BBQ Man - again. Will smthing build from here?

KatyaVelikaya · #1 09-08-2010, 07:03 PM

Hi again everyone - I had posted a query/horary in early August
(here: http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum...ad.php?t=27016)

regarding a Virgo I met at a barbeque. His bday was yesterday and I posted on his Facebook wall congratulations. He posted an overall "thank you to everyone" along with an invitation to come to a party (same place as before - his house) this Saturday night. I intend to go.

Will something develop or build from here? By that I mean more frequent contact/friendship and or (sigh)...you know what I'm going to ask -- romance.

Here's the chart. I have to say i was stunned to see all the planets on one side. Is this a dragon's tail?? My take is no romance will come of this party. Something going on in his 4th house of home (well the party will be there). Saturn in his 5th house of women, hmmm.. Means difficulty for him to be in a relationship (?)
And both Mars & Venus in his 6th house of health/illness. What does THAT mean?
Jupiter/Uranus in his 11th (friends). Not sure what that means.
ZERO in my 7th or his 7th house...no romance. Any other takes?

misskitty · #2 09-09-2010, 02:31 AM

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Originally Posted by KatyaVelikaya

And both Mars & Venus in his 6th house of health/illness. What does THAT mean?

Rather than interpretting the significators as his 6th house, it is more significant to say they are in the 12th house. That is the worst house you can be in. In my opinion this chart is more or less echoing the other one you did last month, which is not surprising since that one should still be valid. The Moon is peregrine and combust, so it doesn't have power to act. His significator just changed signs, so there is a new situation in his life somewhere...

There is mutual reception between Mars and Venus. Mars is in the sign of Venus and Venus is in the sign of Mars, showing mutual attraction.

Also a dragon's tail is the South Node, not a grouping of planets.

You are conjunct Spica, a very fortunate planet.

EDIT: With the new Moon in Virgo the other day, and with all the activities affecting all Virgos lately thanks to the past Saturn/Uranus oppositions and now Merc Rx-- it is very possible that he is just in the middle of reorganizing his life. Attempt to get to know him anyway... just because the timing isn't right at the moment doesn't mean it won't be right later on...

KatyaVelikaya · #3 09-09-2010, 02:37 AM

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Originally Posted by misskitty

Rather than interpretting the significators as his 6th house, it is more significant to say they are in the 12th house. That is the worst house you can be in. In my opinion this chart is more or less echoing the other one you did last month, which is not surprising since that one should still be valid. The Moon is peregrine and combust, so it doesn't have power to act. His significator just changed signs, so there is a new situation in his life somewhere...

Also a dragon's tail is the South Node, not a grouping of planets.

I just don't think this guy is the one.

You are conjunct Spica, a very fortunate planet.

Hey Miss Kitty, thanks for chiming in on this. I am debating going -- I need the practice in his language (which is my 3rd; I speak it fluently but have few friends here who speak it, so that alone is a beneficial reason for me to go just to stop by). I am trying to think of a good reason I can only stay an hour on a Saturday night though :-) heh.

Anyway back to the chart. If the planets are in Saturn, and that's bad for me -- OK that makes sense. But if i am conjunct spica -- how does that reflect on this question? I mean if that's the case for me in this chart, then wouldnt it be positive for me if i go (related to this guy or not, i mean), and counteract Saturn?

If I'm the moon, peregrine, no power to act, it means i have no influence in this case (if i go to the party). OK...and i wonder what this New Situation in his life now is. Hm. Does it hint at woman or could it be anything, ie, job change, move, health, whatever?

misskitty · #4 09-09-2010, 02:44 AM

Sorry I had to edit my statement above once I realized there was mutual reception.

Yes, I believe you should definitely go! I added this above: With the new Moon in Virgo the other day, and with all the activities affecting all Virgos lately thanks to the past Saturn/Uranus oppositions and now Merc Rx-- it is very possible that he is just in the middle of reorganizing his life. Attempt to get to know him anyway... just because the timing isn't right at the moment doesn't mean it won't be right later on...

KatyaVelikaya · #5 09-09-2010, 02:47 AM

OK! Good news. Now I just have to pull myself out of this funk somehow and hope I can come across as attractive and charming. At present, it feels like an impossible order...

KatyaVelikaya · #6 09-14-2010, 04:25 AM

Wanted to post an update. (!!)

BBQ Man - things went VERY well. He paid a ton of attention to me and likewise I found myself asking him tons of questions -- there's some weird electricity in our communication that makes it smooth, natural but constant and really engaging. I can't explain it. It's like brain heat or something. Anyway, he invited me to two things in the course of the evening, one is a lesson in a sport/art form he does and the other is to the symphony in november. I wrote a thank you by email today and will see if/when he replies. I REALLY hope this does not just fall into oblivion for no reason, I REALLY hope it was not just empty words..> It sure didnt seem that way at the time. I have been on cloud nine for the past 48+ hrs as a result, a huge shift from my mood of the past 3 weeks.(!) I am fully smitten. He fits me in so many ways -- and I learned on Saturday that his initial education was in the same specialized area as mine (although now he is a scientist). It is uncanny how much he fits my profile of dream man. A far cry from the disaster I ended earlier this summer!!

I am hesitant to ask any more questions bc I am very afriad of bad news but i also wonder if a repeat question will be essentially the same as the one I asked (about something building?) Or could it be concluded that since he asked me out, Yes something is building, and I can ask another question about frequency or his intentions and it would not violate or repeat the first chart?

Hugs to all.