Impossible for me to have a relationship!!

[bradderz777]

Hey everyone,


Yesterday was my birthday, it was a brilliant night, I was talking to girls who I knew and only just met, I partied ALL night with my friends and went into clubs with alot of alcohol (just came home from the night out) so I am drunk now as I write this but the problem is, a few girls were saying they `liked' me tonight, they were dancing with me and having a good time but they were only messing about and pushed me away whenever I approached them. Towards the end of the night, I was left outside all of the clubs and everyone went home, though before that, one of my friends randomly told this girl to `get with me' and she said "no way, I wouldn't dare!!" I got offended by that...

I don't know why girls seem to like to take the p*ss out of me all the time, if, from what I told you doesn't sound like they are, I personally think that they do...

Here is my chart with transits if anyone can see what is going on!!!!

RANT OVER!

Thanks, Brad.

[Absynthe]

maybe you intimidate them with your scorpio ascendant--pluto conjunct moon in the first. You might come off really intensely and they get scared away???

[gen6k]

Well for one I read somewhere that people haven't been in to the Gemini aesthetic for a while now, but its about to change in june. With Jupiter entering Gemini.

Your Cancer mars in the 9th makes some oppositions to how you communicate 3rd house, but it makes nice open alignments to your 1st house.

Your Sun is Square MC, squaring in to 1st house so it might seem like "you dont have it together".

Your Gemini venus in the 8th is coupled with Chiron and Saturn. There is probably something important you need to work out.

Overall, I would do a sort of Scorpionic-Gemini phoenix rising thing with your "vibes". You have the capability to know what they are thinking -informationally but haven't used it as a resource in realtime.

The Cusp of Energy sun could make you very dynamic-determined so I think its just something you don't work fixate towards with enough sufficiency. Its in the 7th square north node and MC which gives it a very paradoxical position. The MC gives off the lingerence of your "output" while the north node is the route you encounter from a mindset perspective. You have to be able to implant the "Leoness" first hand by reminising on your own "output" 10th house deals with power, authority, career with MC being the high point. Well basically this deals with a lot of "wobbling", but if you also conduce that "wobbling" then it could become more of an enterprise.

Yeah plus the pluto-moon in the 1st is kind of like "soft but deranged" which you can use to your advantage in the right places. I dont know it just comes and goes for more lunar types. Its all out in the open.

A good tip is concentrating on the concentrations that you have that upper right quadrant, then the communications and the 1st. Someone that would be considered "popular" by label would probably be like a 1-5-11 axis. Yet what they dont have is deeper substance 9-8-7-3-1.

[poyi]

I think because of...

Transit 11th house Mars semisquare your 12th house Saturn
Transit 11th house Mars square your 2nd house Transit NN

Transit 7th house SN conjunct natal 7th Sun and transit Sun (solar return)

Transit 3rd house Pluto Rx square 12th house Lilith

Transit 3rd house Pluto Rx opposition Transit 8th house Venus Rx

[Kerrie]

Maybe you will have some luck with transiting Jupiter hits your natal Sun.

Just what I am feeling for you... be careful that you are not sending mixed messages to girls. The Scorpian way of you is probably attracted to those quiet girls, but those quiet girls wouldnt be into the Gemini flirting from your Venus.

Go one way or the other - play it the Scorpian or the Gemini. I would rather go the Scorpian and pick a nice girl and use your Gemini Venus for good bedroom games, rather than choose multiple partners if you know what I mean.

I used to say this to my cousin all the time, dont go through trying to pick up all the girls in the room in one night, choose a girl and stick with her, show respect. If it doesnt work, try it again another night, not the same night .

[beginner]

because u have ruler of 7th in 8th(house of breakup), moon represent women in chart and in ur chart it is debilated, depositer of moon itself fall.

so on the basic of these positions my interpretation is that u shall face problems in relationship or with women. and where is ur juno?

[bradderz777]

Originally Posted by beginner

because u have ruler of 7th in 8th(house of breakup), moon represent women in chart and in ur chart it is debilated, depositer of moon itself fall.

so on the basic of these positions my interpretation is that u shall face problems in relationship or with women. and where is ur juno?

My Juno is in Leo, in the 10th house, here is an updated chart with it on below.