We are a Mystery I can't figure out - Can you?

[elledee2]

For over eight months I haven't figured out WHY we have lasted. W.S. and I have this connection that is really intense, but not always pleasant. I feel like we have something important to teach to and learn from each other in this relationship. Does anybody know what this could possibly be and for how long it might last?

I know for me, I love him to the point of being almost a martyr - and he gives mixed messages galor. I have tried to break off communications with him numerous times, but he can't seem to let go, nor am I able to let go ... but the longer we know each other the more we trust and seem to like each other and the physical attraction has always been strong... it seem like we have gone through trials by fire to get to our present peace.

I have uploaded my chart and am including a link to the aspects - since I can't seem to figure out how to copy an adobe file ... Perhaps some master sleuth astrologers can figure out this mystery?

http://www.astro.com/tmpd/achart_zle...3240.d61gw.pdf

Thanks so MUCH,

Elle

[elledee2]

Hi All -

I forgot to upload my chart for the above post. Sorry for the confusion!

I haven't figured out how the upload feature works, so here is the chart link below. Any tips on how to get the upload to SHOW the chart?

http://www.publicupload.com/files/Chart_L_&_W.gif

Thanks SO much,

Elle

[Arian Maverick]

I haven't figured out how the upload feature works, so here is the chart link below. Any tips on how to get the upload to SHOW the chart?

Yes, SG (now known as Springup) created a great guide for this called Step by Step guide on -- How to insert an image here?.

If you are new to astrology, I recommend that you check out the other guides there as well--such as An Introduction to Planetary Aspects for Beginners and A Guide for Beginners - How to Get a Basic Interpretation.

I hope this helps!

EDIT: I have uploaded your synastry chart to the forums so other members may access it more easily.



Arian Maverick

[wilsontc]

Elle,

In relationships where there is a strong compulsion to be with each other or where one person feels compelled to be with the other there commonly is a strong Pluto (transformation, also control)/8th house-Venus/7th house (relationships) connection between the two people. In this case his Pluto conjuncts (energy is combined with) your Descendant (others - edge of the 7th house). This indicates he has control over the relationship. It is possible he COULD let go, but likes to be so completely in control. In these cases you might what to consider whether YOU like being so completely controlled by him.

In control,

Tim