My girlfriend left me - what will happen?(Please help)

[Helpmeout]

Hi everybody. Okay i'm a 20 year old guy. Me and what is now my exgirlfriend has been together for a little more than 2 years. Yesterday she broke up with me. She said that she didn't have the same feelings anymore. I'm devastated. I love her so much, and she means everything to me, i really don't know what to do. About 1 year ago or so we had a little problem because of another guy. It's one of her good friends, and she communicated a lot with him(SMS and IM). She said that there was no feelings whatsoever. Latelt they have started to communicate again. One thing is that she left me, but if she started to date him i would be completely destroyed. She told me that the brake up had nothing to do with him at all. I asked her something like if they was going to date now and she said something like "not right now".

Basically she really hope that she gets the same old feelings again now that we are not gogether anymore, and of course so do i.

I have 2 questions.

A) Will she get the same feelings for me again?(i.e will we get back together)

B) Will she date that other guy, and what will happen between them?

Please i really hope you can answer the questions. Let me know what data you need in order to give answers.

[goldlock]

I think you should go to astro.com and get a chart with the time of the question

[Suvasri]

Dear Helpmeout!
Hi! You can place both your charts for our well versed friends to calculate & judge.But,fearing the worst,if she never returns to you,accept that as the truth which you must endure.You are only 20. Break ups happen dear friend,breakups happen. & most people do get another one sooner or later.They come across love again.Love can happen more than once in life.You'll be sorry until you get another one.In the meantime,you will be richer in experience.Sorrow teaches us so many things.Have patience.The Sun will again shine on you!

[starlink]

Suvasri is right! Most people go through at least 2 serious relationships before finally finding the right he or she. You are so terribly young and this was probably your first love. You will get over her, don't wait for her to come back but start looking around you. There are far more fish in the water than you think! Also, when people tie up this young and eventually even marry, they usually split up years later because they had too little experience. A real Romeo and Juliet scenario you can forget about these days, totally unrealistic, believe me. Cheer up young man, love lies around the corner!! and YES, you will love again, and then it is maybe real love.

[Helpmeout]

Sorry i haven't got back ealier. Already the day after she called me and said that she could feel that she still loved me. The reason she broke up is quite complicated, and it was not just because she didn't have the same feelings anymore.

So now we are working on getting everything right again. But thanks for your support!