allegragella
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Just need to get this off my cheast. I had a friend that was a Virgo. We were once best friends but he turned bad (Christianity fked with his head heaps) and I foolishly thought I could help him out of his depression since I got out of a deep depression myself. I knew him for 10 years before finally telling him to f off. I went back to him like 5 times after he hurt me mostly because I had no other good friends and he made me feel alive.
I think a main turning point in our relationship was when I gave him some advice. He had always been very arrogant and many times had said that he believed he was always right.
I advised him to broaden his theory of knowledge. Unfortunately he didn't have the maturity to apply the advise is the way I hoped. In retrospect I should have been a lot more specific since I already knew he took advice from pretty much no 1 due to his arrogance.
I meant to ask advice from trusted sources only and for each aspect like relationships/jobs/Investments. Well he went around literally asking everyone for advice on every little thing and trusting them. He was very insecure and probably didn't trust himself and even asked me for relationship advice with his GF when I had never had a GF. Several things went wrong and he ended up having less trust in everyone, hating me and becoming more arrogant.
I don't think he ever listened to me again, he was racist and was constantly critical of others and and me. He was depressed, sometime cut himself and drank most days.
He threw me up against the wall putting a huge hole in it when I told him 'no 1 was listening' when he was paranoid in his house.
He punched me in the head when I was driving and didn't indicate when no cars were around. This was on the way to buy him a meal. sigh
So many other incidents like that. My life was hell but I stuck by him because I knew he was suicidal. He probably only mentioned suicide as a form of control. Just like he constantly took offense at things that were nothing.
The thing that hurt me the most was that he always assumed the worst in me. That probably lead to a lot of his criticism and violence. Some how even though I was very generous and kind he couldn't see the real me.
I'm an Aquarius and unfortunately remember everything. Well I'll never trust a Virgo again to not be overly critical. My self esteem isn't ready for that yet.
I think a main turning point in our relationship was when I gave him some advice. He had always been very arrogant and many times had said that he believed he was always right.
I advised him to broaden his theory of knowledge. Unfortunately he didn't have the maturity to apply the advise is the way I hoped. In retrospect I should have been a lot more specific since I already knew he took advice from pretty much no 1 due to his arrogance.
I meant to ask advice from trusted sources only and for each aspect like relationships/jobs/Investments. Well he went around literally asking everyone for advice on every little thing and trusting them. He was very insecure and probably didn't trust himself and even asked me for relationship advice with his GF when I had never had a GF. Several things went wrong and he ended up having less trust in everyone, hating me and becoming more arrogant.
I don't think he ever listened to me again, he was racist and was constantly critical of others and and me. He was depressed, sometime cut himself and drank most days.
He threw me up against the wall putting a huge hole in it when I told him 'no 1 was listening' when he was paranoid in his house.
He punched me in the head when I was driving and didn't indicate when no cars were around. This was on the way to buy him a meal. sigh
So many other incidents like that. My life was hell but I stuck by him because I knew he was suicidal. He probably only mentioned suicide as a form of control. Just like he constantly took offense at things that were nothing.
The thing that hurt me the most was that he always assumed the worst in me. That probably lead to a lot of his criticism and violence. Some how even though I was very generous and kind he couldn't see the real me.
I'm an Aquarius and unfortunately remember everything. Well I'll never trust a Virgo again to not be overly critical. My self esteem isn't ready for that yet.
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