Explosive eratic anger?

[Arijana]

I've been having trouble with that..I usually have outbursts,that don't have much to do with anything,really strange as if I simply go berserk all of a sudden,jolts of explosive anger and the reasons could be minor ( example if someone says something to me that I think is offencive when in reality it was only a mild comment ) sometimes I don't need a reason why to loose my temper with someone,it can just clash woth my mood and goes off...Then I start screaming from the top of my lungs,I once jumped at a person and started to strangle them when they really didn't say anything bad,I break things,I scream so that you can hear me in 3 streets down,threaten, maybe jump at the person...I don't know why is that,is it Uranus on my asc that makes me blow ( amongst other things ) or...? The anger is eratic because it's not like I have to have a problem with someone to get angry I can just loose it for no reason

btw my progressed sun,mercury and moon are in aries,and progressed mars in aquarius if that helps while looking at my chart

also,I have Vulcanus in the 1st house in Saggitarius maybe that could mean something too? Dunno why but Vulcanus always associated me with some anger thing or agressiveness although I know little about him

[wilsontc]

Arijana,

You said:

Originally Posted by Arijana

I usually have outbursts,that don't have much to do with anything,really strange as if I simply go berserk all of a sudden,jolts of explosive anger and the reasons could be minor ( example if someone says something to me that I think is offencive when in reality it was only a mild comment ) sometimes I don't need a reason why to loose my temper with someone,it can just clash woth my mood and goes off...Then I start screaming from the top of my lungs

You have (being, also action, anger) (energy is combined with) (duty, also restriction), indicating a you can get angry when you feel frustrated or restricted from taking some action. is (energy is over-excited by) (home, also emotions), indicating this frustration "triggers" an emotional response. This is a "signature" of a person who has great anger and easily gets upset at things.

One thing you can try to solve this anger issue is to WAIT before responding at ALL. If you can, get AWAY from what is upsetting you. This should allow you to "settle down" and to respond in a calmer, more rational, less emotional way.

Suggesting,

Tim

[waybread]

With an afflicted moon in Cancer, you are probably a "moody", emotionally-driven person, in comparison with other people.

But isn't there something more than that big stellium opposing your moon here? You've got Black Moon Lilith and Pluto conjunct your Scorpio ascendant. This suggests control issues. Did you learn when you were a little child that if you had a temper tantrum, you could get your own way?

But obviously, you can stop this behaviour if you want to. You can imagine how people you care about feel about receiving an angry outburst. You can imagine how long you would last in a responsible job if you lost your temper at work. There are workshops and books on anger management. Barring that, the old advice was just, "Take a deep breath and count to ten" before acting on any angry impulse.

You have a strong chart, with 3 planets dignified in their own signs. So you can control your anger if you set out to do so.

lacellrein just gave me an idea, though. Do you participate in some kind of sport or hobby that allows you to release your anger in an acceptable, controlled way? Maybe take up a martial art or boxing.

[Arijana]

Originally Posted by waybread

With an afflicted moon in Cancer, you are probably a "moody", emotionally-driven person, in comparison with other people.

But isn't there something more than that big stellium opposing your moon here? You've got Black Moon Lilith and Pluto conjunct your Scorpio ascendant. This suggests control issues. Did you learn when you were a little child that if you had a temper tantrum, you could get your own way?

But obviously, you can stop this behaviour if you want to. You can imagine how people you care about feel about receiving an angry outburst. You can imagine how long you would last in a responsible job if you lost your temper at work. There are workshops and books on anger management. Barring that, the old advice was just, "Take a deep breath and count to ten" before acting on any angry impulse.

You have a strong chart, with 3 planets dignified in their own signs. So you can control your anger if you set out to do so.

lacellrein just gave me an idea, though. Do you participate in some kind of sport or hobby that allows you to release your anger in an acceptable, controlled way? Maybe take up a martial art or boxing.

This is true with control,the more I think about it-I always get angry when someone either insults me,or worse humiliates ( or tries to,in my mind ) me in public,since then I feel I am not in contro, I '' don't have the power'' and like it's been taken away from me,and since I'm not verbally very good at attacking people ( although sometimes I can be ) I go at it physically to try to regain control I suppose.

I actually do dancing, that's where all my anger kind of transforms into something postive and creative,but lately I just felt like I need to do something that has to do with fighting,since I don't think I've ever tried dealing with my anger that way. Funny thing people expect me to be very gentle, ''weak'' when they hear Pisces/scorpio moon in cancer and get kind of suprised when they see me act. I've noticed my progressions making the agression issue escalate,my progressed Sun,Moon and Mercury are in Aries, progressive Mars in Aquarius and my progressed asc will soon be sagitarius and I found any emotion inside of me,results in agression.
so just like will said,frustration leads to rage

[Arijana]

I also read Midheaven square Pluto can give a violatile personality,which I kind of have in a way. is there any chance of my Pluto being involved in my agressivenes?