. Now that I know what my stumbling blocks are and will be I can better deal with them. I wish I new about this before all those heartaches.

astrologer50 · #4 10-01-2009, 10:33 PM

Cos I can't see the degrees they are square by sign, also your uranus is opp his venus-- not good. I have uranus in 7th house and been divorced 3x but in fairness I did marry the last one twice. I have it square my 'lights' ie; sun/moon plus it's my chart ruler and conj sun/moon midpoint. But have a stellium planets in taurus in 4th. Now I've found that it's my partners that want the freedom or should I say 'cake and eat it' but once a betrayal uranus will walk away and cut the ties cleanly and start from scratch. What Uranus really wants is a bit of excitement, stimulus, not boredom or routine, it wants inventiveness, maybe even bit role playing, someone who will keep you on your toes in a nice unstressful way. It also doesn't want a highly emotional, over sensitive, manipulative water sign that wants to know your every movement (clock you in and out) It wants Freedom and independence within a relationship.....

Any challenging aspect to uranus is on the 'divorce list' but I've found also that T Saturn conj, square, opp my venus has always broken a relationship to.

We also have a 'Relational Forum' besides lots of others and these are very common questions so perhaps researching a while around there could pay dividends....Here is one of my post's with lots of info http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum...ad.php?t=13745

Synastry & divorce--- really great article, well worth reading-----
http://books.google.co.uk/books?id=0OJgX88KKMsC&pg=PA46&lpg=PA46&dq=astrolog y+2nd+marriage&source=bl&ots=DoV__K_IQS&sig=dI1UAX 5oprrQLtfzYUrJ4_XzuKU&hl=en&ei=zBV0SsfnHYqhjAf5rN2 nBg&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=6#v=onepa ge&q=&f=false

We also have a good search feature on AW bit like google for further research

dmzlh^2 · #5 10-02-2009, 05:37 AM

I will keep reading, thanks. Heck you know me better than my 3x's, they never understood my need for the things you described. They could not understand loyalty to fault until betrayed, and the need for freedom. People think I am cold and unforgiving when I cut and run, those people don't understand that the first cut is the deepest and that I don't mess with anyone who doesn't mess with me first. And yes I do cut and run, when I'm done, I'M DONE. You know what we need, a web site like synastry.com instead of match.com, LOL.
Thanks again. I am looking forward to the 4th when Saturn leaves, horray, it has been the hardest 2 years of my life. I will be watching for his gift, I do think I did past his test though.
I know now not to think with my scorpio, HA-HA, when it comes to the physical parts of an intimate relationship.
I have found Susan Miller helpful also. As you probably have already figured out, I do have a thirst for knowledge.