Will wearing a diamond stone help me in marriage?

[delhimedico]

Dear community members,
I am having a relational problem.
I have been having problems in converting my love relationship of the last 4 n 1/2 yrs, into marriage, and a commitment from his side. The most important reason for that is that he is of Aggarwal caste and I am a Punjabi, and so his parents have strong objection to our marriage. He instead of trying to convince them, prefers not to make them unhappy, and in the process, is unable to take any stand. Kindly tell me how and when can I convert this relationship into a marriage?


After having made an attempt at reading my chart, I feel this is the only time i can do anything about this, because after he will be gone forever. Because im in Ketu mahadasha, there is so much uncertainity in my life. My Venus subperiod ends in mid-dec. Moreover my Venus is in the 10th house, sitting with Rahu, and overpowered by Jupiter...this is the reason why im not bieng succesful in this love marriage.
I have been trying simple remedies for this, including wearing a 'Venus yantra' in a white thread since the last one year.
Recently I got to know that wearing a diamond stone strenghtens planet Venus. Although i've always been weary of the idea of wearing gemstones, but now im strongly thinking about going for this.
Could u please tell me, whether wearing a diamond stone would be good for me. What would be its adverse effects?
I could really appreciate your help.

Birth details:
I have put charts from www.astrodienst.com as attachments.

Date: 9th August 1982
Time:08:48 am
Place: Dehradun, Uttranchal, India

His Date: 24th June 1979
Time:08:50 am
Place: Delhi,India

[lillyjgc]

Hi: Sorry, but you are asking a horary question here so the natal charts won't help us to answer you.This should be asked in the Relational horary section.
Cheers,
Lillyjgc

[dreamtimez]

Hello

Originally Posted by delhimedico

Kindly tell me how and when can I convert this relationship into a marriage?

You can cast a horary chart at www.astrodienst.com that will give an insight into the situation and also the future.
Take care.

[starlink]

Helllo Delhimedico, yes, I also think that you can actually get a better answer to your question with a horary question. Do you still remember the time you asked it? otherwise take the time you posted this question:7.35 AM on the 26th of October. You must draw a chart for this day and hour and the place you are living now.
If you have never done any horary astrology, I give you here the link to go to so you can find information on how to interprete a horary chart.

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Arian Maverick

Good luck!
Starlink

[GeraniumSA]

I don't see marriage happening to this fellow anyway. You do not have any of the classical indications for marriage with this person.

The classical indications for marriage include person A's sun conjunct B's moon, A's sun conjunct B's descendant, A's venus conjunct B's Descendant, A's venus conjunct B's Ascendant, A's moon conjunct B's Saturn.

There are other indicators for marriage.

I do see your sun conjunct his Ascendant. This is more typically an example of you are what he aspires to be. This is an indicator for friendship, not romance or marriage. I also don't see many positive connections between your two natal horoscopes.

On a more practical note, if he really wanted to marry you, he'd have asked in spite of his parents. And you haven't stated what YOUR parents would think of such a match. I don't know what wearing a diamond will do for you, but I think it is more likely to fail to give you the results you are hoping for. And after 4 and 1/2 years, if he wanted to marry you, he'd have indicated a more decisive commitment by now. Stop chasing him.
He is not the right one for you.