I am a capricorn asc pisces
my first partner of 18 years was 7 older than me (aquarius), i never married but lived together
my present partner is 6 years younger than me and so tasty, physically and emotionally (an aquarius)
if i look my 7th house virgo/libra signs (i have jupiter/uranus/sn/pluton/PF Conjonction and trigone mercury ) and also a mars located in 7th house but in scorpio sign square moon/mercury sextile venus (so this mars will represent my first partner behaviour) a passion but not love
the younger one will than represent my 9th house (second partner sagitarius) hence jupiter (in Libra 7 House) sextile mercury (lord 3/4 in aquarius 11th house)
differences between both, one was ignorant and violent, the another is soft, loving and wicked
the first one might have represented a daddy figure at the beginning? but more i lived with him, more he reacted with trantrums, inconsistent, immature and jack and hyde personality. Than one day i realised that I have become his mummy and the delusion set in. (Lost track of what was the relation all about)
the second makes me more emotional, more feminine, more me, and a smiling lady. Does he needs a mummy? no he always went out with mature woman (his latest partner was 14 years older than him), what he is seeing in me, Love as simple as that, security maybe? children (no i have 2 on my own) and i may have my last chance of last one (39years now)
Maybe as they are younger than us, they bring us some challenge of fighting the younger ones and a need to maintain our body lol
and non je ne regrette rien