Re: Ds he want to have sx with her?
His significator as a friend (Jupiter) receives hers (Venus) by triplicity. His significator as romantic interest (Mercury) doesnt. Both significators of him do not behold hers in any way.
However, Jupiter is in Scoprio (a modern co-significator of non-romantic sexuality). The Moon's only and last aspect is a conjunction with Pluto Rx, also a modern significator of the same issue. The aspect is taking place in the 8th house, which is also associated to the same thing in modern astrology.
The house of romantic sex, the 5th, is empty and it's ruler is VOC.
I think the guy only loves the querent as a friend, but doesn't mind a sexual relationship. At the moment, there is no romantic interest from his side to push that desire. It's probably just instinct and the fact that he finds her attractive.
It's important to distinguish between means and ends.