Hello Astroquest, a very warm welcome to this AW forum. I think you choose the right place to polish up your astrological knowledge. We have an Education Board with lots of links and articles, so I would suggest you take your time and go through this as it is really worthwhile. Should you have any questions, please contact one of the mods for advice.
My question is I obviously have traits of aquarius in my soul or something
That could be the conjunction from your Moon with Uranus. It is very important to you to feel unrestricted, especially at home because this conjunction falls in your 4th house.
Have a good time here!
A little advice: next time please post an anonimous chart. This one shows your name and all the rest. This is a public forum, the whole world can read it, so I think for privacy reasons, better put up one without your name.