Finding Soul Mates

Zonark

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Hello, I want to tell you guys a story before I ask something. I started working at this little herbal apothecary a few miles from my house. The owner is this wonderful woman who is a master herbalist and all around awesome person. While working for her there, doing various plant related tasks (I thought I had a green thumb before, good lord was I a noob) we often talk about various things. For discretion purposes I won't be using names.

Her partner of 18 years is an astrologer. About a month before I came to work at the place, he had a severe stroke, putting him in a wheelchair and heavily impairing his coordination and ability to communicate. Obviously heartbroken by this and realizing how precious and fragile their love is, they decided to get married after 18 years spent together. They're both in their early 60's and when she hired me I was running around like a madman doing whatever I could to get the place ready for a wedding. Well, she ended up planning, organizing and having her wedding within 7 weeks time. I bartended for them and I must say it was the best wedding I've ever been to. So many people showed up to show their support for him and her. Such good vibes from everyone :love:

Talking to her and some of the employees, I learned what an incredible person he was before his stroke and that he had a real talent for understanding the stars and their connection to us. As a skeptic, I was intrigued by the respect so many people had for him. I began renewing my interest in astrology, which I had abandoned months ago, deciding it was all bonkers and codswallop.

So one day she tells me how they met. She would visit this bakery every day and he would show up there every so often too. They got to talking and he eventually went to help her out with some things at her herbal shop which she had been running solo. One thing led to another and before she knew it they're in love. He tells her later on that he used astrology to calculate where and when he would have to be to meet his soulmate.

I gotta say, from what I've seen of these two, they're made for each other. Even with him in such poor health she's absolutely devoted to him, to the point where I need to remind her every now and then to slow down and let me or some of the other hired help handle certain tasks. Their wedding was truly beautiful and whatever he did to find her, he must've done something right.

So now my question to you is, how does one use astrology to do what he did? How do you calculate when and where to meet your soulmate? Is it even possible?
 
soulmate connections
http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/soulmateastrology.html
http://www.synastry.us/soulmate_indicators.asp
http://www.ehow.com/video_4438856_soul-mates-astrology.html
“The heart of an astrological chart according to esoteric astrology are the moon's nodes, or points where the moon intercepts the earth's orbit around the sun. Your nodes diametrically oppose one another. So if your south node is in Capricorn, your north node would be in the opposite sign of Cancer and your soul's path would be moving from masculine, earthy Capricorn energies, into light, feminine Cancer”.
http://www.the-soulmate-site.com/astrological-soulmate.html
http://thezodiac.com/soulmates2.htm

http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/sexualattractionastrology.html
 

junoisuppose

Well-known member
Wow. I love this story!

You said that the stroke has impaired his ability to communicate, and obviously he has other more important things on his mind at the moment, but I was wondering if you could perhaps ask the man himself? Or the lady herbalist? Or any of his friends who are interested in astrology - he might have mentioned to them what it was that he looked for and saw in his chart.

If you ever find out, please update us and let us know. :smile:
 

Choe

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Wow. I love this story!

You said that the stroke has impaired his ability to communicate, and obviously he has other more important things on his mind at the moment, but I was wondering if you could perhaps ask the man himself? Or the lady herbalist? Or any of his friends who are interested in astrology - he might have mentioned to them what it was that he looked for and saw in his chart.

If you ever find out, please update us and let us know. :smile:

Yeah,it would be nice for us to know :smile:

Though, I'm a skeptic when it comes to details in astrology.

Many of the previous generations ppl who did astrology seem to be so confident in those detailed predictions, which sometimes I find there's no logical explanation for it !?
 
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Mark

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There is no way to do this with astrology alone. Intuitive perception in the moment would be more useful, but usually skews itself. The easiest way to get these results: be truly honest with yourself and ask the right questions.
 

Zonark

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Wow. I love this story!

You said that the stroke has impaired his ability to communicate, and obviously he has other more important things on his mind at the moment, but I was wondering if you could perhaps ask the man himself? Or the lady herbalist? Or any of his friends who are interested in astrology - he might have mentioned to them what it was that he looked for and saw in his chart.

If you ever find out, please update us and let us know. :smile:

The lady herbalist isn't much of an astrologer herself and I did ask her when she told me. She said she didn't understand most of the stuff he did :lol:

I could try asking him but I don't want to put him on the spot. As it is he has a hard enough time telling someone that he wants to eat/use the bathroom. It's very heartbreaking to see :sad:

He's improving and can walk a little bit on his own with a walker now. He prefers to nod and use facial expressions to express himself though.
 

Zonark

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soulmate connections
http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/soulmateastrology.html
http://www.synastry.us/soulmate_indicators.asp
http://www.ehow.com/video_4438856_soul-mates-astrology.html
“The heart of an astrological chart according to esoteric astrology are the moon's nodes, or points where the moon intercepts the earth's orbit around the sun. Your nodes diametrically oppose one another. So if your south node is in Capricorn, your north node would be in the opposite sign of Cancer and your soul's path would be moving from masculine, earthy Capricorn energies, into light, feminine Cancer”.
http://www.the-soulmate-site.com/astrological-soulmate.html
http://thezodiac.com/soulmates2.htm

http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/sexualattractionastrology.html

Hmm, so my North Node is in Aquarius and my South Node is in Leo.

http://astrofix.net/2011/02/04/north-node-in-aquarius-and-south-node-in-leo-by-house/ oh my god this describes who I want to be to a T. Amazing. Can't figure out which houses my Nodes are in though.

I think the N. Node is in the 2nd house and the S. Node is in the 8th house but I might be wrong.
 
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Zonark

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So I would be looking for someone with their North Node in Leo and south node in Aquarius?

Wouldn't that make us complete opposites as far as life paths, as I'm moving away from a more self centric life to a selfless centric life (I'm assuming the symbol that represents Aquarius, a guy pouring water out of a vase, is symbolic of selfless giving)?
 
So I would be looking for someone with their North Node in Leo and south node in Aquarius?

Wouldn't that make us complete opposites as far as life paths, as I'm moving away from a more self centric life to a selfless centric life (I'm assuming the symbol that represents Aquarius, a guy pouring water out of a vase, is symbolic of selfless giving)?

synastry is far more complex than just looking at nodal contacts. There is vertex, juno, Asc/Desc contacts, sun/moon contacts. etc.

When looking at a woman’s chart the type of man she would look for is her sun sign and mars traits, plus 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.
When looking at a mans chart for the type of woman he would look for is his venus and moon sign and then 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.

Although synastry is a valuable tool with astrology it cannot 'make things happen' even if you have the best synastry in the world unfortunately.

In synastry I use tight orbs and view aspects between one person's outer planets to the other person's inner planets as being "karmic connections"......usually with the outer planet person doing the teaching and the inner planet person doing the learning.

If you want to research more into synastry try here
http://cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/interchartaspects.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry_house_overlays.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry-houses.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastryaspects.html
http://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/astrology-marriage.html
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17513
http://www.astrotheme.com/synastry_advice.php
http://www.astrology-x-files.com/synastry/ascendant.html
http://astrologyfiles.com/free-horoscope-matching/
http://www.skyviewzone.com/lovematch/sunsynastryhouse.htm

Relationship sticky
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=28945
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showpost.php?p=254409&postcount=9

Unfortunately, there is no set formula or signature for marriage or childbirth, although others may disagree, apparently horary and vedic seem confident in this area. There are indicators and potential as there would be with natal, solar return chart but guarantees -- (post 2 & 3 below)
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?p=207744#post207744


Predicting marriage and/or having children can sometimes be done in general terms, but it is not easy, time consuming and intricate. There are lots of things to take into consideration like, secondary progressions, what inter-aspects one chart makes to another, Solar arcs, Solar returns, Transits etc
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=3192
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=3179
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=14255

Symbolic Directions in Modern Astrology – book by

By Charles E. Carter
http://books.google.co.uk/books?id=uDv0Xj9YjngC&printsec=frontcover&dq=astrology+Charles+Carter&hl=en&ei=w5HeS7G6DYb2-Aa71Oj_Bg&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=1&ved=0CD8Q6AEwAA#v=onepage&q&f=false

http://www.angelfire.com/ca2/rosemurray/WhenMarry.html http://starrynightastrology.com/2009/08/02/relationship-astrology-making-love-last-part-1-your-relationship-style/
http://www.astrologyfertility.com/CosmicBabies4.htm

member called Miss Saturn (which is now member ‘Shining Ray’) has a book/theory on how many marriages and children you might have on this thread…
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2013
http://books.google.com/books?id=0OJgX88KKMsC&pg=PA29&dq=carol+predictive+astrology+natal+marriage&ei=cgY9StL4L4XuzASuzMC6BQ
page 31
 

Zonark

Well-known member
synastry is far more complex than just looking at nodal contacts. There is vertex, juno, Asc/Desc contacts, sun/moon contacts. etc.

When looking at a woman’s chart the type of man she would look for is her sun sign and mars traits, plus 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.
When looking at a mans chart for the type of woman he would look for is his venus and moon sign and then 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.

Although synastry is a valuable tool with astrology it cannot 'make things happen' even if you have the best synastry in the world unfortunately.

In synastry I use tight orbs and view aspects between one person's outer planets to the other person's inner planets as being "karmic connections"......usually with the outer planet person doing the teaching and the inner planet person doing the learning.

If you want to research more into synastry try here
http://cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/interchartaspects.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry_house_overlays.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry-houses.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastryaspects.html
http://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/astrology-marriage.html
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17513
http://www.astrotheme.com/synastry_advice.php
http://www.astrology-x-files.com/synastry/ascendant.html
http://astrologyfiles.com/free-horoscope-matching/
http://www.skyviewzone.com/lovematch/sunsynastryhouse.htm

Relationship sticky
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=28945
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showpost.php?p=254409&postcount=9

Unfortunately, there is no set formula or signature for marriage or childbirth, although others may disagree, apparently horary and vedic seem confident in this area. There are indicators and potential as there would be with natal, solar return chart but guarantees -- (post 2 & 3 below)
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?p=207744#post207744


Predicting marriage and/or having children can sometimes be done in general terms, but it is not easy, time consuming and intricate. There are lots of things to take into consideration like, secondary progressions, what inter-aspects one chart makes to another, Solar arcs, Solar returns, Transits etc
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=3192
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=3179
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=14255

Symbolic Directions in Modern Astrology – book by

By Charles E. Carter
http://books.google.co.uk/books?id=uDv0Xj9YjngC&printsec=frontcover&dq=astrology+Charles+Carter&hl=en&ei=w5HeS7G6DYb2-Aa71Oj_Bg&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=1&ved=0CD8Q6AEwAA#v=onepage&q&f=false

http://www.angelfire.com/ca2/rosemurray/WhenMarry.html http://starrynightastrology.com/2009/08/02/relationship-astrology-making-love-last-part-1-your-relationship-style/
http://www.astrologyfertility.com/CosmicBabies4.htm

member called Miss Saturn (which is now member ‘Shining Ray’) has a book/theory on how many marriages and children you might have on this thread…
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2013
http://books.google.com/books?id=0OJgX88KKMsC&pg=PA29&dq=carol+predictive+astrology+natal+marriage&ei=cgY9StL4L4XuzASuzMC6BQ
page 31

Interesting. With synastry having the other potential partner's data seems vital, so what I'm wondering is how the heck he did what he did (if the story is true at all that is). I think perhaps he did use horary astrology as he has more than a few books on it, but still...
 

junoisuppose

Well-known member
Have been thinking about this more.

Synastry is important to see if you are compatible, but it is also something that you can feel just by being around the other person. For example if there is someone you are really attracted to or get on really well with comparing your chart with theirs usually just confirms what you felt.

& like you I am also skeptical about whether my soulmate's nodes would be opposed to mine...I haven't knowingly met anyone like that, so can't really comment there.

A lot of people do believe that a person's partner, possibly even 'ideal partner' can be seen in their chart. So one way of knowing where to go to find your ideal partner might be to look at where the ruler of your 7th house is by house and by sign. In my case my 7th house is Pisces, and the ruler neptune is in the 3rd house in Sagittarius. Confusingly Pisces has 2 rulers, the other ruler being Jupiter, which in my case is in the 9th house in Taurus. I don't know if I've met my soulmate but people I have met who might potentially be my soulmate (although I'm not convinced that there is such a thing) I have met at foreign language schools, and foreign language classes, which fits with neptune in Sagittarius (studying/foreign things) in the 3rd (communication, conversation), and most of the relationships I have had have included a lot of communication by e-mail/text (3rd house), (although going back to the days before such technology existed they involved short journeys around the neighbourhood, which is another 3rd house thing). Jupiter in the 9th house also fits with this - meeting foreign people or meeting people in places connected to studying and foreign things. And on a separate note when I have been abroad I have made friends with people working in restaurants (Taurus) or have met travel companions while in restaurants and cafes, that might just be a typical traveller experience or it might be because of my chart.

So to summarize after my slightly rambling explanation there, look at where the ruler of your 7th house is and go to those sort of places. You might meet people that are not your soulmate there, but if you meet your soulmate it is likely to be in that place.
 
How about employing your Local Space Map Chart and Astro-Cart'-Map.

What is a Soul Mate?

J.R.

What would you look for on an astro-map? venus, moon, sun,mars and even then you would be prepared to relocation half way accross the world on the off chance of meeting someone more suitable. This is very impratcal...
What is soul mate - the generalised assumption is someone who completes them, their other half --- as if they are only half and apply or oange. The ideal partner/soul who 'gets them' in completeness, warts and all.

persoanlly, I don't think you will ever find someone to do this. perhaps if someone has low self esteem, they could be more inclined to seek 'others' to fufill a missing element (in their chart) or who may complete or trigger a grand trine (if they have one)
 
Hmm, so my North Node is in Aquarius and my South Node is in Leo.

http://astrofix.net/2011/02/04/north-node-in-aquarius-and-south-node-in-leo-by-house/ oh my god this describes who I want to be to a T. Amazing. Can't figure out which houses my Nodes are in though.

I think the N. Node is in the 2nd house and the S. Node is in the 8th house but I might be wrong.

North Node is about *life lessons* not necessarily soul mate.You could look to vertex and Juno to.

So now my question to you is, how does one use astrology to do what he did? How do you calculate when and where to meet your soulmate? Is it even possible?
put simply you can't
 

JerryRR

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Question
Zonark
Finding Soul Mates?
Zonark
How does one use Astrology to do what he did?

Perhaps he employed A.C.G.M and L.S.M?

Statement.
A50
This is very impractical.

I suggest you contact David Meadows or Martin Davis,and suggest to them that employing these Astrology techniques to find partners is very impractical.Ask David how he met his partner.

Zonark,I recommend,Martin Davis book,"Astrolocality Astrology",Spica 2000 Award Winner.

J.R.
 
I must admit I have never heard of * Local Space Map Chart* is this something different from Astro-Cart'-Map??

I suspect this is a new development in astrology, one which you seem to favour. shame you didn't feel inclined to explain a little more about what it actually means...... or go reaad a book, that was really helpful to OP

Perhaps he employed A.C.G.M and L.S.M?

So instead of blinding members with letters, suggesting you are some kind of authority, why don't you explain to everyone what these *letters * mean, after all this is a learning forum....

Just trying to clarify matters...
 

JerryRR

Well-known member
Quote.
"Although the Horizon System may be new to you,it is actually an ancient system widely used throughout the world."
Steve Cozzi,author of "Planets in Locality." Exploring Local Space Astrology."
Zonark,chapter 2 you may find interesting."The Local Space Chart in the Home and Community."

Happy Exploring.

J.
 

molly91

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Hello, I want to tell you guys a story before I ask something. I started working at this little herbal apothecary a few miles from my house. The owner is this wonderful woman who is a master herbalist and all around awesome person. While working for her there, doing various plant related tasks (I thought I had a green thumb before, good lord was I a noob) we often talk about various things. For discretion purposes I won't be using names.

Her partner of 18 years is an astrologer. About a month before I came to work at the place, he had a severe stroke, putting him in a wheelchair and heavily impairing his coordination and ability to communicate. Obviously heartbroken by this and realizing how precious and fragile their love is, they decided to get married after 18 years spent together. They're both in their early 60's and when she hired me I was running around like a madman doing whatever I could to get the place ready for a wedding. Well, she ended up planning, organizing and having her wedding within 7 weeks time. I bartended for them and I must say it was the best wedding I've ever been to. So many people showed up to show their support for him and her. Such good vibes from everyone :love:

Talking to her and some of the employees, I learned what an incredible person he was before his stroke and that he had a real talent for understanding the stars and their connection to us. As a skeptic, I was intrigued by the respect so many people had for him. I began renewing my interest in astrology, which I had abandoned months ago, deciding it was all bonkers and codswallop.

So one day she tells me how they met. She would visit this bakery every day and he would show up there every so often too. They got to talking and he eventually went to help her out with some things at her herbal shop which she had been running solo. One thing led to another and before she knew it they're in love. He tells her later on that he used astrology to calculate where and when he would have to be to meet his soulmate.

I gotta say, from what I've seen of these two, they're made for each other. Even with him in such poor health she's absolutely devoted to him, to the point where I need to remind her every now and then to slow down and let me or some of the other hired help handle certain tasks. Their wedding was truly beautiful and whatever he did to find her, he must've done something right.

So now my question to you is, how does one use astrology to do what he did? How do you calculate when and where to meet your soulmate? Is it even possible?

I don't know that it's possible because there just aren't guarantees due to free will. I think that some things can show how energy might affect you. But there's a lot of uncertainty.

I think I know what he would have used, though...

Where: he may have looked at an astrocartography map to see where certain planetary lines were running and/or intersecting. I would say that he looked at where his Venus rising and/or setting lines were running through. Also, to confirm the city near where the line ran, he may have looked at the sign and ruler's despositer of his 7th house to see what cities had that sign as well.

When: He must have looked at his progressions and/or transits, to see what was hitting that 7th house (and also, what houses its ruler was in and aspects it was making).

Note: I wouldn't invest stock into that formula because there's no data to support it.
 
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