Re: What aspect is keeping me chained to this chick?
Hi Aqualad. I've just had a look at your birth chart on its own, as I feel this always the best place to start. What jumped out at me in relation to your question is the close Moon Pluto square, with Pluto in the 2nd house. This can reflect an intense attachment to that which is valued and offers stability, which strongly influences matters of emotional intimacy, even if your Moon is in Aquarius.
Something else that might be relevant is your Cancer MC with Chiron in Cancer in the 10th - this is a bit of a long shot, but there could have been early experiences to do with your Mother that have left you with a kind of separation anxiety, especially together with that Moon Pluto square. This may not be felt very directly by you because you are so very airy (Sun, Moon, Mars, Ascendant, Mercury, Saturn!)
Your Venus in Pisces, also closely aspecting Pluto, though this time by a more gentle trine, may also add to the factors discussed above, especially with Neptune right on an angle. It could be that you are more watery (i.e. in need of fusion and intimacy) than you realise from your airy viewpoint.
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