Ok so the main aspects that deal with attraction and love would be:
North + South Nodes
Sun (only when strongly aspected to others listed here)
Moon
Venus
Mars
Asc
Saturn (for longevity, or can be seen as a negative influnce)
Did I miss anything?
Those aside though, what I'd really like to talk about is specific signs in relation to those planets, how they affect charts and the relationships.
For instance, some people believe that we attract, or are attracted to elements that we lack in our own chart. Do you agree or disagree? However, it's a lot more common to believe that we attract people with similar qualities (like trines, I guess) or our opposition.
In my experience I attract fire signs quite a bit, especially Aries. I also receive a bit of notice from all the water signs, and Aquas tend to flock to me like moths to a flame. The fire and water people I can understand since that's the main composition of my chart - it's the aquas that I don't understand. This is why I was thinking that what you lack would gravitate towards you (since I have next to nothing for air influence on my chart), only I don't get that from Libras or Geminis. The same with Earth signs, though I do have a smidgen of that.
I'd like to know if anyone elses experiences are similar. Also, if you don't mind my asking, just looking at people what are you generally attracted to, sun sign wise. I know it's a bit hypocritical to only take into account sun signs when I was saying above it's only important when aspected to certain other things, concerning love an attraction, but without knowing exact birth dates and birth times, it's all I have to go by.
I find that when I am browsing online dating sites, I usually go for fire signs, Capricorns, Virgos, other Cancers, Scorpio, and Libras. Unless I'm looking at Asian guys in which case it tends to be water signs, Leos and Virgos. I find that the ones I tend to find the most visually appealing are the Caps, which makes sense, because it's my opposition. For Asian guys it's Cancer, followed closely by Scorpio, which also makes sense because of it being a conjuct or trine (and the fact alone that it's Scorpio).
What are some of the experiences that everyone else has had? Or observations? I'm puzzled to no end about the constant Aquas about, but yet no other air signs. I'm wondering if other people have similar experiences and I'd just like to see if some of my musings are correct.
random tidbit - anyone else find uniforms hot? like military dress uniforms? or suits? personally i hate wearing any kind, and i'm always the goof off or rebel but man can they make a guy look SLICK. has to be my mars in cap going off there.
North + South Nodes
Sun (only when strongly aspected to others listed here)
Moon
Venus
Mars
Asc
Saturn (for longevity, or can be seen as a negative influnce)
Did I miss anything?
Those aside though, what I'd really like to talk about is specific signs in relation to those planets, how they affect charts and the relationships.
For instance, some people believe that we attract, or are attracted to elements that we lack in our own chart. Do you agree or disagree? However, it's a lot more common to believe that we attract people with similar qualities (like trines, I guess) or our opposition.
In my experience I attract fire signs quite a bit, especially Aries. I also receive a bit of notice from all the water signs, and Aquas tend to flock to me like moths to a flame. The fire and water people I can understand since that's the main composition of my chart - it's the aquas that I don't understand. This is why I was thinking that what you lack would gravitate towards you (since I have next to nothing for air influence on my chart), only I don't get that from Libras or Geminis. The same with Earth signs, though I do have a smidgen of that.
I'd like to know if anyone elses experiences are similar. Also, if you don't mind my asking, just looking at people what are you generally attracted to, sun sign wise. I know it's a bit hypocritical to only take into account sun signs when I was saying above it's only important when aspected to certain other things, concerning love an attraction, but without knowing exact birth dates and birth times, it's all I have to go by.
I find that when I am browsing online dating sites, I usually go for fire signs, Capricorns, Virgos, other Cancers, Scorpio, and Libras. Unless I'm looking at Asian guys in which case it tends to be water signs, Leos and Virgos. I find that the ones I tend to find the most visually appealing are the Caps, which makes sense, because it's my opposition. For Asian guys it's Cancer, followed closely by Scorpio, which also makes sense because of it being a conjuct or trine (and the fact alone that it's Scorpio).
What are some of the experiences that everyone else has had? Or observations? I'm puzzled to no end about the constant Aquas about, but yet no other air signs. I'm wondering if other people have similar experiences and I'd just like to see if some of my musings are correct.
random tidbit - anyone else find uniforms hot? like military dress uniforms? or suits? personally i hate wearing any kind, and i'm always the goof off or rebel but man can they make a guy look SLICK. has to be my mars in cap going off there.
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