Me and my boyfriend are discussing our future.. marriage, kids...
I’ve analyzed our charts so many times (though I am not that experienced, I am still learning), and since I REALLY REALLY want this relationship to work out I always conclude that everything will be ok.
But I am not sure that our charts are saying the same thing..
So I need a detached and realistic opinion on our charts – I would really appreciate it if someone can find a little time to help...
My planets have bad aspects with his ruler Mercury – so we tend to fight a lot, but its usually concerning some unimportant themes so its constructive – we tend to learn a lot from each other through our debates. I am afraid that when our relationship moves on to another level (when we have children) I am afraid that we can have really heated arguments concerning important subjects..
We love each other VERY much! And in synastry we have some nice aspects such as:
my Sun sextile his Moon
my Moon trine his Saturn
my Venus conjunct his Venus (both of us have Venus in Cancer in our natal charts)
my Saturn (my ruler) sextile his Ascendant
my Neptune sextile his Saturn
my Ascendent trine his Mercury (his ruler)
In composite our strongest aspects are:
Sun trine Saturn 0°31'
Moon semisqure Venus 0°53'
Sun conjunct Venus 2°50'
We have Uranus in the 1st composite house and Sun inconjuct Uranus is very strong 0°10' and Mars inconjuct Uranus at 2°23' so that means instability but then
we have Sun trine Saturn 0°31' - wich is a sign for stability, also Venus trine Saturn 3°22' and Mars trine Saturn 2°02' - so can these aspects compensate for the problems that Uranus will cause, or have I misinterpreted them as stability?
We have Chiron/NN conjunction in the 7th composite house in Gemini, so our relationship looks very fated and we have Saturn and Pluto in 12th so it seems that it will change us and that we will learn a lot from this relationship, again Im not sure if Im interpreting it right..
Am I on the right path or am I completely dellusional believing that this could work out?
Here are the charts:
SYNASTRY: he is on the outside