My mom's illness.

[Pan]

This is my mom's chart, she hasn't good health, and has a kind of mental sick for years. When I look at her chart, I've found there are many challenge aspect between planets, such as sun opposite moon, Mercury opposite Pluto, Venus and Mar opposite Saturn. Normally she is fine, just sometime her illness comes back, she will be suffering and moody. I need to know what I can do to secure her emotion, and how can I cure her mind to be better in the long term. What're the indicators in her chart to show about her sickness? Pls give me some advise, thank you.

[adrianastrologer]

Pan,

I took a very brief look at your mother's chart. I'm sorry that she's ill and that it is affecting you. The first thing I notice about her chart is the number of signs that she has in Pisces, including her Sun, Venus, and Mars. She also has Saturn in Libra and Pluto in the 7th house which corresponds to Libra. My sense is that your mother is working out some deep karmic issues when it comes to relationships and setting her own emotional boundaries. Pisces acts like a psychic sponge, and it may be that she takes in the toxic environment around her into her body - she may have done that since childhood. I'm not trying to do a psychic reading here, but I do use intuition in my astrological readings. With her North Node in Pisces, I think she is learning to let go and trust that she will be taken care of, that she doesn't have to control everything. I think the best thing you can do for her is to take care of yourself, set healthy boundaries in your relationship with her, and meditate on seeing her well. Don't allow her to manipulate you or control you emotionally. Remember, you are taking care of her when you take care of yourself, especially if she turns to you for support. Give her the space she needs (Pisceans sometimes need a lot of time alone and to rest so they can emotionally recharge) and remember that you aren't to blame for her illness.

[Pan]

Originally Posted by adrianastrologer

Pan,

I took a very brief look at your mother's chart. I'm sorry that she's ill and that it is affecting you. The first thing I notice about her chart is the number of signs that she has in Pisces, including her Sun, Venus, and Mars. She also has Saturn in Libra and Pluto in the 7th house which corresponds to Libra. My sense is that your mother is working out some deep karmic issues when it comes to relationships and setting her own emotional boundaries. Pisces acts like a psychic sponge, and it may be that she takes in the toxic environment around her into her body - she may have done that since childhood. I'm not trying to do a psychic reading here, but I do use intuition in my astrological readings. With her North Node in Pisces, I think she is learning to let go and trust that she will be taken care of, that she doesn't have to control everything. I think the best thing you can do for her is to take care of yourself, set healthy boundaries in your relationship with her, and meditate on seeing her well. Don't allow her to manipulate you or control you emotionally. Remember, you are taking care of her when you take care of yourself, especially if she turns to you for support. Give her the space she needs (Pisceans sometimes need a lot of time alone and to rest so they can emotionally recharge) and remember that you aren't to blame for her illness.

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Thank you very much, adrianastrologer. You help me a lot. I've got a question for your advise;

....Pisces acts like a psychic sponge, and it may be that she takes in the toxic environment around her into her body - she may have done that since childhood.

What's that mean? Could you explain me more? I'm not quite with it. Thank you.

[adrianastrologer]

Sure Pan,

I am a professional astrologer and I would probably have to do a more in-depth study of your mother's chart to make any conclusions with confidence, but what I was referring to was the Pisces tendency towards absorbing negativity in the environment. Pisces comes at the end of the zodiac, and many consider it "the wise one" the sign that has empathy for all the signs that come before it. Pisces, when conscious, can be a sign that can use the power of unconditional love and understanding to bring about transformation, it is a sign that can represent a loss of self with an appreciation for the highest good for all, the sense that we are all one. Unconscious Pisces can be self-sacrifice to the point of self destruction, where there is a total lose of identity and one drowns in the murky, Neptunian sea of addiction, vagueness, fantasies and other people's negativity. I'm not saying that this is your mother, but I have another friend who is heavily Pisces and who is sick all the time. She doesn't have good boundaries and people come to her a lot to dump their problems and negativity and I think she absorbs it without a buffer.

Anyway, none of this is to say your mother's illness is her fault, I was just making the point that her "moodiness" may be the result of her working out some emotional challenges in her life and that you aren't responsible. I appreciate this may be a difficult time for you. I hope this helps.

[Pan]

Originally Posted by adrianastrologer

Sure Pan,

I am a professional astrologer and I would probably have to do a more in-depth study of your mother's chart to make any conclusions with confidence, but what I was referring to was the Pisces tendency towards absorbing negativity in the environment. Pisces comes at the end of the zodiac, and many consider it "the wise one" the sign that has empathy for all the signs that come before it. Pisces, when conscious, can be a sign that can use the power of unconditional love and understanding to bring about transformation, it is a sign that can represent a loss of self with an appreciation for the highest good for all, the sense that we are all one. Unconscious Pisces can be self-sacrifice to the point of self destruction, where there is a total lose of identity and one drowns in the murky, Neptunian sea of addiction, vagueness, fantasies and other people's negativity. I'm not saying that this is your mother, but I have another friend who is heavily Pisces and who is sick all the time. She doesn't have good boundaries and people come to her a lot to dump their problems and negativity and I think she absorbs it without a buffer.

Anyway, none of this is to say your mother's illness is her fault, I was just making the point that her "moodiness" may be the result of her working out some emotional challenges in her life and that you aren't responsible. I appreciate this may be a difficult time for you. I hope this helps.

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Thank you so much for your advise.