Will we ever get together?

[only1cake]

Hello there, met a wonderful girl a month and a half ago (Scorpio Sun, Gemini Moon) who I have been hanging out /chatting with regularly. Our relationship began a little oddly - we hooked up first, before getting to know each other later. Now, we have an amazing creative/intellectual connection and we play music together, philosophize on social issues, and can spend many hours just.. talking. It's great.

BUT - we are doing our best to remain friends because our values/agendas in relationships are so different - I am ready for a stable, committed relationship and she says she "doesn't want to be tied down." (Moon in Gemini?) So we are friends now. But I can't help but wonder if we'll ever get together eventually.

The first is the composite; then synastry - much gratitude in advance for ANY insight you can give. Even the cold, hard truth is welcome.

THANK YOU !

[gen6k]

you might get some composite developments when we enter the virgo phase of the year post-august because the venus is opposite the vertex.

it'll be a turning point.

there are some nice things in the composte and in synastry you do have the venus pluto opposition so she'll stick to you if you treat her right and she'll blow up if you control her.

in the composite, these are things that neither of you would really say, but there is no pluto venus in the composite and its a bit depressed with the sun square saturn.

there is a cool mystic triangle (the art thing with venus) there and some weight on pluto.


so overall its not like a super-addiction in the long run, but just play that venus pluto correctly on your side.

the red person has the sun and pluto there so that ego has to have reception with the venus. oh and thats her so her ego will probably dominate the relationship.

[only1cake]

Originally Posted by gen6k

in the composite, these are things that neither of you would really say, but there is no pluto venus in the composite and its a bit depressed with the sun square saturn.

Very interesting. I am guessing that when you you say "neither of us would say" something, you're referring to the Mercury/Saturn contact there in our composite.. I am wondering- do you think it would be more likely that she'd get depressed or I would if we got together?

I'll continue being her pal in earnest, of course. Those nasty Uranus / Saturn contacts are deterrents enough...