Hi everyone!
I see here and everywhere pretty much so many people disregarding Mercury has a relationship planet. And sexual speaking is one of the sexiest planets it can be!
As humans our minds dictate much regarding our approach to sex,if we are open or have blockages, if we think about sex and what we think. And how we can turn ourselves on or just by thinking of someone.
Mercury has rulership over my 12house of bed pleasures, is in my 7house in sensual tauraus and trines Eros in my 3rd house.
So sex is on my mind and is most important in partnership.
My partner's Mars(his 7h e 12h rulers) conjunct my Mercury who falls in his 1st house. So although he pursued me at the beginning I'm the one on his face now.
To complement this his psyche is conjunct my eros trined by my merc/his Mars.
He says I think of sex all the time. Lol
Though his Mars is in the 1st house, it's the 7th ruler so it would suggest the partner being on the pursue of him!
Mercury should be given more credit in sexual matters. One may have a great stamina (mars) but not mental stimulation.
Mercury can stimulate our stamina and in synastry someone's sex charged planet can stimulate your mind and vice-versa.
Stuff like:
You blow my mind,you make me go crazy, all I can think about is having sex with you,teasing verbally,etc... it's very mercurial!
Then, how can an argument with someone be such a turn on?
And with others a turn off?
How can I think of ways to spice your sex life?
Let's talk about sex!
What are your sexual fantasies?
Mars doesn't think about this, it is the style when in action, raw and physical needs. Animal instinct?
Freud would agree on this!
How our libido is conditioned by our minds.