bittermoon
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Unleashing is easy, as I'm sure my former employer can attest to. Being assertive is the answer. Also a lesson for me: Chiron in 1st in Aries.
Unleashing is easy, as I'm sure my former employer can attest to. Being assertive is the answer. Also a lesson for me: Chiron in 1st in Aries.
: I have Mars in Cancer in 9th, within a few minutes of being directly opposite Neptune i.
I toughened up over the years and I hope that I became less passive aggressive.
I have Mars in Libra and in the 8th of hidden matters. I do champion the underdog for sure and it sure to get me really angry to see injustice.A Libra Mars is like a slow burning, inactive but seething volcano of massive destruction. lol!
Mars isn't "home" in Libra, it's home in Aries - the exact opposite of Libra.
Some characteristics I have with this placement are:
Choosing battles carefully or wisely.
Detest arguing over BS and nonsense that doesn't even matter, triviality.
Arguing with someone who doesn't matter to me.
Ability to ignore situations that are not deemed "worthy" of my anger.
If I care about someone and something they've done is bothering me, I weigh all possible angles, maybe they didn't mean it - I tell them really calmly what my issue is (even if I'm angry as hell), and just see what they have to say.
If I see they start getting angry, I tell them to chill and we'll talk later
My mars is almost in Libra... 29 of virgo
I have much of that characteristics
I dont really have a temper or not physically violent much preferring to negotiate and to see all sides of the picture.....it upsets my equilibrium to see aggression and violence and that may be because Neptune is in exact conjunction...I can be nice even when I feel anger and that is probably not good.
astrologer50 said:Mars Retrograde
* reconsiders before expressing anger
* finds competitive situations hard to handle
* tends to repress and so ....
* can become depressed
Would you mind sharing how you do this now? I think it's important. Not because "aggression" is something to be aspired to, "assertiveness" is, but because how we evolve against what we feel are difficult placements is commendable. It's so true when they say it's "the natal promise". It doesn't have to be the "natal sentence".
Mine is a true classic case...Pisces mars...but opposed to Sun Jupiter conjuction and trine Scorpio moon. I seethe the same very way, but some times I have real trouble keeping it in and I can explode and even suprise my self.