Originally Posted by sonia1983
I emailed some of my pictures to my b.f "M" as he is willing to show my pictures to his father laters.His father is against marriages outside their relatives plus he is a very traditional man who is not going to accept a love marriage easily .however,my boyfriend promised me and gave me words of marriage and promised me he will never leave me because of any one and no matter how much his family go against us he will marry me in court.He is an advocate himself and career wise he is in stable position but,we both want to proceed through our families.our priority is that we will convince our parents and will wait as long as we can wait and in case they do not agree we will have court marriage.it will not be an easy step for him and for me as well but,I have decided ,I want him no matter what happens next.
will he be able to convince his father and his mother when he will show them my pics in near future?
will there be any bad reaction on showing interest in me and will we have court marriage only or you see some other possibility too?
what will be the after affects of marriage and will we get married within or after 1 year?
Hello - I think there's a possibility you could be married within the year but it won't be with M's father's approval - not unless someone intervenes successfully on your behalf.
Reasons for my thinking go like this:
The Part of Marriage (Asc+7th-Venus) is in your 1st House. That, and the Part of Fortune in an applying, partile (ie exact) trine with Venus, your signifier, are the only things in your favour. Oh, and Fortuna is in Venus' Term, which is also significant. Venus, dispositor of good fortune and also your signifier and the dispositor of Part of Marriage, is exalted being in Pisces.
Interestingly, Venus is the strongest planet in the chart - ie you are the strongest in this matter. Your partner, M, is not. He's very weak. What's more - his location in your 12th - his 6th - weakens him as does his Rx (going backwards in his thinking perhaps?)
You are also in his Fall - which suggests he might not be the best for you. Make sure of your feelings, won't you.
But I doubt any marriage will be with M's father's approval. His father is signified by the Moon (10 ruler - 4th from 7th) and has separated from you - ie moving away from you. Moon also opposes Mars, his son, who is very weak and sort of 'lost and wandering' because his planet is peregrine. His father (Moon) is much stronger than M, too so that means his will would prevail over his son's.
There could be a relative of yours (or a neighbour) who might intercede on your behalf : Jupiter 3 ruler applies to the cusp of the 10th (M's father). This person might be someone who would be prepared to help you both - and Jupiter exchanges mutual reception with you, so this could be someone who cares for you. However, there's no aspects or light transference to indicate success in this.
The Part of Marriage dispositor is Venus because it is at 23Libra, & is therefore also conjunct a fortunate Fixed Star, Spica which could confer some 'honour' on this marriage if it takes place. I wish you well!__________