I don't think he's seeing someone per his parents imposition.Venus(him) receives Mercury by exaltation.Mercury rules his 5th house of romance and sits in his 11th house of romance.Venus also receives Jupiter,ruler of his 11th,in its own sign,so my bet is that he already has someone in his group of friends who he is romantically interested in.
No need to spend your time running after men who are playing hot and cold with you Tinkum...if I'm judging for the chart correctly it'd be best for you to move on and leave it alone.Running after a man isn't healthy exercise