Hi all:
I am new to this site. I came across this site while I was searching for some answers regarding children in my chart. I'm in a difficult situation in life now as I got married a year ago for the first time and after a year of marriage I filed for a divorce. I really love and want children (at least one), but I feel like life let me down as I am 29 now without a kid and getting a divorce now. I do not know when again I will get married and IF that will happen to me again....as well as when I will have a child, if I will have one. So it's like I'm feeling down and scared that I will not have a chance to have a kid again. I had a miscarriage once when I was 24 and got pregnant during that miscarriage for the 2nd time, but I had an abortion for the second pregnancy as I was seeing someone much older than me and he had drinking issues, so there was no future there.
With my husband...his father was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer so he went overseas for the past 5-6 months to be with his family, got a job there and is supporting his parents financially while I am sitting here and getting tired of all this waiting especially that my husband only seems to care about his parents. He also supposedly was going to sell his apartment overseas so that we could buy a place in the US and basically start a normal life away from my own parents as we were living with them for a year until he went to be with his dad due to the illness. Now he said that he can't leave his parents in this situation, so I feel like I have to sit around and wait until his dad passes away for him to return? Even in that situation, knowing that his mom only wants his son next to him, he will later say that he needs to be with his mom for a while before he could return......so it's like I am the least of his concerns now for which I no longer want to waste my time....I feel angry and let down by life basically. So this is my background a bit. My worry is whether or not I might have met the 'quota' for pregnancies (2 failed ones by miscarriage & abortion?) and drained that quota basically? I wish this is not the case. I would really appreciate if you guys could help me out by answering 2 questions 1) Will I get married again (or reconcile with my husband); 2) Will I be able to have children again in life? 3) If you see anything interesting for interpretation or anything that could be helpful for me, I would love to find out.
I will post my chart and the chart of my husband for you guys to see. I found certain correlation between our 5th houses, but I am NOT even close to knowing how to interpret charts, so I might as well as be wrong. This is why I am here...to get your assistance PLEASE.
This is what I found....
ME: 5th in Virgo (Ruler is Mercury)---> Mercury in Aquarius.
HE: 5th in Aquarius (Ruler is Saturn)-->Saturn in Virgo.
Not sure if this coincidence means anything for us.
ME: February 25, 1983 @ 10:45 a.m. Yerevan, Armenia.
He: October 6, 1979 @ EITHER 5:00 a.m. OR 5:30 a.m. (There is a very slight difference between the position of a few plants I think.
I used the astro.com house default system and not the equal system...not sure which one matters. Again, thank you for your assistance in this...I wish i could have just posted the whole chart in my thread like some of you do it, but not sure how it's done.
I am new to this site. I came across this site while I was searching for some answers regarding children in my chart. I'm in a difficult situation in life now as I got married a year ago for the first time and after a year of marriage I filed for a divorce. I really love and want children (at least one), but I feel like life let me down as I am 29 now without a kid and getting a divorce now. I do not know when again I will get married and IF that will happen to me again....as well as when I will have a child, if I will have one. So it's like I'm feeling down and scared that I will not have a chance to have a kid again. I had a miscarriage once when I was 24 and got pregnant during that miscarriage for the 2nd time, but I had an abortion for the second pregnancy as I was seeing someone much older than me and he had drinking issues, so there was no future there.
With my husband...his father was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer so he went overseas for the past 5-6 months to be with his family, got a job there and is supporting his parents financially while I am sitting here and getting tired of all this waiting especially that my husband only seems to care about his parents. He also supposedly was going to sell his apartment overseas so that we could buy a place in the US and basically start a normal life away from my own parents as we were living with them for a year until he went to be with his dad due to the illness. Now he said that he can't leave his parents in this situation, so I feel like I have to sit around and wait until his dad passes away for him to return? Even in that situation, knowing that his mom only wants his son next to him, he will later say that he needs to be with his mom for a while before he could return......so it's like I am the least of his concerns now for which I no longer want to waste my time....I feel angry and let down by life basically. So this is my background a bit. My worry is whether or not I might have met the 'quota' for pregnancies (2 failed ones by miscarriage & abortion?) and drained that quota basically? I wish this is not the case. I would really appreciate if you guys could help me out by answering 2 questions 1) Will I get married again (or reconcile with my husband); 2) Will I be able to have children again in life? 3) If you see anything interesting for interpretation or anything that could be helpful for me, I would love to find out.
I will post my chart and the chart of my husband for you guys to see. I found certain correlation between our 5th houses, but I am NOT even close to knowing how to interpret charts, so I might as well as be wrong. This is why I am here...to get your assistance PLEASE.
This is what I found....
ME: 5th in Virgo (Ruler is Mercury)---> Mercury in Aquarius.
HE: 5th in Aquarius (Ruler is Saturn)-->Saturn in Virgo.
Not sure if this coincidence means anything for us.
ME: February 25, 1983 @ 10:45 a.m. Yerevan, Armenia.
He: October 6, 1979 @ EITHER 5:00 a.m. OR 5:30 a.m. (There is a very slight difference between the position of a few plants I think.
I used the astro.com house default system and not the equal system...not sure which one matters. Again, thank you for your assistance in this...I wish i could have just posted the whole chart in my thread like some of you do it, but not sure how it's done.
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