Chart interpretation for Aries man

[RolloTomassi]

I'm curious - based on my natal birthchart, what kind of woman would suit me? In the past, I've found that many Cancer women naturally gravitate towards me and have this amazing glow when I meet them. Also the Gemini chicks that I meet give me this bizarre, yet mystical and curious look when I introduce myself. And it's odd because both my mother and grandmother are Gemini and Cancer, but 99%.9 of the time I do NOT reveal that to women.

I feel like my sun in Aries and moon in Scorpio are always clashing and it's hard for me to interpret why women with certain astrological traits end up floating into my atmosphere. Or is this too black and white and there are grey spaces that I'm neglecting? For instance, I'm a musician and music plays a MAJOR role in my life, I hope that the woman I marry one day would have similar creative ideas and pursuits as me regardless of her personal astrology.

*see birthchart attached, thanks!

[RolloTomassi]

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[RolloTomassi]

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[kimbermoon]

My suggestion would be that it is the conjunction of Mars and neptune in the 12th that acts as an attractant; you must have an aura of mystery around you, and women would be drawn to a sense of secrets and mysteries that you seem to offer. Cancer would be drawn by their need for emotional closeness and having their needs met by a stronger 'leader' type of person [Aries Sun]: they would be looking to have someone stabilize their own insecurities and instabilities...
Your Moon in Scorpio would also be a big draw for those in search of passion and intensity in their relationship. Your 12th house energies are apt to make you appear rather withdrawn and perhaps mystical which for many is more appealing than the show-off, boastful or overly expressive type of partner.
Here is my formula for determining one's 'relationship chemistry': combine the influences of the Moon, Venus and Mars, and their aspects to each other:
yours is a combination of earth, fire and water, which ultimately requires a balancing with more Air added in there: as such Geminis, Librans or Aquarius could help to lend the necessary balance for you to be more sociable and outgoing.
Moon in Scorpio [water] shows that your true inner need is to be in emotional control of your own emotions; despite the fact that you might feel the need on the surface to control others: the question is do you control your emotions, or do they control you, which is a big lesson for the Scorpio energy.


Venus [fire] relates to our ideals and expectations of others: your Venus in Aries would reflect that you would tend to idealize strong, independent women that you might tend to follow, and who likes to engage in physical activity and adventure; you would want someone to inspire you as well.


It can be difficult to balance these differing energies within yourself: fire and water are not always combatible and this can lead to emotional outbursts when things don't go your way. On the other hand, your water can serve to submerge the enthusiasm and inspiration of the partner.


Next, look to Mars in Capricorn: [earth] traditionally expressed as reticent, reserved, cautious, perhaps withdrawn. If this is not you [counterbalanced by your Scorpio and Aries energies] this would then apt to be the type of women who would be attracted to you...someone more concerned with money and financial stability as well as status.

'I feel like my sun in Aries and moon in Scorpio are always clashing and it's hard for me to interpret why women with certain astrological traits end up floating into my atmosphere.' this is what I mean by

unbalanced energies...
As we see there can be an awkwardness between the needs of your Moon and the values of your Venus:
this can then lead to unrealistic expectations of what you think you want, and what you truly need. And this is where complications can arise in relationships.
I would be curious to know how you would explain the expression of your 12th house energies, which is highly significant yet difficult to define. Your particular generation is born with a specialized mission to perform in your later life, and as such, you need to be learning a lot about harmonization and balancing in preparation.

[RolloTomassi]

Whew that's heavy - very solid synopsis, thank you.

Moon in Scorpio [water] shows that your true inner need is to be in emotional control of your own emotions; despite the fact that you might feel the need on the surface to control others: the question is do you control your emotions, or do they control you, which is a big lesson for the Scorpio energy.

I definitely agree with this, I have pretty intense emotions and sometimes it's hard for me not to act irrationally and without proper meditation and thought. Sometimes I just wing it and have no real clue of what the outcome can be and that doesn't always play well in my favor. I guess that's why I have a love/hate relationship with my Scorpio moon lol

I would be curious to know how you would explain the expression of your 12th house energies, which is highly significant yet difficult to define.

It's hard for me to explain how I feel about my 12th house energies because I can't quite pinpoint what the 12th house means. I'm guessing it refers to your overall subconscious desires and wants. I crave respect and admiration from other people. I suppose a lot of that has to do with my upbringing and past...but overall I've placed myself in crazy situations and lived a somewhat rougher life than necessary. But I try not to live with regrets, I do lots of reading about esoteric knowledge and other ancient spiritual wisdom and that has helped to place me on the path of the true light.

Nonetheless, a major subconscious part of me despises authority figures and that's been problematic at jobs-I've been doing heavy research on business management and leadership since I was 16 so I can't stand when I come across incompetent managers in the corporate realm who want to "clue me in" on how to do mundane parts of the job. For the past six years, I've been focusing hardcore on my innate artistic abilities and I like the fact that I'm in control of my music and image that I portray across to audiences.

[kimbermoon]

Indeed the 12th house can be difficult to get a handle on, since in a general way it relates to secrets and things hidden: which seems quite vague in terms of how the energies work; it also is said to reveal 'confinements and limitations'; it is where we go for soul replenishment. It can also reveal specific past-life themes in need of working through. For you we find the referral to your musical talents with the Mars/Neptune conjunct, which seems a little out of place here in the 12th considering that you crave public respect and admiration.
Uranus is the planet that typically rebels against authorities in search of freedom and independence.
Being in control is what Aries is all about.
I am interested to know how you channel the Capricorn Mars energy, since it is sandwiched between Uranus in Sagittarius [travel, exploration, discovery] and Neptune in Capricorn. With Pluto now transiting Neptune in your chart this hints at a strong period of personal creativity for you, as well as a process of re-identification. In addition, Uranus is activating your Sun, also denoting a time of unexpected change and increasing the desire for freedom and individuality...grist for the mill...