will we be together again after 14 years?

Astrodawn · #1 03-05-2010, 07:56 PM

Background:
I spent the happiest days of my life with a man I was with for 7 years, all my memories of happiness were with this man. We had a shop and spent the last 4 years of our relationship working together 24/7. After being in such close proximity for 4 years we just got sick of the sight of each other I suppose, he went back to London but returned 4 weeks later to try and resume our relationship but I being the stubborn stupid fool that I was then wouldnt have anything to do with him and he went back to London. It was the days before computers and mobiles, I moved house and we lost contact.
Since then my love for him has never faded and I have spent 10 years looking for him randomly on the internet hoping that he would appear somewhere but he never appeared anywhere.
Yesterday his sister found me on facebook! I only spoke briefly with her as it was late but I told her I had been looking for him she said he wasnt 21st century man and wont touch computers hence why he wasnt on!. I have given her my mobile number and she said she will give it to him when she sees him over the weekend.
Now I havent spoken to her since and dont know what his relationship status is or anything. I am completely filled with hope, but also very aware that it may come to nothing if he has moved on and found happiness.
So I have cast a horary chart with the simple question 'will we get back together?'

I have done a little research to try and answer the question and this is what I have come up with.

Lilly insisted on looking at the ascendant to see if it represents the querent.

In this case the ascendant is mercury which is me the one who has been trying to use communication of the internet to find him. So I agree with this.

It is at 16 degrees and so is not too early or late to ask the question.
He is jupiter (pisces on 7th house) both mercury and jupiter are in an applying conjunction in pisces but 6th house. Jupiter is in its ruling sign - good?? I am moving towards him? The 4 degree conjunction shows that we will at least meet up?
venus and uranus are also in the 7th house in conjunction? sudden start up of the relationship? this conjunction is also being trined by the moon and mars 9grand trine) in scorpio in the 3rd house again caused by communication or is this me hoping so much, but venus is opposite saturn in the first something stopping the meeting a restriction of is it a sign of longevity??

I dont know I dont have the skills for this but it all looks like a big yes to me...or is that because Im hoping its a big yes and going to get my long lost love back???

Please cast you expert eyes over this and help me PLEASE, and I will let you know the answer once (if) he phones me. Im just sat here now waiting and hoping and need something to think about/or be prepared for.

Thanks in advance Dawn

candiceaqua · #2 03-05-2010, 11:52 PM

This is really not a good time for asking a question.....as saturn retrogrades in the first house and moon is in her fall in Scorpio....

Moon is going to apply mars(in his fifth house) and venus(in his first house).

misskitty · #3 03-06-2010, 02:41 AM

The Moon is in her Fall in Scorpio, but that doesn't prevent the question from being answered, it just gives more information. The Saturn in the first house is a little mre troublesome, but I think you can still get some information from this chart.

Mercury (you) is applying a conjunction to Jupiter (him). It happens in 4 somethings. The Moon is applying a trine to Venus, ruler of his 3rd house of communication, in 5 somethings. Maybe in a month or so you will hear something? That Venus in the 7th could indicate that he is with someone else, however.

I think it is a yes, you will hear some news, but with the Moon in Fall and your significators being cadent and combust, I don't think it will go the way you hope. The Moon squares Neptune at the same time she makes the trine and your significators conjunct- signaling a realization that you may be over-idealizing your former relationship, perhaps. Just remember, there was a reason the two of you broke up in the first place...

Astrodawn · #4 03-06-2010, 09:06 AM

I have had a read through and wondered about that saturn myself?

I was hoping that the venus in 7th was me and not someone else, is there a possibility of that???

Also " Moon is going to apply mars(in his fifth house) and venus(in his first house)." Is not a grand trine like that not a good thing??? I cant take my brain away from natal astrology!!!!!

Anyway thanks for taking the time to answer, I should find out the whole situation sometime this week (possibly the 4 days!) and I will let you know the outcome or possibilities there may be.

I just have very strong gut feelings about it and Im a person who trusts through experience my guts!!

well fingers crossed eh and thanks

Dawn

lillyjgc · #5 03-06-2010, 09:37 AM

Ho astrodawn,
I've been working on a similar chart for a friend.
I too see the upcoming conjunction of Mercury and Jupiter, but look where it is: In the 12th house of the quesited, where power to act is diminished.
I think it means you two will *meet up* in a sixth house/daily affairs type situation but nothing will develop from that.
Does Mercury in pisces (its weakest state) have the power to make a lasting commitment with Jupiter and Jupiter is strong by sign but weak by position.
I too tend to see that Venus/uranus connection in h7 as indicating he already fell in love with someone else.Venus has already perfected that conjunction in his first house.
The moon tells us what will happen.The moon in Fall in scorpio (so relating to mars in yr house of friends).The moon applies a trine to venus-you may meet his woman.
The moon applies a trine to Uranus-this may happen unexpectedly.
The moon doesn't aspect your sig, or his.That's all in the past. Saturn in your first, ruling his 12th suggests to me he prefers to keep it all tucked away in his 12th house, not out in the open.
I'm REALLY sorry Dawn. I think you will get clarity about the whole thing as a result of the connection, whatever form it takes but Mercury moves on after a quick meeting with Jupiter.
I suggest take good care of your heart. Mercury hits up with the sun in combustion and the sun rules your 12th after merc and jupiter conjunct.
Again, I'm so sorry not to be giving you the news you want to receive.
Lilly

Astrodawn · #6 03-06-2010, 09:43 AM

its ok Lilly Thanks for your educated assessment of this horary.

If its not to be then its not to be I will just have to save that love in a special part of my heart for him. I am happy for him regardless of situation.

I had my last 2 boyfriend die and as I hadnt heard of him in 10 years I was worried that he had died too, so at least thats not the case and I know now that im not a comple jinx on men.

Again I will let you know the truth about this when I find out

Thanks Lilly x